Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

How do I tell if my girlfriend is ready for marriage? We've been together for 3 whole years and I am 28, and she is 26. We both really love each other. I asked her to marry me 2 times so far, and she didn't want to marry me. I don't want to keep pushing the issue with her. What signals did your girlfriend gave when she is ready for marriage?

2007-02-23 11:01:14 · 9 answers · asked by Mr Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just started dating this 26 yr. gay man. It's only been 3 months. Sex was everyother day or when we saw each other which was like 2-3 times a week. Everything else is great with him except that lately we've only been having sex ONCE a week out of the 4 days i see him. I was begginning to trust him but my friends are telling me that he might be "getting it from someone else."

He's 26 i'm 21 and i discussed this with him and he said," that a guys sexual peak is from the ages of 21 to 25 and that i should just rape him if i want some cause he'll eventually just get into it."

My girlfriends are telling me that it might be cause "I'M TOO AVAILBLE FOR HIM" Do i have to ask for sex from him?

2007-02-23 11:01:04 · 3 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Singles & Dating

it because im shy but sometimes we have small conversations but i cant possible be with him because he flirts with some girl but the other day he said i was fine what should i do? how should i nhave conversations?

2007-02-23 11:00:45 · 6 answers · asked by ♫ 2 in Friends

i am 26, we went on 3 dates over about 2 weeks - on the last one (sunday) we kissed, I thought we had been getting along but he hasn't called (i called once during the day and he didnt call back) and i just had a brief online convo with him one night. should I take a hint or is this the game? before this i was in a 7 year relationship so i am not really knowledgable about dating and things just yet

2007-02-23 11:00:17 · 5 answers · asked by meenie 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy ive been crushing on 4 a long time and i kno he likes me. yesterday he asked me 2 kiss him but i got all nervous like i always get around him so didnt. i told him and a bunch of my friends that i didnt kno how 2 kiss and a bunch of times hes asked if i wanted him 2 teach me and i thought he wuz just kidding but i guess not so wut do i do??? do i kiss him or no?? if yes how do i go about it?? how exactly do u kiss??
we r both in 8th grade and im 14 and hes 15

2007-02-23 10:59:57 · 5 answers · asked by fuzzy_bubbles_13 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend left for afganistan and wont be around for his sisters wedding. I have been in charge or writing a speach for him and have never met his sister . Can anyone give any advice on how to do this

2007-02-23 10:59:44 · 4 answers · asked by Kim Q 1 in Weddings

i'm only 15 years old with the mind of a 10 year old. i have allot of friends & i'm in sports (cross country and track) & honor classes. i've only had one boyfriend in my whole life & 1 kiss. now that i just started highschool.. there allot of boys asking me out. I'm not used to boys telling me i'm pretty. Last year. in 8th grade. i got tired of boys telling me i have a big butt. i geuss thats all they saw of me. i have low self esteem. i cover my big ears. even tho ppl tell me they arent even big. i have a big 4 head.i do not like my face. i'm scared of boys treating me like this. i would like a boyfriend. and another kiss. but i'm not even that experienced. i'm not like allot of my other girl friends who have the freedom of going to parties & going home till 2 in the morning. I know what most boys want. i'm still a virgin. i'm not used to boys treating me this way. telling me all these things & asking me out. when they do. i don't even give them an answer and avoid them. i'm scared

2007-02-23 10:58:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-23 10:57:46 · 15 answers · asked by bugz_ink@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I wonder why I've never had a boyfriend yet.
I'm really nice, people say I'm pretty, I'm smart, and never mean to people. I'm also sorta shy/reserved, so I've always thought that was the reason. But I see people even more shy than I am with boyfriends or girlfriends. Guys flirt with me sometimes, and are really nice..but that's usually about it..
I'm 15.5 and most people my age have had one before.
What should I do differently? and what should I do to not be so shy anymore?
Thanks.

2007-02-23 10:57:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 10:57:29 · 4 answers · asked by Dorj 1 in Singles & Dating

this is a serious and honest question, please, no stupid answers, it's bad enough already.

2007-02-23 10:57:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My crush knows that i like him and 2day i was passing this letter to my friend and it was on the floor the letter didnt really say anything just random funny stuff and my other friend made it so obvious and shes likes like ........ your note is on the floor and it says .........(his name on it aka his nick name )and shes like it pick it up and im like it doesnt say his name on it and shes like pick it up ........it says his name on it looking staight at hi he sits next to me and he looked staright at my face in my eyes and saying nothing (oh ya he shows alot of signs wierd ones kindev so obviouis )and i gave it to my freind the letter and shes like oh all laughing and she gave it to her and he staryed laughing to he was so curious .so what does this mean?? wierd question huh
please answer me

2007-02-23 10:57:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a virgin and i was wondering if sex is that fun??

2007-02-23 10:56:56 · 1 answers · asked by girlygirl! 1 in Singles & Dating

there is boy at my school that always stares at me so i ask my brother why his friend is always looking at me everytime he sees me, and my brtother said dat he maybe likes you and said i should go talk to him cause he doesn't like going to people and starting a conversation to those he really don't know and he is shy also. i want to talk to him besides saying hi all the time like usual and then walking away, but i don't know what i should say to him and how to ask him if he really likes me. If anyone can give me advice i would mostly appreciate it. Thanks!

2007-02-23 10:56:13 · 3 answers · asked by vfalcons05 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend so much. We've been together for 4 years already. She broke up with me since I push her to marry me but she didn't want to marry me. We are each 26 years old. I was very heartbroken that she didn't want to marry me. So, I uploaded a video of her (to lots of websites) stripping in front of the camera that she sent me while we were dating. Is that the right thing to do? I am really depressed about her breaking up with me.

2007-02-23 10:56:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i asked a question i am concerned about like 5 tiems on this site about me and puberty and X.X.and .X. u know what i mean. and no 1 answered it very odd cause i asked another question about a problem i have had in school and 11 peopel answered it insantly and i still need to know my answer for my past question so y wont it let me i eman it say 0 answers and usually ppl answer alot to questions like this so whats up? i mean if u guys can find my question plz answer it.

2007-02-23 10:55:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend so much. We've been together for 4 years already. She broke up with me since I push her to marry me but she didn't want to marry me. We are each 26 years old. I was very heartbroken that she didn't want to marry me. So, I uploaded a video of her (to lots of websites) stripping in front of the camera that she sent me while we were dating. Is that the right thing to do? I am really depressed about her breaking up with me.

2007-02-23 10:55:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love my girlfriend so much. We've been together for 4 years already. She broke up with me since I push her to marry me but she didn't want to marry me. We are each 26 years old. I was very heartbroken that she didn't want to marry me. So, I uploaded a video of her (to lots of websites) stripping in front of the camera that she sent me while we were dating. Is that the right thing to do? I am really depressed about her breaking up with me.

2007-02-23 10:55:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my girlfriend so much. We've been together for 4 years already. She broke up with me since I push her to marry me but she didn't want to marry me. We are each 26 years old. I was very heartbroken that she didn't want to marry me. So, I uploaded a video of her (to lots of websites) stripping in front of the camera that she sent me while we were dating. Is that the right thing to do? I am really depressed about her breaking up with me.

2007-02-23 10:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have recently been engaged to my cousin(it is all right to marry your cousin in my religion)..I never had any feeling for her before because it is an arrange marrige, but now I love her more than any thing...She lives in US and I live in UK..We don't see each other, just talk each other like once a week only..I want her to care about me and want her to love me as I do.

2007-02-23 10:54:26 · 20 answers · asked by HK 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my girlfriend so much. We've been together for 4 years already. She broke up with me since I push her to marry me but she didn't want to marry me. We are each 26 years old. I was very heartbroken that she didn't want to marry me. So, I uploaded a video of her (to lots of websites) stripping in front of the camera that she sent me while we were dating. Is that the right thing to do? I am really depressed about her breaking up with me.

2007-02-23 10:54:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have known a girl for a while now, we have gone out to about 3 dates. we both no we love each other. she is older than me (1 year) and i dont know when i should kiss her. i need help! i no she is the one but im only 13 and dont know how shell react.

2007-02-23 10:54:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and if u were, how soon it happend? and how u solved the problem?

2007-02-23 10:53:07 · 15 answers · asked by leila 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Short hair or long hair on a girl!?

2007-02-23 10:52:48 · 7 answers · asked by TNL 4 in Singles & Dating

One minute he says one thing and then changes his mind ....I am confused

2007-02-23 10:52:31 · 2 answers · asked by Jammie J 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 10:52:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

would you change your self for love, or frienship

2007-02-23 10:52:01 · 25 answers · asked by cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im in love with a guy that doesn't live here right now.. he's in college and im so madly in love with him.. we broke up cause the long distance thing wasn't working we were missing the intimate side of one another just holding each other and being with each other.... anways he has recently gotten with another guy... yes he's bi.. but don't judge him for that i think it's hot hehe!!.. anyways.. he's recently with another guy but he says he still loves me.. we had plans to live together and get married when he finishes school... we still talk about it sometimes.. but it's so hard to think he still loves me when he's with someone else... im so confused.. what should i do.. he says he loves me and he misses me and he wants me really bad.. but for some reason he refuses to break up with his bf... do i need to move on? wait for him? i dont' think ill ever be able to move on he's everything to me and i love him so much even after all he's done to me...help

2007-02-23 10:51:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My supposedly "best friend" has been going behind my back spreaing rumors about me at school. when i consult her about it, she denies it and acts like it never even happened. most of what she says is about my boyfriend. (ex: like he's gonna break up with me for her) she likes him a lot (only because i'm dating him) and she likes to think he likes her back. but he doesnt and she doesnt understand that and wont. i've told her that she's hurting me by saying all this crap that is 100% not true, and she apologizes and treats me like it never even happened. then turns around and does it again. i've known her for a while and ever since i started dating this guy, which has been about a year, she has liked him. i saw a change in her this year and last month was when she started going behind my back and saying all this crap about me. i've tried to befriend her, but she just keeps coming back. what do i need to do?!? why is she doing this to me?

2007-02-23 10:51:21 · 4 answers · asked by **♥Rockstar♥** 2 in Friends

2007-02-23 10:50:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships