Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

I had Sex with my brother... and every night we did that, well , now my mom and dad know about it. What do I do?!?!

2007-02-23 11:40:55 · 11 answers · asked by Eliza F 2 in Family

i really need your help

2007-02-23 11:40:14 · 9 answers · asked by treavor w 1 in Singles & Dating

it's a taboo for certain people not to marry a person with same surname (it's indicate both from same blood line) even though the family family are not close.

2007-02-23 11:40:06 · 16 answers · asked by mick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a new kid at our school and he rides my bus, we get along really good and have alot in common. I like him alot but I dont no if he likes me back. Today we were goofing off again like always and I told him I wanted his # and another kids number so that the three of us could chill when schools out. He gave it to me pretty willingly and talked about calling but I dont know if he really will. I also wrote my # on his palm which was dumb but I was kinda out of it today so I dont know if he could even read it. Should I call him?

2007-02-23 11:40:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I say in a love note? Something a middle school guy would like. Should I write a poem or something or what?

2007-02-23 11:39:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you a man choosing to remain celibate until marriage?

2007-02-23 11:39:50 · 1 answers · asked by DR 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 11:39:39 · 18 answers · asked by Frans S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This boy is in my classroom and he use to like me but then I started being mean to him then days past and now I like him and he's being mean to me.

2007-02-23 11:38:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sick of getting drunk to have fun. My friends call me every weekend to party. I'm tired of coming up with excuses. I enjoy my friends when there sober as well. how do I let them know that Im done with the weekend drinkingfests?

2007-02-23 11:38:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-23 11:37:43 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 11:37:23 · 34 answers · asked by ZAGIDY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my daughter is fifteen and tonight she was picked up by the guards for being drunk and disorderly what the hell am I supposed to do. Ihave two older girls 20 and 24 and never had a problem where did I go wrong.

2007-02-23 11:37:11 · 37 answers · asked by eileen b 1 in Family

Well, we're friends. We're not that close, but seemingly getting closer. Well, I've kinda....fallen in love with her. (we're in high school) Sometimes it seems as if she likes me.....but sometimes it doesn't. Today was one of the latter days..... Well, the end of today anyway. I've asked her to hang out with me twice in the last few weeks, like yesterday....but both times she's been busy. She's not lying. She really does have a lot of stuff going on, but still......I don't know. We flirt all the time, and she's always soooo nice to me. And I really really like her. I've tried to focus on other girls, but they just can't compare. Please don't say "just tell her how you feel" or something like that. I want to just hang out with her one on one, have some time alone with her, get to know her better, if you know what I mean. It would be nice if she make the first move, but we know that's not gonna happen lol. Besides, I'm not even very confident that she likes me. *sigh*. What am I to do?

2007-02-23 11:35:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the hair /eyecolor /body type/ perrsonality that attracts guys the most?!
...............
i have blue eyes brunette (hair) and thin but sporty and cute personality. ;]

2007-02-23 11:35:27 · 5 answers · asked by sweetheart--xo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 11:34:08 · 20 answers · asked by ccbryant 1 in Weddings

I know a guy who run over a kid in the state of NEVADA, and he said they didnt arrest him because the kid was only injured? I dont believe this... not at all... but is there a different law in nevada to make him get away with this?

2007-02-23 11:33:27 · 10 answers · asked by Cess B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee's mom offered to do my flowers. She thought it would be a good project for her since she had a brain anyeurism last summer and can no longer work. I got together pics and showed her what I wanted and she said no problem. The thing is, she's finished my bmaids flowers (supposed to be bouquest of calla lilies, very simple looking) and they are calla lily pins with a rose at the bottom. Now, we talked about that for the guys but I guess she got confused (she's very forgettful since her anyeurism, to the point of calling 3 or 4 times in a row to ask the same question). Well now my sisters who are my bmaids are complaining about having to pin something to their dresses since they're paying for the dresses. I'm sad that the flowers won't be the way I'd hoped, but have pretty much gotten over that. I am just sick of hearing my sisters gripe about how I should tell my fmil to redo the flowers and I don't want to hurt my fmil's feelings over something this silly. What should I do?

2007-02-23 11:32:03 · 10 answers · asked by antiqueyouth 3 in Weddings

Let's see if you send it back. We all know or knew someone like this!!

One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.

His name was Kyle.

It looked like he was carrying all of his
books..

I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?

He must really be a nerd."

I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.

They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.

His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him..

He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his e yes.

My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye

As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. "

They really should get lives.

" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"

There was a big smile on his face.

It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived

As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.

He said he had gone to private school before now.

I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.

We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.

He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.

I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends

He said yes.

We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.

Monday morning came! , and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again

I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!

" He just laughed and handed me half the books.

Over the next fou r years, Kyle and I became best friends

When we were seniors, we began to think
about college.

Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I
was going to Duke.

I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.

He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship.

Kyle was valedictorian of our class.

I teased him all the time about being a nerd.

He had to prepare a speech for graduation.

I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak Graduation day, I saw Kyle.

He looked great.

He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.

He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.

He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.

Boy, sometimes I was jealous!


Today was one of those days.

I could see that he was nervous about his speech.

So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"

He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.

" Thanks," he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began "Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.

Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends...

I am here to tell all of you that being a
fr iend to someone is the best gift you can give them.

I am going to tell you a story."

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met.

He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.

He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.

He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

"Thankfully, I was saved

My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."

I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.

I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.

Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.

Never underestimate the power of your actions..

With one small gesture you can change a person's life.

For better or for worse.

2007-02-23 11:31:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been emailing and talking on the phone with this guy I met online who is overseas in the military and we flirt back & forth & he asked me if I would go out with him when he returns to the states and is looking forward to meeting me in person. We've only been talking for almost 2months. We both don't really like to talk about ourselves on the phone and sometimes we don't say much we kinda just make jokes. Even though we don't say much 2 eachother on the phone, he still continues to call we've spoken several times on the phone and I want 2 know if he's just lonely or if he's into me because he said that before talking to me he has chatted with other girls online but they scared him off because they were being to clingy. I'm not that way because when a guy is clingy with me it scares me too. What is it that makes him keep calling me if we don't have much to say on the phone? I really want us to open up 2 eachother and we have had meaningful conversations online but not on the phone.

2007-02-23 11:31:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I made mistakes raising my children, but enough is enough. I put my son in a business venture that he thought was pretty stupid, most months, it's true, it just breaks even. This month it was doubled. I assumed he would just give it to me as usual but instead of depositing it I tried to cash it. The bank wouldn't let me do anything. When I called my son to let him know, he said he was glad the bank protected him...I took this as - protected him from even me. He wouldn't have the check if not for me in the first place! Children forget or don't realize what their parent has done for them. Sometimes I would like to flush them down the toilet.

2007-02-23 11:31:36 · 9 answers · asked by Fresher2000 1 in Family

Do you know of a song I can dedicate to one of my best friends that I love? It's a guy and he just moved schools and I miss him soooooooo much and I want to dedicate a song to him saying I like him and that I hope he likes me back. Do you have anything close? please answer seriously.

2007-02-23 11:31:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this huge crush on this one guy. I have never talked to him but that is my question. How can i talk to him? he is outgoing and I on the other hand am really shy. I feel so stupid around hi. Do I just bump into him in the hallways or what? In the hallways and before school is the only time I see him. Please help!! Oh yeah I chose best answer!!

2007-02-23 11:30:40 · 11 answers · asked by Loaha 2 in Singles & Dating

hey, i'm just now 17, and my penis is 7 inches. my girlfriend likes it, but i'm still curious, is that size ok?

2007-02-23 11:30:19 · 1 answers · asked by Troy E 1 in Singles & Dating

Girl: What's wrong?
Boy: I like her so much...
Girl: Talk to her!
Boy: I don't know. She won't ever like me.
Girl: Don't say that. You're amazing.
Boy: I just want her to know how I feel.
Girl: Then tell her.
Boy: She won't like me...
Girl: How do you know that?
Boy: I can just tell.
Girl: Well just tell her.
Boy: What should I say?
Girl: Tell her how much you like her!
Boy: I tell her that daily.
Girl: What do you mean?
Boy: I'm always with her. I love her.
Girl: I know how you feel. I have the same problem.
Girl: But he'll never like me...
Boy: Wait. Who do you like?
Girl: Oh some boy.
Boy: Oh... she won't like me either.
Girl: She does.
Boy: How do you know..?
Girl: Because, who wouldn't like you?
Boy: You.
Girl: You're wrong, I love you.
Boy: I love you too.
Girl: So are you going to talk to her?
Boy: I just did.

2007-02-23 11:29:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 11:29:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay well the reason why I broke up with him was b/c he got drunk and he kissed another girl. he told me like the next day. but i was hurt b/c i really liked him. well...now we always talk on the phone and sometimes we skip school and just go and hang out. we only dated for 2 weeks. but the thing is that now he got a girlfriend but he still calls me and he's always talking about when we were dating and how i didnt give him a 2nd chance and stuff..he's always telling me that I'm pretty and he calls me baby and he's always telling me that he misses me and stuff. we're really good friends and i love him to death! but i dont know..I'm confused right right now... i think i still have feelings for him..but does he? should i tell him even though he got a girl?

2007-02-23 11:29:51 · 10 answers · asked by ~babygirl18~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this sounds really immature, but my brother-in-law is constantly picking on me!!! And he doesn't do this with any of his other sister-in-laws. I don't know what it is. He purposely starts arguments with me. His fiance wanted to loose some weight. He said (in front of everyone), that he doesn't want her to be as skinny as me. People: I'm about 138 lbs. I wouldn't consider that skinny. As of late he made a "round-about" reference to me being a exotic dancer once upon a time. I wouldn't have a problem with this except that I've never did any such thing!!! I guess he is humored by all of this. He is in his LATE 20's so there is no excuse for it. I'm just looking for a little insight. I don't want there to be a problem between me and my in-laws. But if this keeps up, there very well might be.

2007-02-23 11:29:35 · 5 answers · asked by stldiva22 2 in Family

Zackaj: a tragic death that will mean somthing. (i would like to die sort of like Zayther)
Zayther: I want somone to shoot me in the head. after some torture (so im happy to die)
Hazel: I want to die in my sleep. peacfully

2007-02-23 11:29:33 · 20 answers · asked by Mort 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, well he's in one of my classes and I don't talk very much in that class. Anyway, he decided that he was going to get to know me (he sits right next to me). And is detrmined to have a conversation with me. He asks questions like "Ok, so tell me about your life". What should I say? It seems really hard to make a conversation when he's just sitting there pressuring you to talk!

2007-02-23 11:29:19 · 3 answers · asked by Liz♥ 4 in Friends

that I don't want to be with him anymore. This is seriously getting out of hand. He is still here, and has changed everything about his life to try and prove that he is worth while. Well I have been hurt to many times and I swore that the last time was the last, But I don't have the heart to just kick him out, and to top it all off, We have kids together, so I can't just yell at him to leave. I am so done and want to move on with my life. Advice please! He had problems, I don't think he will ever give up his "issues" and I want to be alone.

2007-02-23 11:29:19 · 15 answers · asked by dazed&confused81 3 in Marriage & Divorce