have you ever got the feeling that there is no one i mean no one out there for you?
2007-03-01 07:54:12 · 5 answers · asked by laneabridges 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No not me, I am happily married, but I have a very good friend of 20 years who is single and cannot find a nice guy to have a relationship. She is 48 years old. She has never been lucky meeting the right kind of guy and she wasted her good precious years with the wrong men. Now she has kind of given up and I told her not to. She got very picky and now she is alone in her apartment with no dates; no prospects of finding the right guy. She has kind of given up. Now the reason I am telling you this story is I think my friend made alot of mistakes and she is stuck in a rut and has resigned herself that she will be single the rest of her life.. Don't you get into that rut and make that mistake.
What you have to do is examine yourself. Take a look at yourself and see if you are a little overweight. If you are, then make a project of losing 10 lbs or more. Then see if you are not dressing up to date; or if all your wardrobe is outdated. Change that by going out and buying a few nice outfits. Also examine your hair and face. Maybe its time for a new hairstyle and new makeup..a more up to date makeup look. Then when you have accomplished all these things, think about joining an internet dating service like Match.com. Also join your church groups for singles, get some single friends and start going out a little to some dances. I don't know you, but I assure you that there is someone out there for you; but you must start to change some things in your life. You are not going to meet the guy of your dreams staying home and moaning that there is no one out there for you...You will meet someone if you really want it. If you make some changes in your life and have a good upbeat attitude and show the world that you are confident and like yourself, you will attract someone nice. You know there are alot of guys out there that cannot meet a nice girl..maybe they are shy; a little awkward; and they have problems and I would give them the same advice if they asked. Smile and the world smiles with you. Cry and you cry alone. Have you ever heard that saying? Take it to heart and start making some changes in your life and you will see that there is a very special person out there just waiting for you. I wish you the best.
2007-03-01 08:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we have all felt that way at one time or another.........but with all the people in the world...the ones we know and havent really seen yet.....the ones we've not yet met .........I believe that everyone has their match out there.......may take awhile to find them but they are out there......probably searching for us while we search for them
2007-03-01 16:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by mystic_whispers_of_my_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the longer a person remains single,the more convinced you become of the fact that maybe you are destined to be alone! i have been single for as long as i can remember,so i definitely know what you mean!
2007-03-01 16:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends plenty...guys: i havent found a perfect guy, there is no perfect guy proabably the perfect match is across the world from you so thats why theres that saying theres some one in this world for you
2007-03-01 16:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by west side rider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, with a world of billions of people, there has to be someone that shares your interests and you can get along romanticaly with.
2007-03-01 16:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋