B/F Email please help explain?

Question

My b/f of 8 months sent this he hasnt spoken to me in 2 months please help explain

before i finish this message im letting you know...ive been drinking and its cold so im gonna state this quick
why have we not spoken? i'll tell you why i stopped and why i constantly stop with you - your attitude is strange. sure i act weird myself but its because i have forced myself to have time for the things that will get me ahead in life. i know i chose to be with you of all the women i could have in the world. i know i told you that i love you. and right now i miss you. NOT YOUR *****. im not ******* insane. i dont say i miss you because i miss sex. stop saying that. i don't like how you always state that i dress better than you and how you think that it is sad blah blah blah. cut that out. what are you up to? do you even miss me? ****! i owe u for the bed don't i? perhaps we can go shopping together so that i can get u the frame...unless somehow u fixed it? much to tell u, much has changed. too

Answer 1

men also need to feel needed, reassured. he's telling you he needs that from you, without you having to burden him with guilt about other things, without you carping about anything else to make him guilty for making you feel miserable about yourself.

i sense him telling you to be strong and be more secure about yourself because he finds it tiring trying to be strong for both of you all the time.

somehow, he feels like a heel, being made to feel like he misses you only because he wants / misses being in bed with you. he's saying that's not like him at all, so try giving him the benefit of the doubt.

if you miss him, tell him. go easy laying on the guilt.

Answer 2

First off, he was drinking and told you so. Many people ramble on when they are drunk or under the influence, and get into remembering the "good times" and "oh I've changed", please take me back. Maybe there was some unfinished business between the two of you, but since you haven't spoken in two months, and then you get an email from a drunk person, I wouldn't put too much interest in trying to figure him out, move on and tell him to do the same. Things may have changed for him, but hasn't your life changed since he has been away? Remember his words in the beginning of the email, does it make any sense to you? It's alot about him, and not alot about you. Good luck.

Answer 3

Why do you need explanation... If your boyfriend has talked to you in two months... Than I don't think that you folks have been in any kind of relationship. Oh yeah... look at the fact that he states he has been drinking... If he takes the time to write to you only when he is drunk something is up...

You don't even need this letter to be explained to you... You should be over this whole entire situation... Move on.... Find someone better...

Answer 4

his just sayin wut every guys says....he cannot handle ur attitude...but grl he loves u becuz if he didnt he wudnt take time to write 2 u and tell u how he felt...da only reason y anyone writes someone a letter is becuz they cannot let go of them. cal him and work things out. he misses u and he wishes that u wud miss him too.