My girlfriend has a lot going on in her life right now and a lot has already happened. Things with her family and everything else, its a mess. But her biggest issue is she doesn't know how to accept what happened she thinks about it all the time. How can I help her? Please help me
2007-02-25 13:25:41 · 7 answers · asked by msp2099 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe she should have counseling. Maybe she need some time to think. I had this same thing happen to me but one thing that you have to do is be very strong and learn to put these behind you and move on. It is very hard and you may learn to hate a lot of people but that is where you fate in God step in and you tell her that you will be there for her. She sounds like she has a fight I still have days where I want to Bi Tch slapp my mother but I stay away from those people who I have that aggression from until I come out of that dark room. Its always a fight and battle that will never go away.
2007-02-25 13:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by SugNspice_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer her your ear and don't be shy to share some personal details about something in your past that she might help you with. The best way to break the ice and get someone to "let you in" to help, is by showing them that you trust them to share something about you that you wouldn't normally share. If she needs more than your help, support her through whatever she needs to do. I am sure you will, you are obviously reaching out in an attempt to help her. Wish you both the best of luck.
2007-02-25 21:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by inkinheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to counseling, and hope she move past her past because if she does not she will never have a future. If she does not want to see a counselor there is no help. Try to make sure you get a good one some of them aren't very good.
2007-02-25 21:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by rainingonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend a LOT of time with her. be with her, even if she calls you up during the middle of the night. Go on vacations with her. Try to make her laugh at every moment. Be with her, and truly care, and never get mad at her. Show her that she's the only one that matters at that point.
2007-02-25 21:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by EC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can help ur gf by talkin to her and eplain to her that things happend hor a reason and not every one's life is perfect .... all u can do is learn from what happend if u keep thinkin about it its not goin to change it or take it back ... we live and we learn thats how things r ... maybe things that happend makes her scared and afraid help her relize that u will always be there if she ever need some one to talk to
2007-02-25 21:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lynda V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a boyfriend, be there like no one else has been there. Let her talk so that she's tired of talking about it, so that, there is nothing left to do but move forward.
2007-02-25 21:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by dall4wwf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to conseling or just let her talk to you and spill her feelings then she might feel better
2007-02-25 21:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by bronte d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋