Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

Just hearing stories from my friends and experiencing a breakup myself, it seemed to me that it seems to hurt guys more than girls when they're broken up with. I know I maybe wrong, but is this true at all or are guys and girls the same in this situation?

2007-02-25 12:55:32 · 11 answers · asked by turan21 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been single for too long...

2007-02-25 12:55:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 12:54:39 · 4 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

So my "friends" hate me right now, and it's not my fault, and I'm not sure what I even did! But they keep telling me they don't want to ever talk to them again. But they keep sending me mean, nasty notes, so I have no choice but to talk to them! And they're making up lies and telling people what a horrible person I am. What do I do? I don't want to get hurt by them again, but I want to have the chance to make real friends, and if they keep making up these lies about me, I won't be able to, because people will think I'm a horrible person and won't want to be friends with me. And it's not true that I'm mean! I'm actually very nice. They just like to make everything my fault, and I don't know what I did, and they won't tell me, and I'm just so confused. Please help!!!

2007-02-25 12:54:27 · 24 answers · asked by kat 1 in Friends

For the record I think its wrong. And its wrong cuz if you have kids they might come out messed up or with problems. I just want to see what you guys think.

2007-02-25 12:54:14 · 24 answers · asked by Alsaqri 2 in Marriage & Divorce

might not be coming back" do you think of your old gf if not dating someone?

2007-02-25 12:53:55 · 6 answers · asked by COblonde 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 12:53:46 · 2 answers · asked by builtff 2 in Singles & Dating

12/16/06 the best night of my entire life.
I spent this night with one of the greatest friends i have ever mett over the summer.
It was around may or june and ive known him for about eight months.
We haven't talked in weeks now because of a mistake i made that im terribly sorry,
im not sure if thats why he won't answer me,but normally him not answering me isn't unusual but i hope i didn't upset him or hurt his feelings because he stopped answering that night.. but thats also not unsual too.
I asked him what was up?
and he replied "trying to figure out why im such a failure"
and i told him exactly as i can remember "you're not a failure and whoever thinks that is wrong"
for some reason i had a feeling he was going to say this and i had left the room for about 4 minutes to clean my earrings.
I came back and I remember the lines said exactly
"Then i guess im wrong"
I can't remember what was before these lines but i remember him saying something that caught my eye
"the imperfect is flawed and the flawed is ****.end
and i had said
I can't completely dissagree ..
but i don't know if he took it in another way.
as i said he stopped answering and i said
im sorry i didn't mean to be in any state of offence or anything something like that
and after that i gave up and said goodnight.
about 4 days after i said "hey... he didnt answer so i put ?"
and no answer.
This is really worrying me
and i don't know what to do.

2007-02-25 12:53:14 · 1 answers · asked by bushcasss b 1 in Friends

i was bitter a year ago and not over my ex cheating on me and i needed attention,this mutual friend of his held me one night till i slept,he was so sweet.He told me a couple months later that i was killing him,but at the time i was not over my x so he kept his distance,and now a year later i am still thinkng about him and regretting not telling him back then how much i did like him.Because i called him last week and told him he was eating me alive,he said it was mutual and he thinks im beautiful and he had no idea thats how i felt but that he started seeing soemone a month ago and its only fair that i know,so i told him to tell me to give up and he said he cant.He keft repeating over an dover how beautiful i am,but i have to let him be now because he is with someone else and i dont want to ruin it for the other girl because i have been that girl before and know what it feels like.But i still really like this guy and dont know how to handle this.

2007-02-25 12:53:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is really hairy is that good nasty or sexy i dont know what to think bout it help me please now!

2007-02-25 12:52:00 · 1 answers · asked by tiggergrl1236 2 in Singles & Dating

I've made a big mistake with this girl. I fell for her pretty quickly, which is rare, because Im so picky. We went out on three dates and I think I may have come on too strong. Not going to get into details, except last time we talked she totally seemed uninterested. We are in two of the same college courses and in one of them we sit together.

So Like i said, I think shes uninterested now, maybe because I came on too strong. So besides the fact that I need to lay off a bit, what else can i do?

2007-02-25 12:51:50 · 15 answers · asked by MHL 1 in Singles & Dating

What goes through the mind of a person of the following standings when he asks me to go overseas to visit him/work?

(i) he already has a girlfriend;
(ii) nothing has ever happened between us, save for *accidental* hand-holdings;
(iii) we have gone out for lunches, dinner and coffee;
(iv) he has not been frank about his feelings; but he has always been a perfect gentleman with me.

Sometimes, I feel that I could go as a friend. Sometimes, I thought that by going, I am downgrading my virtues. I do not have anything more than just sightseeing in mind (I love travelling), but can I trust both of us?

2007-02-25 12:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

Our Dj we are having has a karaoke set up and a beautiful song that I really love is From this moment by Shania Twain and I thought it would be sweet to sing that to him. I dont want it to be cheesy. What does everyone think?

2007-02-25 12:51:06 · 26 answers · asked by Pamela 2 in Weddings

2007-02-25 12:50:54 · 6 answers · asked by Panda 1 in Friends

She said she's always wanted to have a biracial child but she is currently married to a white man.

2007-02-25 12:50:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this girl at work... we were co-workers... we talk in the break room about stuff... but she didn't tell me she had a b/f... i found out myself... i always catch her smiling at me... she finally talk to me about her b/f when she wanted to quit her job... anyways i told her i had feelings for her... so she stayed for about 5 more months... still with her b/f and stuff... and flirting with me... the drama was finally over she quit and left me heart broken... it's a longer story but i tried to keep it as short as possible... And couple months later its happening again... but kinda in a different way...

We just got a few new cashiers and guess what lol DeJa Vu is happening again. I think one of the new cashiers likes me, but she has a boyfriend. Here's the story of that.
We made eye contact, but we didn't smile. Than next day we made eye contact again and she smile at me. I saw her at lunch siting by herself and I talk to her. She brought up that she has a boyfriend and saids he's doing bad in school and stuff. We talk about other stuff too. I sometimes catch her looking at me. But I pretend I didn't see it. I don't know why this is happening again I wonder if God is trying to tell me something? Why is this happening again?

2007-02-25 12:50:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that's what always on my mine, love. please someone answer.

2007-02-25 12:49:44 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay guys... I know you like girls that have big boobs or whatever but be serious.. not ALL girls can look like a barbie doll.. so exactly what do you look for in girls that are not fat but not skinny either? Girls that don't have the biggest butt or breast? Even what would you look for in a girl that is kinda plump? NOT FAT but has a little extra weight?

2007-02-25 12:49:14 · 1 answers · asked by i miss himm.alott? 2 in Singles & Dating

OK I MET THIS DUDE ABOUT 4 WKS AGO WE CLICK REAL GOOD RIGHT OFF EVERYTHING WAS COOL NOW ALL OF A SUDDEN IT'S SEEM LIKE HE'S NOT AS INTERESTED IN ME AS HE WAS WHEN WE FIRST MET SO I QUITE CALLING HIM THEN HE'LL CALL ME QUESTIONING WHY I HADNT CALL HIM I TOLD HIM THAT IM NOT TRYING 2 SWEAT HIM HE CLAIM IT'S NOT LIKE THAT BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS?

2007-02-25 12:48:54 · 9 answers · asked by laday1@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

k so its starts with this kid i sorta like.who my friend asked if he likes me he didn't answer but he said "y does she like me?" then i was talking to him and he was like "sooo who do you like"
1) does this mean he might of just be asking casue he thinks i like him or b/c he might like me back?

so i just said no1 and he's like same. but i didn't believe him and so i asked again and hes kept saying no1. but then towards the end of the convo he was like i'll tell you if you tell me first.
1)does this mean he's just saying that so he'll find out who i like or b/c he might like me but wants to know if i like him back?


and NO IM NOT SHY. the only reason i don't want to tell him is casue i don't want to lead him on that i do casue im no sure if i do. ik its kind of shallow to not go out wiht him cause hes not that awesommee looking hes really nice and all but...yea
i need some help on wut to do..

2007-02-25 12:48:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She lies about me and is still nice, but kinda dorkie, although i like to talk to her. Other girls are trying to force us to be friends, but they won't listin that i don't want to be friends, what should i do responses asap, need to know before tomorrow 02/26/07

2007-02-25 12:48:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he hardly ever pays any attention to me or our son and I don't want my son growing up to think that this behavior is normal. I don't know what to do, I've tried talking to him but he just goes into this defensive state. I don't know what to do--please help!!

2007-02-25 12:48:06 · 16 answers · asked by curiousin08 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a lesbian, and I just started dating again after a LONG hiatus. I was wondering: If I'm out on a date with another girl, who should pay for the meal?

2007-02-25 12:47:50 · 18 answers · asked by Joanna 2 in Singles & Dating

I am having a vridal shower thrown for sort of angainst my will-I hate being the center of attention. Anyways-I agreed to it but I know they are going to have some stupid game to embarrass me. I want to do a little something to turn the tables at least on the hostesses. Something clean and not too time consuming but FUNNY.

2007-02-25 12:47:44 · 3 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Weddings

These are the details-
*Me and this girl have been friends for 6 years.
*i told her i had feelings for her.
*she told me she knew and that i kinda acted like i was ashamed of it.
*I said i was'nt but that i just felt kinda weird around her.
*she asked me why but i could not write her back cause we had to go home and i could not sit next to her on the bus cause of assigned seats.
The question is.............how do i explain why i feel wierd around her and how do i tell if she like me or not?????????

2007-02-25 12:46:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my last relationship didnt go that well.... now theres this girl that i like but heres the problen......she doesnt know me and i dont know her,i mean we look at each other in the hall when we pass each other but that it. how do i get her to notice me or better yet what should i do to let her know i exist without coming on to strong or thinking im creapy?? i need serious answers

2007-02-25 12:46:24 · 4 answers · asked by loyal 2 tha bone 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, Here is my situation I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. At the beginning it was an answered prayer (literally). Actually, it was the best thing for me at the time. It has enabled me to be a stronger woman & learn how to have a "healthy" non-abusive relationship. But, at the same time my intuition tells me we are is as far as we'll ever get. I want more and he just can't or won't give more or move on from the past relationships that have severely damaged his ideas of a commitment & long-term relationship. ( Our ideas of a relationship are completely different) I have reaped his "bad past" long enough, he just will not open up to me on certain issues, & I can't help him with them. So, On the 17th of this month, after a year of discussing & planning I decided to moved out of "our" house & get my own place again. There are just to many issues that absolutely need to be resolved before "this" relationship can grow any further. For myself...If I don't resolve the issues that hinder me I will never be able to be a mentally healthy woman. I can't resolve these issues with no one else, I have to do this myself. No one can help me with them & The same for him. This is reality- not an opinion or emotion. He has helped me in this transition being very understanding & supportive.(We are still together, just living a part) BUT....

My woman intuition tells me that I need to end our relationship completely, I feel like I am not an important part of his life, that he takes me for granted. He says, "I am" but, his actions are totally different from his words. I have almost always felt like I was "on the side", that quality time with me is not an issue for him. He has always pushed the issues of quality time to the side saying, "we have 30 or more years for it, but I NEED more & no matter what I say or do I D'ONT get it. I battled this issue with him for almost 2 yrs now. I am tired of repeating myself.

In the beginning, he was everything in a man I desired... He is truly a good , decent, caring, loving man, but at the same time he is self-centered and extremely selfish. I reap the bad that has happened to him, I love him ....What do I do?

How do I let go the best thing in life that has happened to me?

2007-02-25 12:45:46 · 6 answers · asked by Cajun_ Creater 2 in Singles & Dating

Blonde hair, blue eyes, 5"7' athletic my friends say im very sweet and caring i like to talk and be social i love the outdoors, im not a very lazy person, i like to get out and do stuff i recently asked this question but didn't have enough detail so im going to ask again

2007-02-25 12:45:39 · 5 answers · asked by Uhm_crazy 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend think that women who have not given birth and have grown older are less mature compare to their countreparts who have done it. What do you think?

2007-02-25 12:45:20 · 17 answers · asked by simox 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 34 yo male that doesn't want a girlfriend at the prersent moment due to personal reasons beyond my control. I haven't dated in 12+ yrs. Now, I am being called gay when I know I'm not. I do not hate women at all. I have female friends but I am still being called gay. Why is that?

2007-02-25 12:45:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating