my relationship with this great guy lasted 2 frickin' weeks and he was making it go further quickly and said stuff was going well now today he says it wasn't meant to be? How did i get stuck with yet another jerk!?!?! where are the good guys? on the other hand, it's kinda cool to be single again cuz it was like i was trapped, but nice to have someone there for me. what am i doing so wrong? i'd do anything for my bf!!!
2007-03-01 08:28:51 · 10 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dating Sucks! I agree. I have seen my friends go through some tough times. All I can say is you need to live your life. Don't obsess over having a boyfriend! You don't need one to make your life complete.
2007-03-01 08:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa whoa whoa lady calm down the whole boyfriend train......Why are you willing to do anything for your boyfriend ?? Your most recent ex only wanted you for one thing and since he wasn't getting it, he went looking elsewhere which should be a benefit for you. I don't believe your doing anything wrong, just seem a little toooo eager to be in a relationship. Be content in being who you are and who your with. If you stop and smell the roses, love will be right in front of you. Good luck !!!
2007-03-01 08:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It`s always a chance. People break up after 2 weeks or 20 years. Thats`s life, roll with it and play the hand your dealt.
2007-03-01 08:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one of the things you are doing wrong is attracting jerks.
You are responsible for the kind of men you attract. You radiate and exude stuff - fear, envy, worry, love, friendship - and whatever you radiate out you get back. So if you radiate mistrust - you'll get a boyfriend that cheats. If you radiate truth, honesty and integrity - that's what you'll get.
This world is simple - as you give you get. So start giving out what it is you'd like to attract in a relationship.
FP
2007-03-01 08:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i'd do anything for my bf!!!"
There in lies your problem. While you may do anything for your bf, its not always a good thing. Its quite another thing to behave this way with a husband, but not a bf. Take things slow and get to know the guy. Don't let him push you into having his way with you.
2007-03-01 08:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be dating the wrong type of guys maybe try someone different it sounds to me like your getting into a rut the best way to get out of it is to change the way you look at guys.
2007-03-01 08:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DOING ANYTHING for your BF may be part of the problem. #1 Guys like a challenge and #2...u shouldn't have to LOWER yourself to moving faster than u are willing to. Take it slow to INSURE he is the right one.....GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-01 08:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by Papi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice,
listen to "im single" by natashia bedingfield ( however its spelled)
lol
im serious,
being single, way funner than dating,
cuz when ur single, u can call all guys hott!!
2007-03-01 08:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would have SUCKED more, he'd still be seeing you.
2007-03-01 08:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah OK it does
2007-03-01 08:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jakowellmo13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋