I am 14 years old and I really like a guy who is 17 and in my school. I know I've asked this is so many different places, but how do I get him to become attracted to me and how do I become less shy? It's bothering me, and I feel I'm running out of time.
2007-03-01 09:11:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't make any one like you. and stay away for older boys you will get them in to trouble, your jail bait
2007-03-01 09:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by kelly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this for he's 17 your 14 that could happen but then again he's too old for you. It would be better if you were both older. In a year he's gonna be 18 and you 15 that's illegal. I'm sure your parents aren't gonna go for that. So for now stick with someone your own age try to go for guys that are 2 years older then you and no more then that. I know its only a years difference but still. If you know him then just be friends for now. If he's acting like he likes you then he's probably just playing with you.
2007-03-01 09:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by Alli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dang, girl, how should I say this.. you got your looks and some tricks up your sleeve, and don't underestimate the power of body language. You like him, pop in front of him often so he can't forget your face, and after a while he won't want to live without it. Add to that huge smiles and a cheerful disposition, and the rest is up to whether you will be able to love each other, you know, MFEO.
2007-03-01 10:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he notices you but doesnt do or say anything he might think you are too young. He may like you but realizes you are younger than him and doesnt want to risk that. Try asking him a few normal questions like how hes doing and what he thinks about new things going on in your area.
2007-03-01 09:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're running out of time?
At 14, if it's anything you're not missing, it's time. As you brain said bye bye to you long time ago.
2007-03-01 09:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by stranger2ooo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is too old for you. Stick with boys your own age or a little older.
2007-03-01 09:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by kelbean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone like you,everyone is in control of their own inviduality. If u wanna get to know him its best to take it slow.guys are never really in a rush for realtionships.and they dont have that big strong sence of "have to be in a realtionship"as us women. Its naturally for women to have that crave.men noway! so if i wa syou..be confident and be urself and talk to him..Take it slow.. :)
p.s ..i know thsi by plenty of experiences and if u try so hard to like u..he may get a girlfriend.. just to chase u away.or lie about it.haha been their! so be his friend for now..
2007-03-01 09:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont forget that there are a lot of good and handsome guys which their ages is near to urs
2007-03-01 09:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smile at him, be polite around him, talk to him when you have an opportunity, be interested in the things he has to say. Just be yourself. Additionally, do not be devastated if he does not return your interest. He is just one fish in the sea. In otherwords, if you be yourself and don't pester him, it will help as well.
2007-03-01 09:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He is MUCH too old for you. Leave him alone, find someone closer to your own age. Be glad you aren't my little sister....
2007-03-01 09:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by Hey you! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋