ok im in love with a guy that doesn't live here right now.. he's in college and im so madly in love with him.. we broke up cause the long distance thing wasn't working we were missing the intimate side of one another just holding each other and being with each other.... anways he has recently gotten with another guy... yes he's bi.. but don't judge him for that i think it's hot hehe!!.. anyways.. he's recently with another guy but he says he still loves me.. we had plans to live together and get married when he finishes school... we still talk about it sometimes.. but it's so hard to think he still loves me when he's with someone else... im so confused.. what should i do.. he says he loves me and he misses me and he wants me really bad.. but for some reason he refuses to break up with his bf... do i need to move on? wait for him? i dont' think ill ever be able to move on he's everything to me and i love him so much even after all he's done to me...help
2007-02-23 10:51:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on girl...how can you marry someone who sleeps with a guy..And even if you people get married and I hope u do...there is a bright chance he'll have affair with other guys..SO MOVE ON..
Try to find someone else, who is only ur for ever.
2007-02-23 10:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by HK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would it make you feel if he were with another girl? Would that somehow make you more angry? He's a cheater. Doesn't really matter if he is cheating with a boy or a girl. He doesn't love you -- no matter what he tells you. Or at least he doesn't love you enough to commit to you. If you can live with that, stay with him.
And -- trust me on this one -- you will be able to move on. Everyone thinks they have found the "love of thier life" when they are under the age of 20.... most haven't. Write this down somewhere... when you are 30, you will smack yourself in the forehead every time you think of the time/emotions/energy you wasted on this boy.
2007-03-03 09:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by kelannde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is with another person then he dont mean what he says to u, if he meant those things he would be with u...if u really want him then tell him that unless he dumps his bf then ur gonna move on and that is the end of u 2 forever..
2007-02-23 10:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was recently in the same kind of situation
i really liked this guy but was sort of in the same situation. He was going out with someone else. Wen he broke up with his gf we became really good friends. my advice would be to get close to him as a friend and build up trust and all as friends then see if maybe he wants to be more then friends
2007-02-23 11:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be, it is time to move on; if he missed you that much, he wouldnt be with someone else. You will be happier you moved on, believe me.
2007-02-23 10:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump him
2007-02-23 10:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋