My boyfriend(32) of 3 months tells me that he too is looking for a serious life-long partner. Recently he told me that he fancies me too much that every time he sees me he can't help thinking too much about having sex. We can only see each other once a week and he literally jumps onto me every time I get into his flat. Sex is great and I think that it's natural to have a strong desire to want your partner physically especially at the start of a relationship. However, he told me that he feels guilty about the fact that sex always comes first when it's also necessary to develop deeper emotional relations to see me as a possible future wife. Because of this he suggested having a few-weeks break and wants to see me again as just a friend, but I am confused. I feel that it requires longer time to build emotional ties than it takes for sexual relations. I don't understand why he want to see me as a friend when he fancies me. What are his true feelings? Is there a chance that we'll get back?
2007-03-04 04:26:02 · 2 answers · asked by pinetreegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is confusing him. You should feel lucky ~ he wants to build the emotional relationship with you before you continue sleeping together.
2007-03-04 04:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is having a problem making up his mind.
2007-03-04 12:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋