3 days ago my friend introduced me to this boy(bascially i came to him) Was that wrong? But i dont chase after him or always be in his space i speak a little and walk on but yesterday when we were at the lockers i was nice and i spoke and said hi how are you and he spoke back(how come he didn't speak until I did) Then i asked if maybe he wanted my number because I wanted to have just a little ground.He took it. Was i wrong for giving him my number? I didn't want his because i thought that if i gave him my number I could see if he was interested. He didn't call yesterday but I expected that on the first night. So today my friend went asked him when I wasn't around if he had my number and if he called me.He said no he can't call me because he is on punishment. Does the punishment thing sound like a coverup because he really doesn't want to call me. If anything wouldn't he tell her to tell me that he wasn't interested because that way he doesn't have to say it to my face? Im so confused.
2007-03-01 07:50:57 · 16 answers · asked by smfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he is in hot water at home for something. Just do as you are and speak when you see him. Maybe not send your girlfriend in your place .Good Luck.
2007-03-01 08:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being assertive and giving a boy your number is not a bad thing really, maybe it was just too direct for him because he doesn't know you very well. He probably didn't speak first because he didn't know what to say and didn't want to put himself out there and look stupid if he said something wrong.
Don't get your friends involved if you like a guy. If you end up dating him, are you really going to ask your friends to ask your boyfriend if he wants to hold hands with you too?
Just see how things turn out and stop having your friends bug him. If he likes you, he'll call if not, there are more fish in the sea, and being friends is never a bad thing.
Just try to talk to him when you get the chance.
2007-03-01 16:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Maybe he is just shy or the type of person who listens to his friends when he should be following his heart . I am sure that if he never liked you that he would not have taken your number . Just sit tight and see what develops in the mean time I would focus on other things to keep my mind busy .
Be patient and see what happens .
Take care
C
2007-03-01 16:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that guys like being the GUY in situations like that you know askin a girl for her number so its more of a challenge which guys absolutely LOVE in my experienced anyways and if its handed to them its like... whats the point. maybe he reallie IS on punishment and it was only a day when you gave your number to him. maybe hes shy and didnt know quite what to do with the number. he was probably gonna call you but scared or shy as to what to talk about. guy usually have that THREE DAY RULE hahah i have the same one so you dont seem TOO EAGER when you get a new number... give him something to chase YOU about n its ok to chase after a guy but dont HOUND him or make it look like youre runnin after him... if he likes you or hes remotely interested im sure he can find a way to talk to you or find you or more things about you. RELAX n give him time to think about it... good luck
2007-03-01 15:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by ree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are over-thinking the situation. If he didn't tak to you until you sais something to him, he might have been waiting to see if you were going to talk to him.
As for the punishment, it could be legit. Chances are if he didn't want your number I don't think he would have taken it. It also sounds like you need to be honest with yourself too. You claim to like him, but didn't want his number? Why not get his number and call him. By doing this you could verify if he is really punished. Just something to think about.
2007-03-01 16:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by evil_paul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all you need to slow down and take a breather. Now if he said he is on puinshment then he must be unless you find out other wise. and some guy are just slow when it comes to talking to girls cause they think that you might not like them and they don't want to look like asses if you don't. You don't want to look like one of those overly protective girls guys really don;t like that. so say hi to him and stuff but don't throw yourself on him right away let this puinshment thing roll over and see if he calls and if he doesn't then screw him hes not worth it
there are plenty of fish in the sea to worry about
2007-03-01 15:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by marlena415 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying waaayyyy too hard to 1) get the guy and 2) analyze everything. Why can't you give him some time and space or you'll chase him off with the desperation you are sending out for him to give you some attention! Chill....
2007-03-01 15:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, this is not a mindtwisting problem. It's typical teenage behavior.
Leave him alone. He didn't tell you he was on punishment because he did not want to belittle himself to you.
Sit back, calm down, and wait and see.
2007-03-01 15:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax. You're overreacting. You just met him. Get the homrones out of your system and let something unfold the way it''s supposed to. He shouldn't be interested in you if you only talked once. Take time to get to know him.
2007-03-01 15:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by contact_nickhmusic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on his age, sounds like your in middle school or highschool. You could try asking this in adolescent too, to see what advice they give over there.
Guys play it cool, and guys do get in trouble, so don't sweat it for awhile. If he hasn't called in a week, cut your losses and move on.
2007-03-01 15:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by texas hearts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋