help plz....?

Question

Why does he flirt with other girls except me?
their is this boy whos 15 and im 14 ive fancied him for a long time and we are good mates and everything but im shy of him and hes shy of me because he knows i fancy him and he seems to get embarrassed he flirts with other girls except me i mean he talks to me and helps me with stuff but when we are alone he doesnt talk to me if i see h walking on the way to school he looks allover the play he actually smiled at me for along time once, i kind of made a mistake by telling everyone i fancy him and everyone says hes not worth it that he doesnt like me in that way and he will never like me in that way, if i speak to him on msn sometimes he speaks to me and sometimes he goes offline we find it hard to talk to each other and he hardly speaks but hes nice if i say hi to him he will say hi back and when he sees me he doesnt usually smile that much, i dont know what to do should i move on because its reall hard for m to ask him out or do you think he fancies me or hes shy or not advice me pl

Answer 1

Move on, girl. It sounds like he likes you just as a friend, but he isn't into you that way. He just doesn't know how to break the news to you. If he really liked you even if he was shy, he wouldn't just sign off once you sent him an IM on msn. And if other people say he isn't worth it, and that he doesn't like you like that, maybe you should listen? Maybe they know something you don't and they just don't know how to tell you?

Answer 2

I went through exactly the same thing a couple of years ago and the best advice I can possibly give you is to appreciate the fact that you're friends with him- don't try and push it.
It's really easy to convince yourself that he is flirting with other people, but chances are he's not and you're reading into it, then again, maybe he is, men are a strange species to understand!
The guy I liked started going out with someone else and they're still together, we don't talk anymore whatsoever.
It's better to be friends with him than have nothing to with him. If he does like you, he'll probably let you know in that boy way.
The best luck in the world for dealing with it!
Abz x

Answer 3

He's a boy so even though he is older then you he is not as mature. He probably has no idea you are having these thoughts about him. Even if your mates have told him, he probably thinks they are winding him up. Just play it cool. Don't talk about him to your friends any more and only treat him like all the other boys. If he is interested in you then you will know soon enough - if not, then you haven't made a fool of yourself. You're probably too good for him anyway.

Answer 4

play it cool, before it becomes public i know a few people know, but the whole school doesn't know yet. the next time you see him, give a weak smile and slightly raise your hand, but don't go out of your way to speak to him or say hi, make it look like you didn't see him at first and that you don't like him anymore, he might think you're not interested in him anymore and he might realise what he's missing if you always look like you're having fun whenever he sees you (this is where ur girly pals come in) or he might just leave it and not think much of it, either way, if he's interested he will find a way to let you know

Answer 5

To think well is to impose discipline and restraint on our thinking-by means of intellectual standards — in order to raise our thinking to a level of "perfection" or quality that is not natural or likely in undisciplined, spontaneous thought. The dimension of critical thinking least understood is that of "intellectual standards." Most teachers were not taught how to assess thinking through standards; indeed, often the thinking of teachers themselves is very "undisciplined" and reflects a lack of internalized intellectual standards so you do whatever you think is right from your prospective

Answer 6

just dont be shy? i was shy too? but not any more? i'm a loud chick at school and at home any where??