Well this guy & I have been friends w/benefits for 8 mos. He said that he isn't ready to committ. He has told me that he is dating other women, although I've opted not to date other men. I'm just not in that mindset right now. However, whenever I leave the house, I'm on the phone & don't want him to hear or when I'm not available to take his call he thinks I'm with some guy. He keeps asking me if I'm sleeping with or seeing someone else, I keep telling him no but he doesn't believe me.
I have issues with him dating other women but I understand that's how it's going to be until he decides he wants to committ. I get jealous sometimes but he falsly accuses me of going through he phone. I want this friendship to work. I'm not seeing other guys & he thinks I'm lying when I say that & then he saids it doesn't matter. Even if I was seeing someone else why is it such a big deal to him if he doesn't want to committ to me?
2007-03-01 08:34:20 · 2 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why dose it matter he is going out with other girls . i think you are giving it up to a person that's playing you i would stop being hid Friends with benefit. but i don't know y is he getting so jealous you have to find out whats really going on ?
2007-03-01 08:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by daveandbriit05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has to change to a friend w/o benefits right now. He needs to control you while getting inti the pants that comes available.
You need to worry about STD's too.
Get it all out in the clear and if he is not happy, find a better man.
Good luck
2007-03-01 16:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋