My husband seems to think that I'm always flirting and looking at other men whenever we go out or even with the neighbors. I swear I don't! I'm very much attracted to him and happy with our marriage. He's so convinced he's always accusing me of being disrespectful. I'm so hurt that he doesn't believe me I've even cried several times when trying to talk to him. I'm 14 yrs. younger than him(25-39). Could that be a reason? We've been married for 10 months and have a 4-month old baby. What can I do??? Please advise. Thanks.
2007-03-01 08:40:08 · 6 answers · asked by DminiknBonita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband is jealous because he is insecure. If you don't provoke attention from other men (I believe you don't), then you need to talk to him and explain how it makes you feel. Tell him that you love him very much and that you would like him to trust you. Ask him what you can do for him to help this behavior of his change. Unfortunately, insecure people tend to be too controlling (including with their children) and I would very much recommend counseling if talking does not help- the sooner the better. You can work it out together, but you should not ignore this issue for too long.
2007-03-01 09:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Alyssa Macey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and show him more attention when you go out. Might need to rest a hand on his side or leg when driving. Just something to let him fel a little more connected to you. you have already told him that you are not looking but everyone looks and thinks that some of the other sex is nice or not. Does he not see other women and think she is attractive? And no not in a way that he wants to be with her but in a way that she is just a good looking person. This is just like my wife watching wrestling and thinking some of them are hot and others are well not so good. Don't quite know how she's judging them though. Niether of you wanting to be with another just looking to something that catches your eye of being nice. But just give him that little more touch and attention while you are out together.
2007-03-01 08:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep! He's insecure. He will need constant reassurance and ego-rubbing, but eventually should grow out of it. Have fun with that.
2007-03-01 08:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds insecure, period. i don't think age has much to do with it. maybe he feels guilty about something & is trying to make you feel as bad as he does.
2007-03-01 09:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's insecure ...unless you are truly being disrespectful
2007-03-01 09:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop flirting
2007-03-01 08:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋