your bff had a crush and he asked you out and then your bff wrote you a note that said dont say no i am totally over him but you could tell she wasnt?
2007-03-01 08:09:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you value your friendship with your bff then don't do it. Boyfriends come and go but a true friend lasts! Don't risk your friendship for a silly boy!
2007-03-01 08:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, some say that it is an unwritten law that you aren't supposed to date your best friends, ex boyfriend. I'll say i've broken it, it happens...but what you need to do is talk to her about it. If she's truly okay with it, then do it. You can't think he's her "property". You're allowd to date who you want to. If you date him, your friend may be a little upset, but i'm sure it will push her to move on, which might be what she needs most. She can't sit and think about it all the time, all the what ifs may driver her crazy. If you don't want to push her to move on, talk to her about. Not in school, but on the phone, you should probably do it in person though.
2007-03-01 08:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by haleyknutson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Of course your girl doesn't want you to know that she still likes this guy. My girl and I have made a pact, we will not ever date someone the other one liked, dated or had a crush on. It's too many good men out their to hurt a friend...
2007-03-01 08:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so confused on whats a bff?
2007-03-01 08:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not date a boy that had dated my best friend. That causes too many problems.
2007-03-01 08:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT....Totally failure in friendships if you do regardless of whether she's over him or not. It's out of respect to your supposed best friend.
2007-03-01 08:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you like him? if you do go for it. yoru friend says she doesnt care but if your not sure just ask her. nothing happened with her and him so why not make it happen for you two?
2007-03-01 08:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by starstatus586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know she cares i wouldnt do it. friends will be there a lot longer than some boy.
2007-03-01 08:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it you will only hurt her in the end
2007-03-01 08:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by poohbear27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋