My heart has mended and I am redy for love.How do you find out if your potential partner do's not have a S.C.D. without insulting her.Condoms I can use. but what about Dining out.If you know what I meen. A good answer and spelling will get you 10 points.Insults will get you nothing.
2007-03-06 18:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have any compassion for women do them a favor and remain out of the dating CIRCUIT. Spelling will get me 10 points? How about a minus 50 for yours? bin=been do's=does S.C.D.=S.T.D. meen=mean
I guess I get nothing, happily!
2007-03-06 18:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by bomullock 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be very careful, my friend. while in this day and age, condoms are widely used. not all like to use them. the conversation to have is while your getting to know the person. no so much who or how many partners they have been with, but an inquiry as to what the medical health all around is accepted. ask a doctor about the dining out aspect. that is something that goes with which disease that person might have. just remember, communication is the key to get started in the right direction. if there is a true interest in you, there shouldn't be any offense taken. she might be thinking the same of you,
2007-03-06 18:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No much has changed since Romeo wooed Juliet below her window. Be a gentleman, act courteously and chivalrously, be entertaining and charming. There's still lots of time in a relationship to develop before ending in bed (ie. if you are interested in a longterm commitment and not a one-night-stand). So, don't push it, even though you are both adults. If you get invited in for a nightcap or more, let the lady make the move. Safe sex is always best.
2007-03-06 19:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by amn1717 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finding someone who can be open and honest with you is very important. I think if you find the right person and decide to move your relationship to a sexual level, it is very acceptable to say, "I'm excited to be intimate with you, but I think it's important for us both to be tested first." That way she knows you want to be with her, but want to be safe at the same time. Also, by BOTH of you being tested she knows that you do not discredit her, but know that it is possible for any sexually active person to contact an STD. If she has a problem with this, then she is probably not a good choice. There are SO many STDs floating around out there; primary preventative care is the best way to go.
2007-03-06 19:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best, and only true way to find out is to ASK.
Do you trust this person to tell you the truth?/\
If they have nothing to hide, they will not object to medical screening before you proceed any further into the relationship.If they do have a problem, screw them.....self preservation is a must now days....you can never be too careful....not like the old days when you could go to the doctor and get a shot to cure what ails ya.......the stuff out there could kill you now. You can NEVER be too careful..................
2007-03-06 19:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Penny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If youve been out of the game for 25 years, then dust off your shoulders and get ready for a loooooot of new information. Dating changes, and since it's been awhile, you're going to need to learn some new tricks. As far as STD's go, I say protect yourself as best you can, but don't stress your life out about it. You only live once, so make it a good one
2007-03-06 18:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you are getting older now and need someone to be in your partner forever. find in a decent way not just collect and select.
2007-03-06 18:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by PG_13 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋