Ok. I need an opinion/advice. My boyfriend's ex, who he has a child with, can't stand me. She and I have only met in passing prior to them breaking up, but now she thinks he left her for me, which he didn't, and hates me. Its not that I want to be her buddy, but I am concerned about how it could affect our relationship with her always giving him crap about me. She says she doesn't want me around her child, etc. I have a child of my own from a previous marriage and my philosophy is that as long as the person is good to my child and my ex is happy, then I don't care.
I feel bad for him because I think he feels conflicted about it. He has to maintain some type of civility with her, wants to be with me, but then has to hear a bunch of negativity about it.
I'm at a loss on what to do here. I love him and want this to work out, but I'm confused on how to handle this because I have never acted like this toward anyone my ex has dated. I feel like its immature.
Help...
2007-03-01
07:49:11
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