my foot down. how can I tell her that it isn't right? She gets mad when I don't have money she can borrow.
2007-03-01 08:10:56 · 9 answers · asked by Krista 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i'm aware that she is using me that is why i used it as "friend". I'm just not the type that can be rude to people. and she has a job she works with me. i've know her about 11 years. since i was 12. What is a nice why of telling her she can't use me anymore?
2007-03-02 04:54:02 · update #1
If that's what you call a friend, I'm sorry because you might not know what a real friend is. Trust me that is not a friend at all. I'm sure she is not your only friend so just tell her like it is-- let her know you can't and don't want to give her money and if she gets mad and never talks to you again don't sweat it. It just proves that she was not your friend and you and your pocket will be better off without her.
2007-03-01 08:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by delia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to put your foot down on this girl!!! She is using you and you are aware of that. She needs to earn her own money and have her own ride. Talk to her about this situation and let her know that you don't appreciate her using you. If she needs a ride somewhere, she should give you gas money or ride the bus. Friends are supposed to be there for one another and not use each other, especially when it comes to money and giving out free rides. Stand your ground and don't let Miss Thang use you anymore!! I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.
2007-03-01 08:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she ask for a ride tell her you need gas. If she says you have gas tell her its your time and her dime. If she asks for money tell her she needs to get a job because you are not a charity organization. You going to have to hold your ground people like that are leeches and they will try to use you up until you put your food down.
2007-03-01 08:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mofabolist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats horrible can't you see she's not your friend she is just using you. I know it's hard to accept but your gonna have to. Tell her to get a job.
2007-03-01 08:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Oh Snap! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm she obviously isnt your friend...she doesnt care about you at all..just when she wants something....tell her that shes only nice to you when she wants something and your tired of it...and if that doesnt work then dont hang out with her
2007-03-01 08:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that,just say no,hey were nice guys but we got limits,shes using you,hey its hard to say no but u gota or she'll keep doing it,i recomend u stop,say no,she get mad oh well,she needs to grow up,life is tough,she'll get use to it
2007-03-01 08:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by Antonio R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of her shes no friend shes a moocher hon
2007-03-01 08:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by poohbear27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not your friend. Don't waste your time with her.
2007-03-01 08:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by reader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not a true friend
2007-03-01 08:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋