we have been together for 3 years and I am older then him, so he shouldn't have a problem yet for his age, is this a sign, that the relationship is over?
2007-03-01 07:59:22 · 22 answers · asked by VALERIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a sign that it just sometimes happens to a guy. It has nothing to do with you or your relationship. Maybe he is stressed, or maybe it just happened. It is perfectly normal for it to happen every now and then, The thing you need to do is be encouraging and don't make fun of him (you might mess up his ego and then he'll never be able to get it up) Do other things like make out or maybe even nothing to do with sex. Then you can try again later!
2007-03-01 08:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with men and erections, can have many causes.
One is mental, he may be nervous about satifying his mate. He may be unsure of himself and his performing.
Drinking is another physical one, if he's drunk, he may not be able to acheive an erection.
If it's happening often, then he may need a physical from his Doctor, to see if there is some ailment he has, that causes his problem.
It's also true that he may not find you sexually attractive. That's something you would know, yourself. If you are still attractive, then there is a problem.
It's best to talk it over and seek help from his Doctor.
2007-03-01 08:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd need more details because there has to be some extenuating circumstances that you left out here. Every now and again, my fiance won't be able to get an erection - if he's super tired (he works 3 jobs) or if he's had a drink or two with his buddies. But it's only happened twice - more than that I would be wondering what's up too!
2007-03-01 08:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he could have been nervous, of course, and or tired. Give him a break. Did u go down on him first? Play with him, or just leave everything up to him. Sounds like you just want to get laid and play around. Really that's what it sounds like. If that's true, be honest with yourself. If not, then work on the relationship. If this continues get medical help.
2007-03-01 08:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably cos he's not attracted to u nemore so that why he cudnt have any eraction.. or he had just had sexs with someone else cos guys sometimes cant get an ereaction when they have had sexs just minutes before.
and yes ur realtionship is over..
2007-03-01 08:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More likely it's a sign that he's tired or stressed. It might be a sign that he's not feeling well. It could indicate that he needs to see a doctor. Or it could just be an off day.
2007-03-01 08:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you two argue a lot or have other issues outside the bedroom. Distractions like that could have the same affect. If not then maybe you should give him some head or just
fondle it for him and see if you get an...ERECTION!
2007-03-01 08:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by www.askaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it may be hard to believe. But sometimes even guys aren't in the mood. And especially if they're stressed, or something's on their mind. Don't take it as a sign.
2007-03-01 08:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by contact_nickhmusic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight...A flacid penis in a moment of need ends a relationship? Wow, that's deep! If sex is all your relationship is based on Im guessing his "moment of weakness" isn't what's going to do you both in.
2007-03-01 08:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by ProudArmyWife2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all he should consult his physician he could symptoms of ED or more commonly known as erectile dysfunction. That is one of the reasons Viagra was invented.
2007-03-01 08:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋