ok so this is this girl. i like her so much and she likes me back. we have been friends for 10 yrs and it is really really great. we talked for hours and hung out alot. but now she is pulling away from me and i asked her wat is up. and she said she doesnt want to ruin a 10 yr friendship and is afraid we wont work out. what do i do to let her know that we will be friends no matter what n that it will work out. plz help
2007-02-25 13:28:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well theres nothing really. i've been in well my cousin has and when she went for it ended up he didn't want her anymore so there friendships ok but not the same anymore. but this is all up to u cause stuffs on the line.
2007-02-25 13:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to tell you that she isn't interested in taking your friendship to a romantic level. If it didn't work out, it would definately change how your friendship would work. Accept her as your friend and enjoy your time together, but don't push her into believing everything would be fine if you became romantic, she has made her decision, respect it.
2007-02-25 13:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most of the time if it doesnt work out u will loose the friendship as well ask urself if the risk is worth the gain because alot of times the best relationships come from friendships first so it might be worth the risk
2007-02-25 13:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't see things the same as you do. She basically is politely telling you that she is not interested in you being anything more than just her friend. No one knows her better than she does if she says that shes knows it won't work out between you 2 then leave it at that because it won't work.
It's better to have her as a friend then not have her at all!!
2007-02-25 13:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't want to ruin your friendship so if she needs some time away you would understand.
Watch the movie "Pretty in Pink"
2007-02-25 13:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunally... if she feels that you cant be friends anymore.. no mattter how sad and hard it is for you.. there is nothing that you can do.!. witch trust me i noe sucks =[[ its hella hard to loose a good friend... i feel ur pain. i hope everything works out for you. try and explain to her.. that no matter what you wa nt to stayy friends and u will do anythign. good luck man. =]
best of luk. my wishes to you.
2007-02-25 13:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y didnt u understand her...
man...she is in luv with u...she might hav realized it ...but even now u havmt realized...
2007-02-25 13:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by oh its me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assure her that your friendship is tighter than fort Knox
2007-02-25 13:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her.. or better yet. SHOW her. Do something so romantic she CAN'T say no.
2007-02-25 13:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her.
2007-02-25 13:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋