I feel so messed up! My bf and I had a huge fight over him sleeping over at another girls place after going out to the bar. She's a girl from work and I kinda liked her but not anymore....apparently she told him that night that she liked him at the bar... for some reason he didn't tell me this straight up, it was only after we argued that he told me. I felt hurt. He said nothing happend and I do believe him but it still bothers me! He just called to say he was going out for some food after work, naming a bunch of people including her room-mate-but not saying her. I asked if she was going and he said yes...I asked why he didn't say that...and of couse it was because he didn't want to upset me....am I upset?? Yeah I am. what is happening to us? He said he told her that they couldn't hang out anymore because it wasn't good for our relationship...he said he liked her, not that he would break up to be with her but that he liked her... how do I get over this?
2007-03-01 08:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by wilsonfromthefrew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when ur drunk, the sad and honest truth is, u do want ur self conscious wants.
so he must have some feelings for the grl at work.
my advice, dump him like a hot potatoe!!
2007-03-01 08:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something...most guys would not even tell you that they liked some girl...because they care enough about you and don't think it's something that would compromise your relationship. The fact that he told you straight up that he likes her should say to you that he 1) really doesn't care whether or not your relationship lasts and 2) is a jerk and wants you to either be jealous or is really so dumb that he thinks it is "okay" for him to like another girl while he's with you.
You are better off without him.
2007-03-01 08:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my 30's so I dealt w/ sorry men like this. They want their cake & eat it too.
I would find out what bar their at and show up there with some friends. Then start talking w/ other men. Karma! The tell him it's over!
You don't need a man like that.
2007-03-01 08:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by FrancoAmerican! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well once you learn the whole truth, and if it puts him in a bad light totally, then, I would walk away. Sounds to me that he is very insecure and likes to push and pull women around. Don't put up with it. there are a ton of great guys out there that would love to meet someone like you.
2007-03-01 08:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama little mama... Get rid of that zero and get with a hero. You certainly don't need a man who cheats on you and plays the field.
2007-03-01 08:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok for one he is lying you dont just go to a bar get drunk and crash at some chicks house you work wiith her she could have brought him home she can get your number from work i am not buying this two he lied to ya about going and getting food blah blah i think he cheated sorry
2007-03-01 08:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by poohbear27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing by telling him how you feel. he is doing the right thing by telling her he cant hang out with her anymore. if he sees her now after saying that, then I would say he is cheating, and if not cheating he is at least deceiving you
2007-03-01 08:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now u need to sit down with him
in a mature way
ask her to be honest with u
nice and gentle
the worst thing is to hide things in
2007-03-01 08:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your boyfriend slept at another girls house......where? On the floor, in her bed...where? It doesn't matter anyway...he likes her and will eventually sleep with her, unless he already has.
confront her--and the truth will be known.
DROP THE SCUM.
2007-03-01 08:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by jere r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loose him he a bul s**ter and hes going to be with her and y would you like to be with him if he likes some other girl common
2007-03-01 08:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by daveandbriit05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋