this girl asked my bf out, he said he has a gf. but i think shes making him like her. and he told me hes confused aboutt this. and hes acting different shes hurting our relationship, but shes hurting me really bad because i realllly love him. i don't know what to do. what should i do? do i talk to her or wat?
2007-03-06 18:37:18 · 7 answers · asked by pink_tux1466 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says hes not breaking up with me but since he said hes confused,does that mean he has a soft spot for her.
2007-03-06 18:41:36 · update #1
wow...I was once stuck in the same situation & it didn't turn out so good for me because I tried to ignore the situation cuz I didn't want to make a big deal out of it. But later I realized that it is a very big deal especially if you have really strong feelings for this other person. Instead of talking to her u should talk to ur bf. Confront him and ask him how he really feels about her. And let him know that if he's gonna be with you then he has to give you all his attention or none at all. Its all or nothing in situations like these....I really hope this works out for you and I wish u the best! :)
Love, *Amanda*
2007-03-06 18:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by *Manda* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWW !!! ok heres what u should do ! Follow my advice ok !
You should go talk to the girl in a nice well mannered way !
Tell her to stop cause shes being a slut by trying to steal your boyfriend ! Plus tell her to go find herself her own and leave u and ur boyfriend alone!
If ur boyfriend loves u as well as u love him then he wouldnt pay attention to that other girl that likes him ! so yeah sweetie u should try taking care of it ! cause it seems like it needs to be taken care of immeditely!Hunn i hope all goes well and i only wish you the best so yeah if u ever need someone to talk to then email me at anabell_bandini@yahoo.com! feel free to tell me everything!
2007-03-06 18:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwww, i hate that too. But don't worry if you really love him and he really loves you. Then he will be with you and only you. But tell him to ignore her because it's hurting you then he should listen to you because it seems like he cares. Also tell the girl how you feel and that he's with you and tell her to find her own. She will feel stupid and stop. If she argues just walk away. Or tell your bf to tell her while you are there that he doesn't want to be with her then she will also feel embrassed and will leave him alone. Good Luck.
2007-03-06 18:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by JAMILAH D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Then talk to him and see how strong he thinks your relationship is. If he doesn't think it's strong, then work with him to build it up.
If you need some more advice, feel free to email me.
- The Date Doctor
2007-03-06 18:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend needs to talk to her. if he truly loves you, he wont falter. if there is a question in his mind, he needs to address it right now. this is between him and her. your going to her and talking is only going to make her want him even more. if he cant decide what hes going to do, then let him go, you need someone who is truly for you. not someone who cant decide when someone comes around starting trouble.
2007-03-06 18:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would confront her and then talk to my boyfriend about the situation. if he wants to work things out with you, then he should stop seeing her.
2007-03-06 18:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by candypants oops! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur bf about your query. it depend upon ur bf if he will ride those matter.
give ur bf freedom. he comback, he is yours.
2007-03-06 18:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by PG_13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋