started dating this guy about a month and a half ago.Everythings been great and we've had an awesome time together.Last night, i went to my gf's house to watch a movie and when I was leaving i called him and he told me to call him when I got home to make sure i got home safe(it was snowing)but I ended up falling asleep as soon as i hit the bed.he called me about an hour laterand he was Sh** faced drunk with his buddies.he had asked me yesterday if i wanted to hang out tonight and we had plans to watch a movie and i was going to spend the night at his house.when I asked him last night just to make sure we were still hanging out, he said maybe and I got kinda angry with him.He ended up hanging up on me,so i called back,he hung up again so i called back until he picked up(i know thats bad)he picked up and said that he couldnt do this and when i said does that mean we're broken up he said i guess so and hung up.I am so hurt and confused by this!What should i do? he wont pick up my calls!
2007-03-01 08:07:10 · 20 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave that guy alone. Just remind yourself about how he acts towards you when he is drunk. I'm pretty sure he is not going to stop drinking and you don't deserve to be treated in that way. Stop calling him and he is actually decides to call you, don't answer.You are better off without him
2007-03-01 08:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The whole calling until he picks up is horrible....That was totally smothering for a guy drunk or not. That was probably the mistake that drove him over the edge. Of course he could've been smart and turned off his phone to where he wouldn't have gotten irritated. He also went the easy way out and it could've been for that moment or for good. By just ending it, he knew the phone calls would stop/he wouldn't feel guilty for not answering and it could've been because you called and called and called and called and called and called and called and today if you hadn't called or anything, he might realize that he's an idiot and screwed up and would be forgiving. However most guys get crazy with a girl calls all the time so it might be for good but each guy varies. Good luck and I'm sorry
2007-03-01 08:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appears as if he had a change of plans and did not care enough about you to explain, instead just said "maybe". Stop calling him, he obviously is avoiding your calls and does not want to talk to you. By him hanging up on you shows a lack of respect. I really feel that you saw more into this relationship you had with him than it really was. One month is way too soon to determine if a guy is really interested in you. Since you two had already begun a sexual relationship after just knowing him for one month tells me he got what he was after and now he is looking to move on. I can see how this is leaving you feeling hurt and confused, but if you really look hard at how he is treating you, then what I have said will make more sense to you. Sounds to me as if by you falling asleep and not calling him to let him know that you were home ok, made him look like a fool to his friends and he is now reversing this on you to save face. He sounds very immature.
2007-03-01 08:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 01:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time he is upset and need some space. Don't call him wait a week if he doesn't call you and you are really into him, leave him a nice msg or send him a card something to let him know you still interested. If he still acting crazy move on.
2007-03-01 08:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mofabolist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Stop calling, it'll make you seem desperate and guys don't like that! I think you'll probably be okay, but I really think that this isn't worth it. Give him a last call and tell him that it's over. And then don't back down, no one should have the right to do that to you! I'm really sorry.
2007-03-01 08:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!?!? He was drunk!!!!
You can’t have a real talk with someone that is drunk. But obviously there is something in his head that bothers him about the relation cause he is denying it while drunk.
And it could be the fact you are not mature enough based on what you wrote in your question.
Just go talk to him in person, and see what is going on. I think you two could do better if you just talk about the relation.
Good luck.
2007-03-01 08:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst you can do is to put pressure on him. Maybe he wasn't thinking of you as something serious. Get some time off of him and maybe he call you back but give him and yourself time. He is not the only man in the world you know.. maybe he doesn't deserve you. :0)
2007-03-01 08:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by kettycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to let him think that you don't care if he wants you or not don't call over and over like hes the only man you could ever get for the rest of your life i mean don't get me wrong iv been there too but l learned my lesson and remember there's always someone out there bigger, sexier, and better and ain't no man worth calling more than twice let him call you and you don't answer that drives them crazy and when they start calling you over and over you wont even want them any more but it will still make you feel good that its the other way around!
2007-03-01 08:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by ashley m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him soo he could realise what he lost and maybe flirt with other guys make him jelouse or just take youre mind off him,hang out more with friends and forget him...he will come to his senses and realise what a stupid thging he did but never get back with him,if he hurt you once he will probably do it again...hope it helps
2007-03-02 11:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋