To any of you (numerous) people who have met their husband/wife online first, was there a certain spark you could feel before you two met? Did you think about him/her a lot in the day, like fantasizing, for instance? Are there any tell-tale signs that sorta told you both of you were meant to be?
I know his friends, he knows mine, I've seen his pictures, he's seen mine, I know they're real pictures, we've been talking for about a year online, and seem to really connect.
2007-03-04 04:30:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think some of us know what u mean and how u feel. =-)
What while ur feeling this loving way, also keep in mind that u could be building up something that may not be. U have to keep in mind that all the glitter is not gold.
I think u may be more in love with the idea of being in love, don't get me wrong it can work out( we live in a crazy world) =-)
but just be very careful because all ur doing is talking and exchanging pictures the unknown can be exciting . but u did say ( it SEEMS to really connect)
I do hope it works out and that the two of u met and have a long and wonderful future together.
2007-03-04 04:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On more than one occasion, I've had a 'feeling' about someone before meeting them...I've since learned not to trust that feeling. Too many times I found myself disappointed upon actually meeting. Don't get me wrong - I did meet some that I had something of a connection with and I have remained good friends with them. But currently, with my boyfriend (soon to be fiance) we didn't do a whole lot of communicating online. I ignored his first attempt to contact me on one of the dating websites, he found my on my friend's myspace page and added me...a week or two later at 4 a.m. while up and waiting for a friend to call to let me know she made it home okay I sent him a message to meet a friend and myself that next night for drinks and the rest history. Point being - I didn't allow much time to formulate some preconceived notion of who I thought he was, but rather allowed myself to formulate that opinion face to face. Usually much less disappointment that way.
2007-03-04 04:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should see that movie " you've got mail " it's an online love story and sounds a lot like what your going through.
2007-03-04 04:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by beauty&brains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should meet him for the first time.
Somewhere romantic
2007-03-04 04:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by roxy<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe in online love. i mean you haven't even met him!
2007-03-04 04:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it feels like you know the person even when you don't know her/him, it's an infatuation and then makes it real, very special.
2007-03-04 04:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by jljimenezs30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes,, sparks are like so electrifying
2007-03-04 04:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋