i'm sleeping with a guy who has a g/f is it possible to go back 2 us just being friends?

Question

I met this guy about 2 months ago, I got an instant crush on him only to find out he had a g/f he said he didn't tell me sooner because i didnt ask but i didnt think i needed to he acted very single and i see him 4 or 5 nights a week and she is never with him. it started out with us just being friends and going out 2 eat and just hanging out with his friends and my friends then after a few beers one night we had sex, we have great chemistry, and alot of fun together, we also have alot in common. i just don't understand how he can go out with me like he dosen't care if he gets caught we live in a small town and i know someone will tell her eventually i know i should put a stop 2 this but i can't help feeling like thier relationship isn't my responsibility and if anybody should feel guilty it should b him even though i really want 2 b with him and i just wonder how he would act if i did stop sleeping with him if hed still b nice or if he'd act like a jerk or just ignore me altogrther

Answer 1

>Just tell him the playground is closed until further notice...you're the female, you control the situation.<

Answer 2

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Answer 3

For some reason along the way, you don't feel or think how you feel is just as important as anyone Else's. Well, it is! You wouldn't want a guy cheating on you, so why are you doing this to another female? If he wants to be a cheater, let him-he's a big boy. He will also pay the consequences for his actions. Plus, who would want him for a bf? Not me! As for you, who cares if he is bad at you for stopping the sex? Tell him you have been wrong, and you feel you have been going against your morals, that it's just not right since he does have a gf! Which is true-I hope! You need to learn to like your self, and than others will treat you with respect-which everyone deserves-INCLUDING YOU!!!! Good luck!!

Answer 4

Honey.....what can i say... your just another notch on his belt. Don't you think he would have said something earlier. You know woman can be sooooooooo naive when it comes to men. Women think with there hearts and we turn to mush if the guy pay more attention.
Men... you ask a man ANY truthful man and he will tell you that all they think of is SEX!!!
Lets see he is seeing you 4 - 5 nights a week and her probably just before are later that evening.
This is not a good position to be in, don't be used by a user and find someone that truly respects YOU!!!

Answer 5

If he has a g/f, then you should be the responsible one even if he isn't. This girl will hate you more if you don't stop and she finds out than if you quit now. I understand that you have strong feelings for this guy but if he would cheat on his g/f, why would he not cheat on you if he were to break it of with her? He has to grow up a little bit before he can ever have a real relationship with anyone. Don't let this go much farther otherwise things will get ugly.

Answer 6

I don't think it is a good idea starting a relationship with someone who already has one, it doesn't matter how he treats his girlfriend or how she treats him, the point is that they are still together. I guy will not always give up the opportunity to have sex with a girl, (why buy the milk if you can get the cow for free)! End this before it turns on you!!! When he's free then maybe you should consider, and remember Karma!!!

Answer 7

Just think about this Aimee....if he can act like that towards his current girlfriend, do you actually think that he will act differently towards you if you became his girlfriend? Probably not. Find someone that is single to have your fun with because in the long run you will look just as bad as he is because you know he has a girlfriend and you are continuing with the sexual relationship/friendship.

Answer 8

Wow., sex with no strings attached. He's one lucky man.
Also a creep, and is using you. He may not even have another girlfriend, and using that as an excuse to sleep with you, and not get serious.
You haven't seen her, and you are seeing him a lot.
Either way, he's using you for sex. If you don't mind it, and are enjoying it. that's all well and good. But if you are looking for a commintment, you won't get it with him.
So give up the sex, and see what happens. It may be time to move on and find a guy, that is yours alone.

Answer 9

He shows himself to be a man without character or honor. He has a girlfriend, he lied to you to get you in the sack.
Basically, he's a whore.
And, always remember, he would cheat on you too at the drop of a hat if someone new came along.
Why don't you give his girlfriend an anonymous call and tell her what's happening. Don't mention who you are of course, and just see what happens. See how he reacts to being found out.

Answer 10

Yeah, it's possible but it sounds like he wants the sex. Why not just tell him that you're not comfortable with him having a girlfriend and you sleeping together so you want to go back to being friends. I bet you'll have a hard time with that tho b/c I bet he'll still want the sex so good luck trying.

Answer 11

To me just feelslike he doest care about that other girl ( does she even exist or he made her up for some reason? ) Just talk to him maybe he will open up? I mean how is it that you like thsi guy? you knew he had a g/f and he is still going out with you, doesnt that make him a jerk? a cheater? and yet you are with him and you sleep with him? lets say you two end up being together, how the hell are you ever going to trust him that he is not with anyone else when he is with you?