Is it me or is it him??

Question

ok well every time me and my partner have sex , i feel it ends too fast. theres always forplay involved but i cant say i end up being satisfied all the time.. so heres my big question, is somethin wrong with him or am i expectin too much??

Answer 1

Hey there sweetie :D
Well actually there something wrong with him !
Because it seems hes not much of an excitement in bed !
Which is a big turn off for some girls!
U need to tell him to be more at it in sex u know and not just be like a mecahnic trying to apporiate a machine ! u see hes acting like the mecahnic and ur the car hes trying to operate in a boring un satisfied way!
In addition darling heres what you do ! Buy some sex books at any books store available,adult books store works,sex toys,and tryinf adding some food to sex well like simple not so messy foods u know what im saying ur unique but yes follow this and he will worship you !

Answer 2

Umm...no disrespect, but are you both very young? What I mean is 20's and under. Because when a man gets a little older, he begins the unselfish phase, where he actually cares about whether his woman is pleased. Now, even a man in his late thirties will have this same problem, but my ex at least tried to make up for it by giving me "lip service" there first. If he didn't, then yes it would be over in about two minutes and I accepted this. I knew that it wasn't anyone's fault, and at least he made sure I was satisfied by getting it back up shortly after the first round.

You should not feel bad for wanting to be satisfied. Just give the guy some suggestions on how you can both get yours. If he complains, then I guess it will be some years before he understands how it really works. Good luck.

Answer 3

hehehehehe!!
You can blame the internet and porn for all the unsatisfied women out there.
Sadly, guys are being trained by the internet that Sex is all about them, and not their partner.
You arent expecting too much, you just havent voiced your expectations loud enough. You need to let this guy know that you arent a internet porn model, and you DO have some expectations. You are not a movie that can be deleted as soon as he finishes the job,.....you are the real thing, and you will be there to hold his hand when he is sick and any other time he may need you.
Good luck!
D@N

Answer 4

It's him. If he just jumps on, deposits and exits, your getting short changed! A mans first and only priority is to make sure his lady has multiple O's before he finishes. She should be taken care of for a good 45 minutes before he even thinks about himself. My jaw and tongue hurt, but I go the extra mile for her to have multiple O's first.

If your not satisfied 100% of the time, all of the time, you need to make some changes. Your getting ripped off in the pleasure department.

Answer 5

well, ok, some may agree or disagree with this....but I have heard that about 20 minutes is average time for a man to keep going before he's ready to be done. this is a man in late 30's, 40's, etc.
so say 30 to 40 minutes for a man age late teens 20's. if you are dealing with say it's ending in about 5 or 10 minutes, there could be some problems with him. if that's the case, have him talk to his doctor about it. hope that helps you some.

Answer 6

Just let him know. I always take care of my girlfriend two or three times before I finish (that doesn't always mean through penetration). Find out what works for you. You should also try to some mental foreplay not just physical. I don't mean watching porn together or anything, but you should try to get a little heated up before you even make it to the bedroom.

Answer 7

well your partner should take his time with you mine gets off a couple times but keeps going till i do it always takes the girl longer i actually had my first orgasm tonight i was excited and still am but my partner always takes time for me so you should tell your flat out and dont ever fake it cause then he will never know

Answer 8

Nobody has a problem. He just has a premature ejaculation, thats when he cant hold the sperm in longer then a couple minutes. (Most guys have this with their first partner)

If you need some more advice, feel free to email me.
- The Date Doctor

Answer 9

you should try suggesting to him to go slow next time..then if it still does not satisfy you, maybe youre not really compatible in bed. (like im some expert in these kinda stuff!lol)

Answer 10

there is nothing wrong with him he is probably really excited about it when ya'll do the deed...but all it is a mind set when you go to do it...try more foreplay or things that will slow him down.