Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

i am 5 11" and my bf is 6 3" and when we got together he said he loved my height and i loved gettin glammed up to go out with my heels on and i felt confident. . ive just been signed up to do some modelling work. and since ive started my bf now makes alot of comments about my height and if i wear heels he complains i look to tall and makes me take them off. he says tall girls should wear flats and when he sees me modelling says i look terrible with heels cos i look too tall for a girl . i just dont understand his problem, before i started modelling he werent bothered if i wore heels. when i asked him why he dosent like me wearing them he tells me to shut up. so now i dont wear them anymore but i was just wondering do other tall girls wear heels.

2007-02-25 13:31:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 16 and very confused and mad. How could my mom do that? And with that man!? He is not only my neighbor , but the father of one of my best friends. My friend also has a crush on me and I like him too. But now this screws everything up bigtime.

2007-02-25 13:31:37 · 7 answers · asked by Lin W 1 in Friends

I feel dead inside because I am in this marriage where we don't share anything in common besides our past and our kids. I love him as a person, as my best friend, but not as a man and I feel SO OLD. (I'm 39) We don't talk hardly at all, we don't have any fun anymore, it's just gotten overwhelmingly hard to deal with now. I LOATHE the thought of trashing the marriage because it will devastate my kids, but I am lost as to what to do. I'm not even sure I'd be happier single. We got married young (me 20, him 21) and neither one of us had done much living. We were young and stupid (and didn't even HAVE to get married!) and made this decision before we even knew what marriage meant. Now I feel trapped, lonely, isolated, and bored and what's worse is I feel GUILTY for feeling this way. But what do I do? I can't PRETEND to be in love with him. Can't PRETEND to be attracted to him. Now what?

2007-02-25 13:31:28 · 26 answers · asked by SeaChelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My b/f of 8 months sent this he hasnt spoken to me in 2 months please help explain

before i finish this message im letting you know...ive been drinking and its cold so im gonna state this quick
why have we not spoken? i'll tell you why i stopped and why i constantly stop with you - your attitude is strange. sure i act weird myself but its because i have forced myself to have time for the things that will get me ahead in life. i know i chose to be with you of all the women i could have in the world. i know i told you that i love you. and right now i miss you. NOT YOUR *****. im not ******* insane. i dont say i miss you because i miss sex. stop saying that. i don't like how you always state that i dress better than you and how you think that it is sad blah blah blah. cut that out. what are you up to? do you even miss me? ****! i owe u for the bed don't i? perhaps we can go shopping together so that i can get u the frame...unless somehow u fixed it? much to tell u, much has changed. too

2007-02-25 13:30:56 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

ive really been going through alot in my life lately, and my parents really dont seem to understand me. Im a cutter. Ive been doing it for about 2 years. I know it doesnt make sense, but when im stressed, it makes me feel better. They arent deep cuts, just enough to bring a little blood.My mom knows that I cut, but she tries to blow it off like its nothing. Like she didnt even hear me. Today she saw my cuts again and told me that I was stupid for doing it and that I was doing it to make her mad. I dont cut cut for anyone but myself. I dont want her to see, i try to hide my cuts, not flaunt them around.No one really knows about this except my mom.If my friends knew, they wouldnt know what to do. I would end up being a loner.But anyways back to my story. I just want to know why do you think it is that my mother calls me stupid for doing it? Doesnt she know shes making me do it more.The words she says to me cut me deeper than any knide ever could. I just dontknow what to do.

2007-02-25 13:30:50 · 20 answers · asked by Mercedes <3 1 in Family

well two of my friends r having a hug fight. well anyway 1 of my friends said tht my other friend was making fun of her (like calling her fat and things). but i don't think its true! they dragged me in the middle.
plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me in this diaster

2007-02-25 13:30:45 · 4 answers · asked by jenn jenn 2 in Friends

my ex is in a new relationship and i feel like he still cares for me but holds back his feelings.the way he looks at me, the way he lingers on the phone when he calls me.sometimes he starts conversations that are a little in depth about his feelings but he hesitates and never finishes.i would love to discuss these things with him but since we aren't together anymore i want to focus all my energy on me.i feel bad about not engaging in a conversation with him.i am so used to showing him love. i actually still love him but i've been able to seperate my feelings from my actions after we broke up.i would like to know how he is feeling. what should i do?

2007-02-25 13:29:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a photographer to do my wedding. It will be in blue springs, MO (kansas city, mo area). I will want to rights to the pics taken as well. Do you know of anybody that might just be starting out or that just does it on the side? Please help. My fiance and I cannot afford to spend around like $2000 for a photographer. Any suggestions? (and if you say to check craigslist, then please explain...I went to the site but it wasn't for my area)...thanks in advance.

2007-02-25 13:29:52 · 4 answers · asked by goaliegirl87 2 in Weddings

She's an attractive young girl in college, and naturally I'm interested, but don't want to pursue things yet. I just want to do something nice and thoughtful, and get some brownie points in the process..

2007-02-25 13:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by vokshori 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so this is this girl. i like her so much and she likes me back. we have been friends for 10 yrs and it is really really great. we talked for hours and hung out alot. but now she is pulling away from me and i asked her wat is up. and she said she doesnt want to ruin a 10 yr friendship and is afraid we wont work out. what do i do to let her know that we will be friends no matter what n that it will work out. plz help

2007-02-25 13:28:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat jokes can i tell to a girls on net i mean on the chat rooms to be intersed in
wat stuffs & stories can girls listen to
wat is the interset can i show to a girl i just met on net &u been together 4 weeks she always dont star talkin even she is online so why she do this is she is not interested or wat !
but i ask her she told me that she loves my mesges is she pretending or wat
how to be a girl intersed in u
how to close the women u just meet on net & we are been together 6 weeks

dont tell me be yourself okkkkkkkk
i know the grammar is bad so dont say it

i want every nice answers plz guys 7 girls help your friend i need help

2007-02-25 13:28:40 · 2 answers · asked by totyplay_2005 1 in Friends

my ex girl friend is getting married but she totally confessed her love for me in the bedroom 3 days before the wedding HELP ?

2007-02-25 13:28:03 · 7 answers · asked by ratmaster199105 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 6 years (4 years married) now. I moved countried to give our relationship a chance. My husband is a great person: kind, smart, reliable, able to provide, loves animals like I do. The thing is that our relationship has been not good for a long time, our intimacy died 3 years ago. A part of the problem I think was that he would dismiss my feelings. I started to forget what it's like to feel like a woman and ended up having an affair. it was a poor choice, but I felt like we were going through an emotional divorce. We tried counselling and it confirmed that my husband had controlling issues. Also, he has not been forthcoming whether he wants or not to have kids. He came up with a lot of excuses "not ready" or "our relationship is not stable enough", or "may be next year". I feel very lonely and fear that I am wasting my time. At the same time, he has been my family for so long now and I don't even know if my life is here or back in my home country. Thank you!

2007-02-25 13:27:44 · 19 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been married for 4 years.she is a realy great person bur she has some qualities I cant live with.we used to have a GREAT sex life. shes 48 and Im 44. she has 2 kids from a previous marriage.they are 13 and 19. she takes all her time with the kids and leaves me out of things. she never wants sex anymore.or course this is my fault because I put a priority on it. I was married to a woman before for 15 years that also hated sex, she was tramautized sexually as a child,. this one has no history of sexual abuse.but sex is the lowest priority for her and I have a normal sex drive for a man my age.I am the one with the most health problems. so I SHOULD be the one that has lost interest in it. she is healthy and says she is happy with me.but she spends abnormal amount of time on the computer. she is night owl. and i am a morning person. which causes some problems.I get so upset at her because she NEVER wants sex anymore. and she wont say a reason why. other than she feels pressured about i

2007-02-25 13:27:42 · 7 answers · asked by road runner 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my family is super traditional....marriage then kids... well I have been dating this guy for 2 month and most of the time I have been pregnant....1.5 months. Well I finally decided to keep it.... and my boyfriend is really excited.... I mean I am 23 out of college no debt... and have a real job with a good company. But my dad is just like people in the family are going to have a BIG problem with this. Will they ever forgive me. I want this baby... i am giving up soo many dreams i have to have it... why can't they just be happy and excited for me??? PS the guy and I are thinking about getting engaged.

2007-02-25 13:26:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

or start from the north and head south?

=D

2007-02-25 13:26:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to buy a gift for my husband to be and give it to him the day before the wedding. Any idea's? He is not into novelty items...i want to give him something he will love....

2007-02-25 13:26:52 · 5 answers · asked by Angel1 1 in Weddings

2007-02-25 13:26:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy in my class but he already has a girlfriend in high school and we're in middle school. What should I do?

2007-02-25 13:25:59 · 9 answers · asked by samantha 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has a lot going on in her life right now and a lot has already happened. Things with her family and everything else, its a mess. But her biggest issue is she doesn't know how to accept what happened she thinks about it all the time. How can I help her? Please help me

2007-02-25 13:25:41 · 7 answers · asked by msp2099 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Any suggestions on gift /thank you ideas i can give to my parents as a thank you for all there help with planning my wedding?

2007-02-25 13:25:30 · 5 answers · asked by Angel1 1 in Weddings

What makes a guy dump you after one meeting only? Have been told by everyone I am very pretty and I didnt offend him at all. He only kept talking through the whole date and didnt ask me any questions hardly and only met me for about an hour. What is going on???Found out hes had other relationships before, so he knows what he is doing---not like me who didnt have relationships.
Please help

2007-02-25 13:25:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were kinda fighting but still

2007-02-25 13:24:57 · 29 answers · asked by keystonelight3355 1 in Singles & Dating

what can i do so i dont start any fights....i mean its really getting annoying but i dont no what to do to stop myself from fighting. i love him a lot but its hard to stop maself 4rm snapping at him....i need help! plzzzz help me.

2007-02-25 13:24:46 · 2 answers · asked by annawuvzchris 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my favorite music is rock
i have light brown hair
blue eyes
non-preppy
non-goth
very kind
and not bossy

2007-02-25 13:24:22 · 19 answers · asked by shayrae10 2 in Singles & Dating

ie. He didn't "feel" like showing up and going out for a date. This just started happening recently. We've been together for ~ 4 months.

What does this mean? Is he just getting comfortable with 'us', does he not care as much or is it something else entirely?

HELP!

2007-02-25 13:23:53 · 5 answers · asked by Aubrey 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were laying in bed, and he turned around and asked me "Why do you love me"? I didn't know what to say. What do you say to that?

2007-02-25 13:23:43 · 14 answers · asked by Soldier'sWife 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my bestfriends grandfather is dying. she goes to see him everyweek end in the hosipital. he has cancer and when she gets home she cant talk about it cause she is so upset. i know that she needs me but i dont know what to say, i can tell her that i am here for her but she already knows that ... help plase?

2007-02-25 13:23:36 · 6 answers · asked by Meeee <3 2 in Family

looking for a woman in the uk for marriage pls help thank u

2007-02-25 13:23:35 · 1 answers · asked by steven c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am recently divorced and ready to go out and have some fun. How long should I wait till I go out and be me again?

2007-02-25 13:22:43 · 16 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Singles & Dating