Family & Relationships - 4 March 2007

My fiancee and I would like to elope this May and have only $1500 to work with. Unfortunately, I'm having trouble planning an out of town wedding on our budget. Can you please help me figure out where we should go and more specifically who has a wedding package we can afford?

Expenses to consider:
1. Gas for car (or airfare). We are based in Buffalo, NY and are willing to drive anywhere within a 10 hr.'s drive.
2. Hotel
3. Wedding services - should include photography since we won't be having any guests
4. Fiancee's ring - $120 (overstock.com - the ring has already been chosen).
5. Spending money
6. Marriage license

Please take into account all of the above factors when answering. An answer like "Niagara Falls," doesn't help me.

2007-03-04 04:37:56 · 6 answers · asked by Galoshes 3 in Weddings

but i have kept my wedding dress in storage. now our oldest daughter is getting married and i am wondering if it would be very bad "mojo" to offer her my dress. it would look good on her and has stood the test of time (still in style)
or should i just forget the whole idea and not even offer it?

2007-03-04 04:37:25 · 16 answers · asked by annenymous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-04 04:35:46 · 13 answers · asked by missty_queen 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 04:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by lili777 1 in Weddings

okay this guy that just started going to my church is a little older than, almost 2 years, he likes me and my cousin both,,,,,my cousin is 4 years younger than him BUT shes lieing and saying she's older =P



what should i do?
thax!
and she could get any guy in the world!!!! but one finally likes me and shes trying to take that away from me! and she already has a boyfriend!! i would tell him that if she wasnt my cousin!!!!
and i dont wanna tell her that, cause its a free country, she can like who she wants!

2007-03-04 04:34:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for years and he was my first love.I don't think I could ever love a man the way I love him but I'm so heart broken that he would ever do this to me.We've talked on the phone and he promises that he would never do it again.But I'm too afraid that he will.What would you do if you were in this situation?

2007-03-04 04:34:26 · 15 answers · asked by DiamondXxx 6 in Singles & Dating

My EX Best Friend (Jeanette) is seeking revenge on me ever since my other friend (Madison) said that she said that I didn't want to be Jeanette's friend anymore. We were the best of friends. WERE

"You know when I hit the ball at you during dodgeball? That was only one scoop of revenge." Jeanette

She also said that she would never ever ever ever be my friend again. I make her suffocate when I'm around her. She hates me to h*ll (I sit right behind her)

Also, Madison will think I'm Jeanette's friend whenever I talk to her and she'll get all mad. NOT GOOD! I hate it when she ignores me.

I know that people like her aren't worth it, but I can't stop thinking of what kind of revenge Jeanette is brewing! (She's really strong!!!)

2007-03-04 04:33:36 · 8 answers · asked by roxy<3 2 in Friends

my parents has only two daughters me is 22 years old and my last sister is 13. my parents love my last sister very much more than me because she is last.

At 5pm she arrives from her school along the forest, four rapers come to rape her to sex change by eah other. she begins broken virgin blood and cries a lot.Rapers run away. she arrives home and not tells us. i find out she got pregnant, i ask her "Are you pregnant", she said "No", i decide to take her to hospital without parents. Doctor said it is 3 months.i shock and almost get faint because of parents, how wil i tell them?

My sister told me the story, i really believe her coz she never plays with boys and likes studying a lot, she is the scholarship in her classroom. she does not want to tell parents ans begs me to help her abortion.for me i think abortion but it is wrong in the eye of God.

Will i help her to abort or tell parents? What should i do? I am working. i never eat well because of difficult how to solve it.

2007-03-04 04:33:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello, dus any1 no any sites that prodict what ya kids r gonna look like.
For Example: You write in urs and ya partners genetics and it forms a picture of what the kids gonna look like????????????

2007-03-04 04:33:09 · 11 answers · asked by Loving and loved 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in Walmart with my daughter when she saw a boy she liked. She pretended to be looking through a little basket of sale items on a bottom shelf. I quietly substituted a shopping cart overflowing with Depends for hers. Another good thing is to have them paged using a nick name with their last name - and one time at Safeway when my daughter said - there's Jessica, she's such a snob. She is the most popular girl in my school. I made a racing car sound and at a jog, rammed my cart into hers, ...My kids hate me. hee hee

2007-03-04 04:32:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I recently started taking RAD, the women's self-defense school. I live with my boyfriend, who is into martial arts (it was his idea that I take a self-defense class). He asked what kind of things they were teaching me, because he said that he was curious.

They told us not to share anything with men, so I told him I wasn't allowed to discuss it. He seemed really surprised, and he asked if I trusted him. I tried to explain that I was just not allowed to talk about it. He said he was okay with that, but I can tell that he's upset. He usually doesn't express himself that easily, but I've known him long enough that I can tell by how he acts. I think that his feelings are hurt.

I really do trust him. He's a great guy and he's never treated me poorly. So should I just share the stuff with him so he knows that I trust him?

2007-03-04 04:32:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 04:31:20 · 19 answers · asked by Joanna - Harry Potter Fan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

To any of you (numerous) people who have met their husband/wife online first, was there a certain spark you could feel before you two met? Did you think about him/her a lot in the day, like fantasizing, for instance? Are there any tell-tale signs that sorta told you both of you were meant to be?
I know his friends, he knows mine, I've seen his pictures, he's seen mine, I know they're real pictures, we've been talking for about a year online, and seem to really connect.

2007-03-04 04:30:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to change my 2 daughters last names to match mine now and my other daughters. i got married to my husband which they belive he is their dad anyway. they dont know their real fathers and their names are not on their birth certifcate. so i was wondering could i just go to the birth records and change them or what do i have to do.

2007-03-04 04:30:39 · 10 answers · asked by Tiffany h 2 in Family

ok, like i was like dating brad and like melissa was sooo totally into him. i was like on vacation with my family and courtney text messaged me to say melissa kissed brad and like now they are going out.

eeeww, leftovers! anyway i came back from vacation, totally tanned and gave myself a welcome home party. helloooo!!! i was like gone for 3 weeks! so i like totally invited brad and courtney so i could ignore them. i know! like genius!

anyway i'm like seeing matt now and he's totally hot. we have a date tonight so should i wear the pink dress or the blue dress?

2007-03-04 04:30:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Trying to extend an olive branch but I don't know how?

2007-03-04 04:29:33 · 12 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 04:28:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just split from my husband, love him so much, but it wasn't working. Want to stop myself calling him and getting back together because that's what I always do and I really need to move on from this and start again. Please help me!

2007-03-04 04:28:17 · 26 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Your "COMPUTER" or your "WIFE"? (or husband, g-friend, b-friend, lover, or ?, etc.)

How many of you spend more time with your "COMPUTER" then the "LOVE of your LIFE"? THINK ABOUT IT? Aren't you feeling a little guilty right now, what about the "KISS" good-bye as your loved one leaves for work ? How long do you think he or she can stand there all puckered up, waiting for that....kiss, I love you dear, have a nice day honey, I'll see you when you get home dear, kiss-ee kiss! Well?
What's your answers?__________________________?

2007-03-04 04:28:17 · 19 answers · asked by ghostguff3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

See here is the question???

I am seeking information on filing for Separate Maintenence in the State of Nevada with an unborn child. The child is of this marriage. We have been separated for 6 weeks and both live in Las Vegas. I am paying all of the baby's doctor bills on my own, and wish for relief. I am looking for the father to pay me spousal support until after the baby is born at which time I will file for divorce.

Any info?

2007-03-04 04:28:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm hot cuz I'm fly, you ain't cuz you not

2007-03-04 04:28:09 · 3 answers · asked by keyboring200 2 in Singles & Dating

There are friends, and there are "friends". This fella never even pretended to be my friend but we had to rub elbows just because we hung out in the same circle. The other day his mobike ended up in a wreck and he is occupying a hospital bed on the fifth floor of a suburban hospital that could have served a better purpose. Anyway, there was a big hoopla among our pals and I was chosen to drive a bunch of dudes to the hospital with some flowers and a get well package. When we entered the room the guy looked like a mummy that fell off a Bowflex machine. He was plastered head to toe, the bed contorted ridiculously at a 45 degree angle and various wires and suspensions supporting his skeletal structure in the desired position. As soon as we walked in the guys gave a collective sigh and yelp, the gals started sobbing, and by instinct or reflex I burst out laughing (only for a second or two ) but then bit my tongue and contorted my face to cry but was caught pretending. What to do next time?

2007-03-04 04:27:39 · 8 answers · asked by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 in Friends

My boyfriend(32) of 3 months tells me that he too is looking for a serious life-long partner. Recently he told me that he fancies me too much that every time he sees me he can't help thinking too much about having sex. We can only see each other once a week and he literally jumps onto me every time I get into his flat. Sex is great and I think that it's natural to have a strong desire to want your partner physically especially at the start of a relationship. However, he told me that he feels guilty about the fact that sex always comes first when it's also necessary to develop deeper emotional relations to see me as a possible future wife. Because of this he suggested having a few-weeks break and wants to see me again as just a friend, but I am confused. I feel that it requires longer time to build emotional ties than it takes for sexual relations. I don't understand why he want to see me as a friend when he fancies me. What are his true feelings? Is there a chance that we'll get back?

2007-03-04 04:26:02 · 2 answers · asked by pinetreegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

i recently broke up with my boyfriend and now i really like his friend. i asked his friend to prom and he told me that he hasnt really thought about prom but if decides to go he will go with me. idk if he really hasnt thought about prom or if he just doesnt want to go with me but didnt want to be mean.
there are some other things that are a factor in this.
one of my friends said that maybe he doesnt want to go because he has cancer and the chemo made him lose his hair so he always wears a winter hat. she said maybe he doesnt know how to hide it at prom.
i never thought of it like that and i dont know if thats the reason why he said what he did....
i just dont know what to think!
please help me!

2007-03-04 04:25:43 · 3 answers · asked by 11.7.06 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf are both 18 we havent had sex but are these signs he wants a baby
naming his future kids
saving for kids future
looking at 2 bedroom flats to move into
calling me up when he out and sees a cute baby
telling me the words im pregnant he is dying to hear from me
say things like paul (one of the names he has picked) better not do stuff like that when he grows up
rubs my belly and places his head on it
telling me his mum and him have been talking about what age she wants to be a grandparent
telling me im gonna make a great parent
describing what he thinks the baby will look like

should i talk to himabout this if yes how
if it turns out he wants a kid soon i wont be having sex with him fora while and when i do im gona make sure i take as much protection as possible as im too young to be a mum

2007-03-04 04:23:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What could I have done?
My female coworker become very nervous one night when the two of us were alone together at work. I know she is not afraid of me or freeked out by me in anyway. She definitely at the very least enjoys my company. And I wasn't being aggressive or making it seem like I wanted anything from her. Why was she nervous though?

2007-03-04 04:22:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 2 boys and I moved in with my fiance and his son 6 months ago. His son's mother is only in the picture when it is convinient to her, which isn't often. My finance works crazy hours and it barely home therefor I take care of all 3 boys and the household. I am having a hard time with my step-son in getting him to realize the importants of school, he is failing his grade 7 and will not bring home his book to do homework, lies about homework and will not study. I took away his PSP, PS2 and computer, he is not allowed out during the week, if we have a good week, no lying, no uncompleted homework and not failed tests he could go out on the weekend, which he hasn't gotten that privilege yet and it has been 2 months, he is forever in the house but it seems as soon as we give a little he is right back the same way. He has never been disciplines or in a routine like he is now. I don't want to have to move out because of the stress it causes me. Any advice? Am I doing the right thing?

2007-03-04 04:22:29 · 13 answers · asked by stepmother_help 1 in Family

I dont have a clue on what to do first! that would probally be setting a date and place right? how far in advance do you think I need to reserve a place? how many bridesmades? what kind of food should I serve at the reception that is affordable but not tacky? when should I buy my dress?..........Ya see, I am a mess! I have NO idea! PLEASE tell me everything I need to know/do!!!!!!!!

2007-03-04 04:22:11 · 5 answers · asked by blah 3 in Weddings

2007-03-04 04:21:50 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have ALOT of bills and are in debt. well he messed up my tax return when we filed married joint to where HE got 1300 dollars back and i OWE!!! well he thought with HIS money he would go buy an XBOX 360 for 300$ well me i got nothing so i called him today and asked him if i could buy a 40$ purse i really really want but he is the only one working and he said NO!!! he said we have bills but yet he was able to buy an xbox!! and i owe the irs cause of him now i get NOTHING!! this isnt fair at all!

2007-03-04 04:20:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce