.. i hope no offense or anything.. but how long do you ladies wait before sleeping with a guy that youve known or met?... how long should a guy wait so he wont look all perverted/?.. just curious.
2007-03-06 18:34:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go with the flow. When it feels right do it. I have waited over a month before, I have waited less than a day before. In fact my fiance and I did not wait at all and 2 years later could not be happier. Neither of us lost any respect for the other for not waiting. We just felt it was right and went with it.
2007-03-06 18:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Miss La La 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you feel about the guy. Some girls wait til they know they love the guy. Others wait long enough to see whether the guy is just in it for the sex. It varies alot. Usually the girl will let you know when she's ready and if you ask before that she might think you are too eager.
2007-03-07 02:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by ♫ՖքØØķ¥♫ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the individual!!
the most common waiting time is 1-3 months..
..(this is to convince themselves that they are respecting their bodies, and they think - if they respect their bodies their partner will respect them for doing this)
....but most women can have sex with their partner within a week of meeting them, so its all different.
but if you are dealing with a virgin then chances are you could be looking at anything from 1-6 months+
Just start by seducing her, gentle kisses and back rubs etc then see where it goes from there.
If she says no shes not ready then don't pressure her..its likely that she will just start to hate you and you would make her feel like sh*t.
In that case of her saying No then ask..how long will she wait.
2007-03-07 02:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful - 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl and other things. Like how long you've known each other, how comfortable she is in front you, and if she's looking for something like that. Bring it up casually in conversation, but not bluntly or anything. Just see how it goes from there.
2007-03-07 02:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by jachei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my, do you have an interest in someone? lol, sex with a person is an individual thing. if its on the first night or the six month anniversary, it takes two to decide. you do what is right for the both of you. if you want to have sex I'm sure someone on a street corner can accommodate. if your looking for a relationship, make sure you are compatible before the sex.
2007-03-07 02:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i usually see in the beginning if i want a serious relationship with a guy in which case i will wait for 2-6 weeks to have sex with him (if i still like him after getting to know) or...i just want to have sex with him wright away and he is just gona be a booty call.
2007-03-08 02:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you both r in love and ready. I know the guy would be ready at ne point in time, but RESPECT the LADIES, it will get u far in a relationship.
2007-03-07 03:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by kissingislove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want it if it's easy! Just wait until you get a vibe that she is ready. Talking about it too fast can be a turn-off as well.
2007-03-07 02:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Fireanddesir 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the female and the guy. Some guys you just want to jump his bones right way and others you just don't want them to touch you, until they grow on you. And that goes vice versa.
2007-03-07 02:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by Vivian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends...on if we were friends before or if we are just dating...dating it is kind of hard to say...but if you were friends for a while...then you should do it when ya'll both feel comfortable.
2007-03-07 02:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by djsbabygirl2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋