Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

How many and their names?
Me one Brother his name Andrew

2007-03-01 09:11:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 14 years old and I really like a guy who is 17 and in my school. I know I've asked this is so many different places, but how do I get him to become attracted to me and how do I become less shy? It's bothering me, and I feel I'm running out of time.

2007-03-01 09:11:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 09:11:04 · 1 answers · asked by pondering 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy (let's call him B), and we both like each other. He told me he really likes me. Yet, a lot of the times, he brings up other guys, or just specific guys when I'm talking to him in weird ways. For example, there's this guy in my school who he thinks likes me at least a little bit even though I don't think so and I don't really like him. So sometimes, B brings up the guy and he says, "You guys are the perfect couple." "I can see you walking with him and holding hands - lovebirds." He says this in kind of a joking way.

B and I were talking about the show, Lincoln Heights, once and I mentioned how I liked one of the male characters and thought he was cool and B replied with: "He looks gay."

Main questions: Why does he say these things? And don't guys not like to talk about other guys with girls they like, if so, why does he do that?

2007-03-01 09:10:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in college,there are a group of guys who always laugh by as we pass them. What should i do? Keep ignoring them...... Please give suggestions

2007-03-01 09:10:27 · 20 answers · asked by confused! 1 in Singles & Dating

im so sick of all the phonies out there the only real guys are the dorks and computer nerds(of course i met this really hot nerd the other day)

2007-03-01 09:10:22 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

She was date raped last weekend.

I don't know the guy and have no idea what he looks like. It's killing me because she is like my younger sister (I'm 22, she's 20). We have talked about it a lot and she doesn't want me to do anything about it. I'd smash the guys face in if she hadn't made me promise not to. Worst thing is that she won't tell anyone, and won't let me either. She said she didn't want to let it affect her that much because that would make him win. I understand her thinking but he needs to pay, if not by me then by the law. I'm close to calling the police department, the only thing that's stopping me is that she would never talk to me again if I told the police. She said to just leave it be so she can go on with her life. The big brother side of me doesn't want to listen but my friend side does.

WHAT DO I DO?!?!?

2007-03-01 09:10:17 · 11 answers · asked by ChemGuy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her parents know. They say she is just going through an experamental phase. I know she needs help but i dont know wat to do. Any advice?

2007-03-01 09:10:00 · 2 answers · asked by sailor_girlxoxo 2 in Friends

my (ex) boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. it wasn't a messy break up and we are still friends and we talk often. the only problem is he is being pretty apathetic and emotionless as usual about the whole thing. but i am a mess. it's safe to say I really don't want to live if it means not being with him. not to sound emo, but i've actually considered killing myself because i'm not good enough for him and he's really the only person who has ever said that he cares about me, even if he didn't mean it. so i've decided that I am really going to work on changing things in my life because I really really want this to work out, because i'm afraid that i'm going to lose him as a friend also. please, if you have any advice on how to change this all and start over with him please please help.. thanks =) -Bianka

2007-03-01 09:08:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you meet Latin girls in the US, they are all well horrible mingers?!?

2007-03-01 09:08:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister who lives with me now, i recently smelled pot in her room, but didnt say anything as i used to have a drugs problem too, but it was more serious than that. i dont want her going the same way as me, but what can i say without sounding like a hypocrite? we dont have any other family we talk to...do you think that it will lead on to worse problems, or is it just pot?

2007-03-01 09:08:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

started dating this guy about a month and a half ago.Everythings been great and we've had an awesome time together.Last night, i went to my gf's house to watch a movie and when I was leaving i called him and he told me to call him when I got home to make sure i got home safe(it was snowing)but I ended up falling asleep as soon as i hit the bed.he called me about an hour laterand he was Sh** faced drunk with his buddies.he had asked me yesterday if i wanted to hang out tonight and we had plans to watch a movie and i was going to spend the night at his house.when I asked him last night just to make sure we were still hanging out, he said maybe and I got kinda angry with him.He ended up hanging up on me,so i called back,he hung up again so i called back until he picked up(i know thats bad)he picked up and said that he couldnt do this and when i said does that mean we're broken up he said i guess so and hung up.I am so hurt and confused by this!What should i do? he wont pick up my calls!

2007-03-01 09:08:14 · 6 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Singles & Dating

iz my bf taking me 4 a ride?
he went away 2 work in north wales for a month and didnt hear from him for a month and then the other week he calls me saying that he really missed me and i am so sorry that i havent been in touch with you have been so busy love you loads is it alright if we meet up tomorrow and i said i cant tomorrow i promise my mate that i would go out with her since its her b'day and then he said ok darling maybe we can do sumthing at the weekend keep in touch but he has'nt been in touch all week

2007-03-01 09:08:14 · 9 answers · asked by Kate J 1 in Singles & Dating

You have a serious disition to make. You need to choose between saving your relationship with your friends or your relationship with your friends. When your family doesn't like your friends that you hangout with all the time. Which one do you choose knowing you can't have both?

2007-03-01 09:07:54 · 4 answers · asked by triple_da 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

all my friends think its all about sex when ur in love but i begg to differ. i think love is some thing special, and when ur romantic i would think ur partner would show the same amount of affection to him. ( sex is a posibly ) . sex just isent romantic tho, that not saying im going to have it tho. Do most girls want sex or is it just us guys that are always thinking it ??

2007-03-01 09:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 09:07:21 · 26 answers · asked by Led*Zep*Babe 5 in Weddings

is there a website i can go to that will let me listen to the songs without having to buy them???

2007-03-01 09:07:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a girlfriend. We are both going thru divorces (prior to knowing each other) but she tends to put her friends ahead of our plans to be alone. Example: We agreed to go away alone for her birthday. It has now turned into a group road trip with HER friends. Every weekend that we spend together without our respective children, one day basically needs to be spent with us being with HER friends. Sometimes I think I am always "compromising" to be with her friends just to make her happy! She admits that her friend are ultra important to her and that is understandable. We live 45 minutes away from one another and I have made midweek trips to see her. However, the ONLY times she has offered to see me midweek was not about US, but also involved one of her friends and her job. Not just a simple "seeing me" visit. Am I stupid for believing she loves me or does it even sounds like she loves me as she states that she does? Or should I let her be so she can enjoy her life with her friends???

2007-03-01 09:06:38 · 2 answers · asked by Papi G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-01 09:06:37 · 11 answers · asked by crw_km 1 in Marriage & Divorce

alright.. my boyfriend of almost a year, it would be year this month, told me Sunday that we needed a "break".. i was devastated and heart broken.. Well now i'm getting all kinds of people telling me that he's seeing someone else.. i ask him about this and he denies it and he promises to get back together with me in two weeks.. i don't know who to believe.. i mean i really do love him and i really do think he loves me too.. but i'm giving him his space so he can deal with whatever he's dealing with i'm just afraid he won't come back but he has before. Do you think he will obey his promise to me and get back together with me in two weeks?

2007-03-01 09:05:53 · 10 answers · asked by Dava 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 09:05:15 · 2 answers · asked by delia 4 in Singles & Dating

were in high school she is new at school and we talk once... i started the conversation saying its cold outside when she was about to go outside and get a snack out of the snack machine... and i stayed inside by myself and she comes back in and starts to talk to me... we talk about our school history and religion. She told me she lives with her grandmother and she goes to this big church... she told me she used to go to private school and she had to wear a dress and she didn't like it... so she now goes to the public school... she also said that our class feels like it's summer school... are conversation ended when are 10 min break was over and back to work... i was leaving early right when break was over... she told me she was leaving in 2 hours... anyways, she said she was a loser and she walk back to class and I told her no your not... and that was it we both walk away and headed in different directions.... i thought the conversation was going good, but she was doing most of the talking... why do you think she called her self a loser for? she sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser... maybe she thought i was bored with our conversation... Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and the girl im interested was sittin behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright. I was going to say something than she puts her head down and goes back to work. She didn't have any friends when she was new now she has 1 that's really her true friend which he's gay btw. Anyways when she walks past me she won't even look at me. I hate when a girl ignores you like that. I'm not gonna talk to her unless she looks at me because to me that just seems like she doesn't want anything to do with me. I don't really know her that well, but i think she been acting weird. The class was on break so almost everyone goes outside and gets some fresh air and some stay inside by the door and waits for break to be over. The guys and I stay inside and wait for break to be over while the girls go outside and get some fresh air. I saw her talking to this guy outside and she anyways break was just about over and the girl comes inside and she kinda shouts to the guys if the door was lock. The guys said yea and than she seem like she had an attitude sayin in a rude way i'm going right back outside and goes right back and talks to the guy. Then I went outside and told her the door is now open and she ignore me like she didn't hear me. Maybe she really didn't. She was still talking to the guy. And few minutes later she comes inside and im right there and she didn't look at me. Then she goes back in the class and im still in the hall. So she gets out of class takes out her cell phone and calls her mother. And she goes outside and talks. The guy that she was talkin to was still out there. As soon as there conversation was over she said peace out to him. She could of ask me if the door was lock. I mean I was right next to her when she said it. I haven't went to school for 4 days, but I went today and we both made eye contact for about 3-4 seconds, but her friend was right by the door when i walk in the class... so idk... than as we went on break she was waiting right by the door and i think she was looking at me to see if i would talk to her... but i didnt i walk right past her... i heard her outside yelling on the phone probably a family member... i was inside... i could hear her yelling cause i was right by the outside door... than she came inside cause it was cold outside... she talk on the phone across from me for about 2-3 minutes... than she went right back outside and talk... when she was done talking on the phone... she came inside with her head down... than she look up and look at me in a moody way... than she look back down really quick...she didnt give me a mean look... but she gave me a look like she was kinda mad or upset... shes not shy but i am... and i dont think she knows i am since we dont really know each other...

2007-03-01 09:05:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been friends for over a year and we have been through so much together. Our relationship was great at first then we got too close. She admitted to me that all of her relationships were bad and she said that all her sisters had to go through lots of bad relationships to get the right one and be happy. She backed away from me because she believed our relationship would work... maybe it scared her... I love her so much and I don't wanna live hte rest of my life without her. I have a job offer that is out of state and i only have 2 months to decide and I'm afraid I will never see her again... what do I do???

2007-03-01 09:04:34 · 15 answers · asked by missionary_koolaid 1 in Singles & Dating

we are both in high school and he is an exchange student,,,
we got pretty close over the weeks that i knew him,,,
however i learned that the place that he is staying at has rules of "no dating"....
He likes to flirt... but knowing this information should i even try to pursue something more than a friendship?
thank you!

2007-03-01 09:04:29 · 9 answers · asked by Halomot 1 in Singles & Dating

Can someone give me advice on how to move on and how can I not see men as just out to hurt me? I am the mother of a son, that needs a positive mother in his life. I don't want to warp his views on relationships.Thanks in advance!

2007-03-01 09:04:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

yes me and my man have only been togther for a month and i am already pregnant. but I want to look at this as a positive. At least he is stepping up and being a man. most guys just bail out. we are even talking about getting married. what would you do if your were in my position?

2007-03-01 09:03:35 · 7 answers · asked by Shayna 1 in Singles & Dating

I waited until my daughter was 16 and it was a mistake, I think it would have went better if I had done it when she was 2, until of staying for the sake of the child.

2007-03-01 09:02:42 · 14 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy about 2 months ago, I got an instant crush on him only to find out he had a g/f he said he didn't tell me sooner because i didnt ask but i didnt think i needed to he acted very single and i see him 4 or 5 nights a week and she is never with him. it started out with us just being friends and going out 2 eat and just hanging out with his friends and my friends then after a few beers one night we had sex, we have great chemistry, and alot of fun together, we also have alot in common. i just don't understand how he can go out with me like he dosen't care if he gets caught we live in a small town and i know someone will tell her eventually i know i should put a stop 2 this but i can't help feeling like thier relationship isn't my responsibility and if anybody should feel guilty it should b him even though i really want 2 b with him and i just wonder how he would act if i did stop sleeping with him if hed still b nice or if he'd act like a jerk or just ignore me altogrther

2007-03-01 09:02:22 · 30 answers · asked by aimee 1 in Singles & Dating

im bored so yea yeA!

2007-03-01 09:02:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does he flirt with other girls except me?
their is this boy whos 15 and im 14 ive fancied him for a long time and we are good mates and everything but im shy of him and hes shy of me because he knows i fancy him and he seems to get embarrassed he flirts with other girls except me i mean he talks to me and helps me with stuff but when we are alone he doesnt talk to me if i see h walking on the way to school he looks allover the play he actually smiled at me for along time once, i kind of made a mistake by telling everyone i fancy him and everyone says hes not worth it that he doesnt like me in that way and he will never like me in that way, if i speak to him on msn sometimes he speaks to me and sometimes he goes offline we find it hard to talk to each other and he hardly speaks but hes nice if i say hi to him he will say hi back and when he sees me he doesnt usually smile that much, i dont know what to do should i move on because its reall hard for m to ask him out or do you think he fancies me or hes shy or not advice me pl

2007-03-01 09:01:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends