OMG! I'm getting so sick of all these dorky guys asking me out! I try turning them down nicely but then the next day its a totally different one asking me out & i'm back to square one again! And I did go out with this guy who was al least half-decent but I broke up with him cuz his best friend was all mad at him cuz they both liked me but I chose this guy over the other one. So they weren't talking to eachother & I just got sick of it & had to tell him that I didn't feel right coming betweent their friendship. Anyways...he still really really likes me & he wants to kiss me but if I do kiss him it will be my first kiss & he knows it. I really don't wanna kiss him cuz i'm saving it for when I find true love & he knows that but he won't leave me alone about it. He even suggests that we do a bit more than kiss & I don't feel comfortable with it. He knows that I'm not that kind of girl who does things like that...what can I do to make him & all these other guys to leave me alone?
2007-03-06 18:42:20 · 14 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be strong. These guys just want to get into your pants! They have no respect for you or your feelings. Glad to know you'll keep your first kiss for someone you truely love (and your virginity to the man you marry).
Tell these guys off, be angry in front of their friends and your friends. Talk to your parents or teacher. Make them think twice before asking you again. Start talking with them only if they are repentant.
2007-03-06 18:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by amn1717 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I reread your question twice. I an still not sure what the problem might be. Guys are dorky? What is your definition of a Dork? Maybe some of the problem is you. Carefully analyze your self. Try to state your problem more clearly and some might be able to help.
2007-03-06 18:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the teacher about the situation and ask to have your seat changed. It hurts to be rejected after waiting on pins and needles for 12 weeks and he proabably is owed an apology for that. Tell him you've always liked him, but you didn't realize that he felt the way he does. Tell him the situation is now terribly uncomfortable for you and you need some distance. You're not lying.
2016-03-28 22:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even read everything you wrote it was so long. Maybe get them to leave you alone by keeping things brief with a "no thank you." If they bother you too much, walk away, stay away, tell them to leave you alone. It doesn't seem complicated unless they are abusive in which case you might seek help from someone else.
2007-03-06 18:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jonathan H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't want to get involve in anything that will hurt your mind or his mind because just by having problems with his friend is not good. He would not be feeling at ease when he sees his friend. He should just try and understand you and moreso you are preserving yourself for your true love.
2007-03-06 19:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Goldah N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm thats a whole lot of questions in one question... lol
maybe try seperating it and stop saying "cuz" and "omg!" and the run on sentences also get annoying too. First learn how to write a question, then I'll give you advice.
2007-03-06 18:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious Person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like them don't go out with them. Sooner or later thay wil give up and move to greener pastures. These guys sound like a bunch of losers. Sounds like you're nice to lots of people so they get encouraged. Please don't stop being nice, just be patient and someone you like will ask you out.
Best Wishes
2007-03-06 19:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by Christine J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, got tired just reading that question. that is some drama you got going there girl. funny, but someday when you get older, you may just wish you had chosen the dork. in the meantime...ah, try telling them something like....uh, sorry, but i am planning on being a nun. it would ruin my plans if you violate me.
2007-03-06 18:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by ballcracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG i really want to pash this guy rite but his friend likes me they live nxt to each other and tell each other eveything don't do it
2007-03-06 18:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by i love scotty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it is time to grow up and stand your ground. if they are that bad, you need to ignore them totally. so comments to them, no responses to them, nothing. if they persist, you need to get an adult involved. preferably, the police. this is harassment. be careful of the games little boys like to play with little girls.
2007-03-06 18:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋