Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

Everything is going well. He is very supportive. And we both want to be together. The problem is we are both only 18. And now we are talking about getting married. What should I do? Get married or dont get married?

2007-03-01 08:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by Shayna 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married 25+ years to the same man, and I left 6 months ago because he was being verbally abusive and he didn't use to be this way, but I still miss him and don't know how to talk to him to make it work. We used to get along so great, you've heard the expression "like a hand in a glove", thats how we were. We had our favorite Restaraunts, "Our Booth" in those restaraunts, we done everything together,told each other "I Love You" everday .I don't know how things got so crazy.I've been listening to that Gretchen Wilson song alot lately " Come To Bed" and if you listen to it, it describes exactly how I feel but I don't know how to get that message to him,only if things could be that simple, and is this just a quick fix, and could it really work? The song is at AOL music should you care to listen to it.I could really use some advice, Our Anniversary is coming up in about a month and I really need some good advice.

2007-03-01 08:40:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend married her husband 2 years ago after dating only 6 months. When they married she was on the fence about having children and he had always wanted to be a father. She recently got pregnant and it was 100% unplanned. She was VERY upset and did not want to have the baby. She just miscarried naturally when the baby was at 2 months and is sad for her husband, but happy in a way because she never wanted to be a mom.

He is hoping she will accidentally get pregnant again or change her mind. She is 100% sure she will never want to have children and it’s even very happy being married to him. He says he wants to have a baby within 5 years and won’t accept that he won’t ever be a dad.

Can a marriage work when one spouse wants children and the other one doesn’t? Is divorce inevitable in a situation like this?

2007-03-01 08:40:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband seems to think that I'm always flirting and looking at other men whenever we go out or even with the neighbors. I swear I don't! I'm very much attracted to him and happy with our marriage. He's so convinced he's always accusing me of being disrespectful. I'm so hurt that he doesn't believe me I've even cried several times when trying to talk to him. I'm 14 yrs. younger than him(25-39). Could that be a reason? We've been married for 10 months and have a 4-month old baby. What can I do??? Please advise. Thanks.

2007-03-01 08:40:08 · 6 answers · asked by DminiknBonita 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a college student. Next year (Fall '07) I will be getting an apartment, but my mom can't really afford to help me out and my Dad just won't... at all. I have taken out loans and my grandparents have been helping me out tremendously but I really hate relying on them so much. I can't afford to pay for an apartment and utilities by myself and I can't take another loan out so it pretty much comes down to the fact that I HAVE to get a roommate!! My roommate for the last two years is moving away and so my boyfriend said he could move in and pay half (or more) of everything. It seems to be the only solution... My question is just how do I bring it up and tell my parents? I know they will freak out and my dad just wants me to take a roommate that I don't know... But I would rather do this because we have been together for about a year now and I have stayed with him for weeks at a time anyway. we are both 18 now, and will be 19 then.

2007-03-01 08:40:04 · 5 answers · asked by Fussy Duckling 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 08:39:35 · 19 answers · asked by Cosmo girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So today in class, the guy that sits next to me asks me, "Genevieve, if I sit over there, will you sit by me?"
I didn't quite get it so said "what?" and he repeated..but I still don't really get it..so I just said "sure." then he scooted his desk over.

He already has a girlfriend I think..but I just wanted to know what he meant..because he was already sitting in the seat next to me (but in the next row)

2007-03-01 08:39:32 · 3 answers · asked by Addie [♦] 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel so messed up! My bf and I had a huge fight over him sleeping over at another girls place after going out to the bar. She's a girl from work and I kinda liked her but not anymore....apparently she told him that night that she liked him at the bar... for some reason he didn't tell me this straight up, it was only after we argued that he told me. I felt hurt. He said nothing happend and I do believe him but it still bothers me! He just called to say he was going out for some food after work, naming a bunch of people including her room-mate-but not saying her. I asked if she was going and he said yes...I asked why he didn't say that...and of couse it was because he didn't want to upset me....am I upset?? Yeah I am. what is happening to us? He said he told her that they couldn't hang out anymore because it wasn't good for our relationship...he said he liked her, not that he would break up to be with her but that he liked her... how do I get over this?

2007-03-01 08:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by wilsonfromthefrew 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out with Brandon for over a year and a half. (were both 16) I got close to having his baby at about a year (not the point). Not too long after that, his finnaly had to move out of his dads house, and he moved in with our best friend, tony. About two months after that, we hit a rough spot and we were off and on for about 2 weeks. We got back together, steady, for only bout a month when his dad died. He stayed living with Tony though. Three months later, we got in a big fight and we broke up for good. we've been seprated for about 2 months now. Just last sunday, he sent Tony to my house to tell me something. But Tony knew how much emotinal damage we caused to eachother, and he didn't "want ME to get hurt" So he stayed and talked and we ended up kissing. we weren't making out, it only lasted about 10 seconds, but, i was wondering if I should even try to have a relationship with him. I really don't want to hurt Brandon anymore than he already is. What should i do? or not do? I'm not

2007-03-01 08:38:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well he's in a couple of my classes. He's always being goofy, and he talks to everyone, and talks alot to other girls..which makes it hard to decipher. But anyways, today in class we were watching a movie and I had my head down while I was watching it, and he pulled a chair and leaned on my desk for most of the movie.
The in the next class, this girl that sits next to me said something, and so he was explaining it and she said "yanno what, Idc" (she was kidding) so he turns to me and starts retelling his story. Then he asked me if he had returned a pen he borrowed and I said yes, then he asked to borow another. So a few minutes later, he turns around and smiles. He was selling candy for a club, and asked if I wanted to buy one..but I didn't..So now..it's almost the end of class. He returns the pen and another person returns one of my pens and he said "Alot of people borrow pens from you, you're like an angel." Then he just loks at me for a second and says "Did it hurt?" and I knew--

2007-03-01 08:37:09 · 21 answers · asked by Addie [♦] 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 08:36:41 · 16 answers · asked by workaholic 2 in Singles & Dating

Any one who is living in Bangalore or anywhere in Mangalore

2007-03-01 08:36:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 08:35:21 · 7 answers · asked by Bravo Johny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what the hell??? the next thing we know, we won't be able to have sex with anybody!!

2007-03-01 08:35:10 · 7 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

okay im in the 8th grade and ive had bf's just not for over a week and this guy and me kinda like each other and we might start dating soon and ive never had my first kiss yet im scared ill liike mess up wen he goes to kiss me. how long after we date will he try to move in on it? i just really like him and i dont wwanna screw up.plz help

2007-03-01 08:35:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for ideas on what to do for a first date with a girl I've asked out. I want to do something different to the more traditional cinema, bowling, or going for a meal in a restaurant or drinks in a bar...

2007-03-01 08:34:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well this guy & I have been friends w/benefits for 8 mos. He said that he isn't ready to committ. He has told me that he is dating other women, although I've opted not to date other men. I'm just not in that mindset right now. However, whenever I leave the house, I'm on the phone & don't want him to hear or when I'm not available to take his call he thinks I'm with some guy. He keeps asking me if I'm sleeping with or seeing someone else, I keep telling him no but he doesn't believe me.

I have issues with him dating other women but I understand that's how it's going to be until he decides he wants to committ. I get jealous sometimes but he falsly accuses me of going through he phone. I want this friendship to work. I'm not seeing other guys & he thinks I'm lying when I say that & then he saids it doesn't matter. Even if I was seeing someone else why is it such a big deal to him if he doesn't want to committ to me?

2007-03-01 08:34:20 · 2 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who I really don't want to hang out with, but it's really hard. I kind of live in the same apartment with her and I find myself sneaking around just so she won't attach herself to me. She's like a leech and I don't know how to get rid of her. She's really boring and she has no other friends. I don't want to hang out with her and I don't want to move.
What should I do?

2007-03-01 08:33:39 · 21 answers · asked by Blah 2 in Friends

i was called a slutttt and my friends was called a loser. lol we want to no which is worse? and also why and if ur a guy would u rather be called a man whore or a loser/******

2007-03-01 08:33:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother asked my little sisters mate to stay over tomorrow night, but my sister cant be arsed at all.

How can she get out of this one.

She can't be honest about the fact she dont want her to stay, and she cant say she's ill because she thinks it's too obvious an excuse, plus she will see her in school in the day time.

any ideas?

2007-03-01 08:32:49 · 1 answers · asked by gimmesomeboosh 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been friends since were teenager, i'm the one who kept telling her what to wear how to dress up, how to put make up on. Everytime, were together i'm the one who get the compliment of being pretty,sexy, blah.blah.blah. Then she learn how to do her on stuff. We seems sister, well i'm older than her. Should i get jealous and compete w/ her or no. She always tell sme how she admire me, pretty soon she will be my sister in law. pelase help!

2007-03-01 08:31:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A: Travel and see every place you've ever wanted to see
B: Falling in love and being together with someone you truly love?

(you can only choose 1, this is not a survey, it's just something that would help me out).

2007-03-01 08:31:47 · 17 answers · asked by ptrfeiss 1 in Singles & Dating

are you preppy, a punk...ect.....what does ur personality say about U?

2007-03-01 08:29:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...I have a problem...I'm a freshman in H.S. and have never french kissed a guy before and I'm freakin scared, I just don't know what to do. People say it just happens naturaly, but I don't think so...someone give me some dos and don'ts. What am I supposed to do? I don't mean to sound like a wierd freak or anything but I gotta know this stuff because I'm in high school and it's gonna happen sooner or later and I don't wanna be embarassed or look stupid. Please help!!!

2007-03-01 08:28:54 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Jelly [20080806] 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I will be getting engaged later this year (shh - don't tell anyone!), so we have been discussing possible locations and dates to get married next year. We (and by "we" I mean "I") were thinking of an outdoor wedding in spring or summer. We had been considering Laguna Beach (on the beach for the wedding), but then read somewhere that they won't allow chairs for people to sit in during the ceremony. Also heard that Laguna Beach only has very expensive reception places. Does anyone have any ideas (preferrably in Orange County)?

2007-03-01 08:28:52 · 3 answers · asked by Galaxie Girl 6 in Weddings

my relationship with this great guy lasted 2 frickin' weeks and he was making it go further quickly and said stuff was going well now today he says it wasn't meant to be? How did i get stuck with yet another jerk!?!?! where are the good guys? on the other hand, it's kinda cool to be single again cuz it was like i was trapped, but nice to have someone there for me. what am i doing so wrong? i'd do anything for my bf!!!

2007-03-01 08:28:51 · 10 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Singles & Dating

That most ultimate pleasure down "There" from your partner, what do you like the most? Does your Partner ever find that spot known as "G"?

LiL EarlE

The Postal Service Rules

2007-03-01 08:28:11 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Can any of you suggest a beautiful ring? for marriage!! its a lifetime ring so i want it to be perfect!

2007-03-01 08:28:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I found a text message on his cell phone from he's lesbian ex-wife that read, "you're a cheating bastard and you're not with me. Lol!" His 'sent' folder was empty and I couldn't find any other messages that were linked to this one. He says it was just a joke and that she always use to tell him that when they were together. We've been married for 10 months and have a 4-month old baby. Please advise. Thanks!

2007-03-01 08:27:42 · 1 answers · asked by DminiknBonita 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate feeling guilty, but it seems like now that's all I do during situations. I'm naturally a worrier, if something that seems to be bad (whether it actually is or not) happens, it hangs over my head all day.

Whenever someone asks me to hang out with them and my parents say no and I have to go back and report the news, I always feel incredibly guilty for saying, "No, sorry, I can't hang out." Whenever my parents say no to stuff like this, I ALWAYS ALWAYS feel incredibly guilty for having to tell the person no. When guys ask me to hang out with them and I say, "My parents won't let me," or when girls ask me to hang out and I say, "I can't, my parents won't let me," I always feel sorry and sad, frustrated, and guilty as if it's my fault for having parents like this. I always feel like I have to apologize for having parents like that and I don't want people to say, "Oh let's invite her but wait...let's not because she can't go."

Why do constantly feel guilty?? How can I stop?

2007-03-01 08:27:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating