we were kinda fighting but still
2007-02-25 13:24:57 · 29 answers · asked by keystonelight3355 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were fighting and it was at the same time it makes me sick just thinking about it she told me but yea we have been together for 2 years and i would give her the world i dont kno why she would do that over a lil fight
2007-02-25 13:58:24 · update #1
Being drunk is no excuse. I've had someone tell me that they would never cheat again after they had been drunk and cheated. They also told me they would never drink again. Well they did both again. And the fact that she cheated on you with not only one guy but two, makes it even worse! Break up with her. If she can't control herself when she drinks then she shouldn't be drinking that much or at all. And if she's using the excuse that you two were fighting, then all she's doing is trying to make it seem like it's your fault she cheated or that it was okay to cheat. It's never okay to cheat and if you stay with her you'll only regret it later on when you find out she did it again.
2007-02-25 13:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Evaluate your relationship, everyone here will tell you to Dump her & if you feel you should then do but not until you are ready.Did she use a condom? Your health should be important in this day & age. Love will not protect you from a diesese or worse dying from one(you know which one I mean) or getting the one that flairs up every month for the rest of your life & starts with a (H). That said when you are good & tired of her and the behavior you do what you have to do & either move on or put this past you. No one can tell your heart who or when to fall in love & we have all been there.
Is she trying to change? Is she sorry? Fighting is never an excuse niether is drunk.
Good luck in your decision.
2007-02-25 13:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by "Angel" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all being drunk is not an excuse... Second fighting with each other is not an excuse.... and Third if she hooked up with TWO guys I would call her a ****.
Leave her. If she respected you she wouldnt have put herself in a position to cause all of that drama. It doesnt matter at what stage your relationship was in... If she could do that to you she doesnt respect you. If you give her a chance again, she will think her actions were fine... Why would you want to be with someone who could do that to you? Also what happens if she gets pregnant from those guys, it then becomes your problem...
2007-02-25 13:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re-evaluate whether or not you deserve to have a girlfriend that would get drunk and then cheat on you with two other guys just because you had a fight. I think you know the answer to that. I hope you know you deserve better.
2007-02-25 13:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your gf when she did it then it doesn't matter whether u were fighting or not. I wouldn't be cheating if u weren't together but u were. U should end the relationship because it's obvious that she doesn't respect u and would not be considerate of u when the two of u r having problems.
2007-02-25 13:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, your fighting with her... and then she gets drunk and hooks up with two dudes. most people that are not as bright will sit here and tell you, "it was a drunken hook up and that it didnt mean nothing and that you should take her back and work on things" and then a smart person tell you "to sign and distribute her walking papers". it seems that your relationship is in the valley that is called "unstable" and then she pulls a stunt. theres a saying that a drunk mind speaks a sober tonuge. so loose her before your self esteem starts to sink..
2007-02-25 13:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Nicohle Jordi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cheated on you, sober or drunk, you should find a new girlfriend. And, by the way, who wants a girlfriend who gets so drunk she sleeps around? That's an easy call. You can do better than that girl.
2007-02-25 13:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is young and has not developed any sense of depth in a relationship that would involve commitment. You can forgive her for her experimentation, but assuming you are as young as she is, that would be a difficult accomplishment for you. She might be very impressed with your maturity, but as far as trusting her goes, well, that kind of went out the window a bit there. You will always wonder, on those occasions where she's "busy", what she is busy doing.
2007-02-25 13:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to quit drinking completely. Obviously she can't controll herself. Make her go to AA or dump her. You can marry her only if she quits drinking. Some people can't handle acohol, and do things that later they regret and didn't mean. If you stay together and she keeps getting drunk, you will know that you can't trust her.
2007-02-25 14:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should dump her it dont matter that she was drunk i am not trying to sound mean but if she will drink and cheat then she isnt werth it i am sure u will find someone new i promise well i hope i helped
2007-02-25 13:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by soccersam522 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋