i was bitter a year ago and not over my ex cheating on me and i needed attention,this mutual friend of his held me one night till i slept,he was so sweet.He told me a couple months later that i was killing him,but at the time i was not over my x so he kept his distance,and now a year later i am still thinkng about him and regretting not telling him back then how much i did like him.Because i called him last week and told him he was eating me alive,he said it was mutual and he thinks im beautiful and he had no idea thats how i felt but that he started seeing soemone a month ago and its only fair that i know,so i told him to tell me to give up and he said he cant.He keft repeating over an dover how beautiful i am,but i have to let him be now because he is with someone else and i dont want to ruin it for the other girl because i have been that girl before and know what it feels like.But i still really like this guy and dont know how to handle this.
2007-02-25 12:53:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm still haven't found anyone that has answered your question how you want them to answer it?
Asking the question multiply times is not going to do it. Your not really looking for advice you are looking for someone to answer how you want them to. So here it is whatever you want to do, do it so it will stop you from having to ask the same question over and over.
2007-02-25 13:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ur doing the right thing and backing off. Thats what u should do. Dont step on her toes, cause like u said, u dont want one stepping on yours.
Just wait it out. If its meant to be with the two of you, i predict this relationship with the new girl may not last long.
In the meantime, date others. If u really care for this guy, there is no fear in falling for anyone else.
Dont sit around and wait. Live ur life and let be what will be.
It takes two to have a relationship, and although he says he feels the same, dont wait on him. If he wants to be with ya, he will be.
Just give it a little time.
GOod luck to ya hun.
2007-02-25 13:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have told him how you feel it might be a good idea to let it alone after all he is seeing someone else right now. Give him time to absorb it and think it over dont push let him come to you he will.
2007-02-25 13:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by nataliesmamaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems complicated. But the way I see it is like this... yeah he is with someone, but then again he will do what makes him happy, and no matter what... atleast be a friend and just enjoy your time you share together. Who knows what the future holds. But times your best friend on this one in my opinion. So dont stress.. just go out enjoy life :-)
2007-02-25 13:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Royce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As how u describe the word struggling for this men seems "not very healthy" as to get a men why should struggle.
2007-02-25 13:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋