Ok...I have a problem...I'm a freshman in H.S. and have never french kissed a guy before and I'm freakin scared, I just don't know what to do. People say it just happens naturaly, but I don't think so...someone give me some dos and don'ts. What am I supposed to do? I don't mean to sound like a wierd freak or anything but I gotta know this stuff because I'm in high school and it's gonna happen sooner or later and I don't wanna be embarassed or look stupid. Please help!!!
2007-03-01 08:28:54 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Jelly [20080806] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kissing believe it or not does come naturally. There's no way to practice it or plan it. It may not be the best kiss of your life but it will be the most memorable. If your really worried about kissing then tell the guy your about to kiss that you've never kissed before and that he's gonna be your first. Or better yet just go for it. I'm sure your not gonna go out and ask a guy friend to kiss you or a stranger. So just relax my best friend didn't have her first kiss till she was 16. My first kiss wasn't the best but i wouldn't change a thing about it my first french kiss wasnt the best but again there's nothing i would change about it. Just relax it really isn't a big deal just go with the flow. Your not the only girl that hasn't had her first kiss yet. Everyone goes through it so chill.
2007-03-01 08:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a freshman too and honestly most of it is naturally and when people say do and dont their normally stuff you wouldn't or couldn't think of doing anyway. Basically all you do is go in for the kiss and let the guy lead he will let you know with his mouth what he likes and doesnt like. But if you insist there are do's and dont's then here are some:
Never open your eyes until you are done
Don't use too much tongue.
Don't mash your lips against your partner's.
Don't look terrified when the other person approaches you for a kiss.
Do not talk about a first kiss with the person you're going to kiss for the first time. This will ruin the excitement and may turn down expectations.
Don't salivate all over your partner while kissing.
Don't just let your partner do all the work during the kiss.
Don't eat garlic or other harsh foods before a kiss.
Don't remain emotionless after the kiss.
Don't wait until the 20th date to kiss her/him.
Don't open your mouth so wide that it feels like you are sucking the other person in.
Don't have the first kiss with someone in public in front of others.
Only use enough tongue to feel the other person's tongue.
Be gentle with the first kiss.
Smile after you kiss. Or in the least laugh or giggle to show some emotion.
Swallow periodically during the kiss.
Participate in the kiss.
Make sure your breath is fresh by either brushing your teeth or having a mint or piece of gum.
It is OK to kiss someone on the first date. And if not the first date at least during the second.
Always make sure the first kiss is when the two of you are alone.
2007-03-01 16:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Oh Snap! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down... Breathe... Okay, French kissin is not that big of a deal. People make it seem like it's more than it really is, but they exagerate! Some don't are-- Don't bite on your first kiss b/c you don't know how sensitive the lips really are... Don't Slobber everywhere (lol) b/c it is soooo not attractive..
Do stay calm, and let him guide you. It's really easy. You'll have the butterflies in your tummy, but don't let it kill the moment. Don't over analyze the process--just go with the flow!
2007-03-01 16:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by Reserved 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't freak out, french kissing is simply kissing someone and letting your tongue go into their mouth.
That's it, nothing more, nothing less. You may like it, or not, and will know once you have done it.
Remember, every one on this planet, and that is billions of people, have been where you are, and have survived it.
So relax, when the time comes, and you feel ready for it, just let your lips open up, and let your tongues do, what comes naturally.
2007-03-01 16:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I french kissed 2 guys in my life and now that you're asking the question, i still remember the first one!
i used to eat chewing gums all the time, as i didn't want him to catch bad breath!! i never knew when the kiss would happen, you see!! well, one thing for sure is,,
you want the first time to be unforgetable, so do it with someone you really really like, don't just kiss someone because you just want to try, it won't be the same!
if you really like someone, when he will kiss you, you will just "float" and really, everything comes naturally
2007-03-01 16:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girlfriends and i used to practice on each other when we were younger. it's not a weird question at all. and the beautiful thing is, everyone kisses differently, so as long as you act confidant and like you're enjoying it, then he won't ever know that it's your first time. there's no trick---just kiss him normally, slip the tongue in (but not aggressively!) and lick his. then kiss him on the lips again for good measure. be slow and sincere and he'll probably take it from there!
2007-03-01 16:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by a_yahoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it! You'll find that it DOES come natural because chances are the other person knows what he is doing and he'll guide you along with his tongue. There really is no technique, but it helps to try to keep your tongue in his mouth or yours, you don't want to be sloppy. also, you don't need to get as fas as possible into his mouth. Good luck!! oh, and keep your eyes closed!
2007-03-01 16:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by _hopefull_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have to relax & go with the flow don't go opening your month all big & try shoving your tongue down his throat. Just let him make the first move & go with the flow let him take the lead & just go with it. Its not as big of a deal than u think. Watch when it happens u be like i can't believe that i was this nervous about something like this
2007-03-01 16:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are deffiantly some donts!!
such as, do not eat strong foods if you know its gunna happen like onions,garlic, and even peanut butter!!
dont lick the guys face.lol
put your hand on his/her shoulder or waist for extra sexiness.
to avoid over-slobbering practice with this:it works!
make a fist with one hand.
make and o with your mouth and lick your hand,for a minute or two.
come up and if you notice saliva outside of where your mouth was,your a sloppy kisser!
keep working on this!
sounds outragis i know but it works!!
tips:
spritz some fruity smelling body spray on your chest and put on a yummy lip balm or gloss.
hope this helped!
<3
2007-03-01 16:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move your tongue around in his mouth. It's gross!
Every few seconds stop and change positions. Don't just sit there for a minute doing nothing.
And....Make sure your mouth isn't completly dry or soaking wet. A little bit of saliva works!
2007-03-01 16:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋