Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

im very shy and have few friends. i was wanting some advice whow to make friends and be more interpersonal.

2007-03-01 08:14:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friends brother is trying to get in the navy and he has to take a drug test next week. He did weed this weekend what can he do to get it out of his system? (Its not a urine test its a blood test) Do u think he will pass the test?

2007-03-01 08:14:05 · 12 answers · asked by Jessica 4 in Friends

This guy told me this other liked me. So, he told me to give him my # to the guy that liked me. So when I saw him giving it 2 the guy he threw into the trash.

2007-03-01 08:13:44 · 6 answers · asked by Cori S 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with her last summer, she is seeing someone else now and said we will never get back together (i tried to get back together with her Jan07). Now she just wants to be "friends" and she still calls me every 2-3 days. I told her I have no respect for her cause she lies all the time. She makes me so mad. Why can't she just go away and leave me alone instead of playing with my emotions. Should I tell her i'm with someone else now (even tho im not)? I asked her why I should be friends with her, she couldn't answer the question except that "we have so much history together". Why can't she just go away and leave me alone. It's torture.

2007-03-01 08:12:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the baby was born he shut down emotionally on me and wouldn't talk to me about anything.he wasn't helping me with the baby.. and basically for the past 9 months I have been a single mother. He only would see the baby maybe 2 times a month. He was having financial problems but I didn't know it because he would not tell me. I would ask him why would he not show me any affection, no hugs or send money, and I assumed he was cheating, he got really angry and said some mean things to me. He told me to do what ever so I met and started talking to another guy. It didn't last long..I still loved my baby father.But he was still so cold hearted, I stopped loving him. he has decided to tell me after so many months why he bacame so cold towards me, and I told him about the other guy. All is forgiven but those months took a hard toll on me and I no longer love him now. He proposed and I said no but he still wants to be w/ me. I luv him cause he is the baby dad, but not enough to be w/ him.Now what?

2007-03-01 08:11:59 · 9 answers · asked by Shalie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy that's interested in & we've been friends for a while. Tells me I'm pretty & I'm kind hearted and he doesn't comment on anything else.

Is being pretty & kind hearted enough??

2007-03-01 08:11:54 · 5 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 08:11:27 · 18 answers · asked by luvdov 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 08:11:12 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK. The situation is we hit things off, going great. When it comes to a connection/committment, I get the sense she isn't ready. Things get rocky. One day she tells me she needs to be on her own. We continue to talk. Any time anything regarding "relationship" talk comes up, she gets anxious, anxious enough that she alludes to ending all contact w/ me. Fast forward several months to now, we are talking daily, we have a relationship, one where there is at least enough trust that I will see her often and talk daily, which is a huge step from before X-mas time. Thing is, I don't know what, if anything, I have done or am doing differently now and am having trouble shaking the idea that I want to know what she sees differently about me and us now. Should I ask or just leave well enough alone and take it for what it is? I am not interested in a fling w/ her. I want something serious.

2007-03-01 08:11:07 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

my foot down. how can I tell her that it isn't right? She gets mad when I don't have money she can borrow.

2007-03-01 08:10:56 · 9 answers · asked by Krista 3 in Friends

2007-03-01 08:10:41 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i sleep on my porch rather than sleeping on my 3,000$ water bed i do it cause i dont have an alarm clock so i could wake up to work in the morning at 5:30 am

2007-03-01 08:10:28 · 11 answers · asked by west side rider 3 in Friends

Please american allies help me.

2007-03-01 08:10:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 08:10:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering if all that working out men do nowadays is a waste of time (apart from the health benefits)

2007-03-01 08:09:27 · 43 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2 in Singles & Dating

your bff had a crush and he asked you out and then your bff wrote you a note that said dont say no i am totally over him but you could tell she wasnt?

2007-03-01 08:09:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I havent seen or spoken to my x for about 3 years but since jan 07 we found each other on Aol. So we started chatting, no feelings involved until i went over to visit her for the weekend. we had a wonderful weekend. we rekindle our old flames. now this was last weekend, last night we were talkin about what went wrong in our relationship, one situation was that there was this guy that used to flirt with her and i didnt like, he used to get me so mad. she revealed me last night that after we broke up she dated him for a while partly as revenge for not trusted. i m confused and hurt by this. i dont know what to do half of me want to give her a chance but a good part of me want her out of my life forever
i need ur opinion thanks

2007-03-01 08:08:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you met her a year ago and wanted her then but for certain reasons you could not be with her.now a year later she calls you and tells you straight up she wants you. You still think she is so beautiful, but you have been seeing someone else for a month now, what would your reaction be to her calling if you wanted her? what would your reaction be if you did not want her?

2007-03-01 08:08:08 · 2 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a college student, and recently 2 days ago I met this girl who is in my journalism class and our instructor gave us an assigment to write about a classmate. So since she was next to me, we decided to interview each other for our stories. Basically it was like our life stories. So while we were doing that, we just talked to each other about what we like to do in our free time and etc.

But then she asked me if I have a g/f, and I said no, so I asked her if she had a b/f and she said no. Then today I saw her, and our instructor wanted the whole class to move into the computer room. After that she told me to sit next to her, and asked me about myspace and etc. But when we were conversating, I was kinda shy and quiet, plus she noticed it too.

Basically I need advice that can improve my chances of having her as a g/f, how to keep her interested in a conversation, and how i can ask her out on a date. Any suggestions?

2007-03-01 08:07:20 · 7 answers · asked by moneyisalwayshere 1 in Singles & Dating

started dating this guy about a month and a half ago.Everythings been great and we've had an awesome time together.Last night, i went to my gf's house to watch a movie and when I was leaving i called him and he told me to call him when I got home to make sure i got home safe(it was snowing)but I ended up falling asleep as soon as i hit the bed.he called me about an hour laterand he was Sh** faced drunk with his buddies.he had asked me yesterday if i wanted to hang out tonight and we had plans to watch a movie and i was going to spend the night at his house.when I asked him last night just to make sure we were still hanging out, he said maybe and I got kinda angry with him.He ended up hanging up on me,so i called back,he hung up again so i called back until he picked up(i know thats bad)he picked up and said that he couldnt do this and when i said does that mean we're broken up he said i guess so and hung up.I am so hurt and confused by this!What should i do? he wont pick up my calls!

2007-03-01 08:07:10 · 20 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Singles & Dating

in genetic problem, if you are AS blood type and the guy that wanted to marry you is SS blood type you will marry him or abondon him because of his sickness.

2007-03-01 08:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by pretty j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my girlfriend have been dating for about two months. for about the past month we've been very distant, and not talking alot. everytime i try to talk to her or be nice to her she nevers cares and doesnt really talk to me. i've been calling her all the time and she never wants to hangout. everytime i try to talk to her about this and ask her if im doing something wrong, she never wants to talk about it and we always end up yelling at each other. after she refused to talk to me it kept continuing and since we couldnt fix it, i broke up with her. even though things were bad at times things were great in the begining and im regretting my decision and i still really like her. should i get back together with her?

2007-03-01 08:04:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They don't have a lot of money but they make you happy every day, all the time.

2007-03-01 08:04:18 · 30 answers · asked by Patty 4 in Marriage & Divorce

is this guy who has come back in her life from the past. She keeps talking about him and sees him at times. She hasn't said it specifically, but I can tell she is thinking about it being more. She is definitly attracted to him and talked about him, even before they ran into each other. I know she is unhappy in her marriage. The thing is, she had an affair with a married man a long time ago. I don't know what to tell her. I don't want to judge her, but i think adultry is sacreligious and goes against God. I have contempt for her even considering this. I am trying to live like a Chistian again in my life, but I find it hard to "not judge", especially for what she's done in the past, and now what she is considering. Should i tell her "i don't want to hear about it". What does a Christian do in this situation. Sit there and say what she is doing is against God or do i try to be understanding? I am confused. Help.

2007-03-01 08:03:48 · 25 answers · asked by C 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are going to look at an old plantation (complete with a gorgeous turn-of-the-century chapel!) for a possible wedding/reception site this weekend.

The wedding will be in the chapel, while the reception will be held outside in the gardens (there is no place for an inside reception), so we plan to rent a tent and all the works.

What questions should we ask the site manager? I've thought of a lot, I just want to see if you guys think of any I haven't yet thought of!

2007-03-01 08:03:29 · 7 answers · asked by duritzgirl4 5 in Weddings

WHY ARE BITCHES HATERS JUST STOP HATING ON PEOPLE CAUSE **** LIKE THAT MAKE ME ANGRY.TIP: DONT CRITICIZE ON WHAT OTHERS DO WHEN YOU DO IT TOO.

2007-03-01 08:01:36 · 51 answers · asked by west side rider 3 in Friends

When I sleep, I love for my man to hold me.
Is this such a bad thing??
My best friend told me it is a bad thing b/c guys are such horndogs.
My b/f says he doesn't mind b/c I am like 5'0 and like 90lbs
She says it is too much of a turn-on and they cannot keep to themselves

2007-03-01 08:01:26 · 15 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

Just imagine ladies, you got bf in a wheelchair. he can't dress self, feed self, brush teeth self, lift arms self, etc. But he's very sweet, honest, smart, all good emotional things all you girls look for in a perfect guy. most of the day, an aide helps him. you help him after you get home from work, after aide leaves. helping him can be hard sometimes but you love him and are glad to do it. aide helps with most things during day. you can come home relax, take a nice shower, get comfortable. then aide leaves for night and you got him all to yourself. he is sexually attracted to you, he says such sweet things to you, and soothes yr mind with his soft loving words. you assist him with things but you hardly notice, bc yr near him and you love him. you feed him during a romantic dinner, you look into each others eyes. you help him in bed at night and help him do whatever else. you get into something sexy, you see he likes. and you can take total control, kiss him, etc. your thoughts?

2007-03-01 08:01:20 · 7 answers · asked by greenhorns99 1 in Singles & Dating

Some background: This guy works with an affiliate company and we speak on the phone at least once a day. So, one day he asks if he can take me out. I say yes. He gets my phone number and calls me later that week, but instead of taking me out he asks if he can come over to MY place. I of course said no (what was he thinking?).
He's called a couple times since then and I'm just not all that interested. I mean, he talks about himself and then asks if I want to come over to HIS house like its a booty call or something. Maybe I'm reading too much into that, but I don't just go over to a man's house...or let him come to mine. IMO, that's a little too personal for someone you don't know.
Lately I've dodged his calls, turned my cell off hoping he will get the hint.
I have to preserve a working relationship with this guy so I have to be nice about it. What do I do???

2007-03-01 08:01:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went up to him and talked. I don't like him anymore. I am now single how do i know if the guy is right. I don't like to talk to guys because i get embarrassed. How do i let him no i like him without doing all that crap like falling laughing in front of him. It is hard for me to trust boys though because i have been hurt way to many times from them.

2007-03-01 08:00:13 · 2 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating