Why is my ex g/f still calling me? What can't she just stop!?

Question

I broke up with her last summer, she is seeing someone else now and said we will never get back together (i tried to get back together with her Jan07). Now she just wants to be "friends" and she still calls me every 2-3 days. I told her I have no respect for her cause she lies all the time. She makes me so mad. Why can't she just go away and leave me alone instead of playing with my emotions. Should I tell her i'm with someone else now (even tho im not)? I asked her why I should be friends with her, she couldn't answer the question except that "we have so much history together". Why can't she just go away and leave me alone. It's torture.

Answer 1

Tell her not to call you anymore. Then if she doesnt listen stop answering her calls. Eventually she will give up and you will be free!

Answer 2

either you gave her some A level penis or she's still emotionally, if not physically attached to you. But emotionally means, to her, you're just one of her girls now----that platonic dude that she can dump all the garbage from her new and meaningful relationship on. I personally would only talk about sex when she called and I mean every time. It can't hurt, right. Either she'll quit callin' ya or you'll get laid and the other guy gets to be the paying boyfriend. And try calling her @ all times of the day everyday.
Sex, sex and more sex in the conversation will either turn her on or turn her off-----for good. And damn the history cuz now you're less than a friend, you're a male girlfriend.
Good luck,

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Answer 3

Because she is determined to have her way with you no matter how this affects you. Some people are selfish that way.

Your ex knows you still have feelings for her and as long as you are willing to give her attention she will keep trying.

Tell your ex that you do not trust her and do not wish to have a platonic relationship with her either stop accepting her calls, e-mails, visits, etc.

If she tries to contact you after that hang up the phone before she starts speaking, do not e-mail her back, and If she shows up at your house call the police.

Unless she is a stalker, she'll eventually give up and find another person to prey on.

Answer 4

Some people do this because they want to keep the hold they have over you. They want to torture you and make you feel hell. Its not just girls who do this. Some men do it do.

If you have told her to stop calling and she still does i recommend stop answering the phone. Don't return her calls/email. Just play the cold shoulder. Don't talk to her or ask your friends about her.

She will soon get the picture that she no longer has that hold over you and will find someone else to torture

Good luck

Answer 5

Step 1: Harrassing phone calls police report
Step 2: Restraining Order.

Need I say more.

Answer 6

I know exactly how you feel. Honestly, you should just cut the contact you have with her. Because she will keep thinking that you will always be there for her to fall back on. Dont let her play with your emotions. Your not her puppet. Keep in mind that theres another girl outthere that is wating for you to move on. She will make you happy

Answer 7

my brother i was in ur shoes (similar)
she wanted to be friends and call me all the time and not want a relationship
she is seeking comfort on ur part man
i wont answer her calls man
i know its hard just dont do it
next step work on ur self esteem build right up and move on man
only u have strength to build ur self again
dont let her bring u down brother

Answer 8

Girls are stupid and maybe she just does value your friendship. But if you get her to stop let me know cause my bf's ex calls him all the time. I'd like to know how to get her to stop.

Answer 9

Maybe she wants to use you to make her new boyfriend jealous.Best to ignore her.Sounds like she is bad news..

Answer 10

tell her your seeing someone and say that she don't want you seeing her