I'm sick of getting drunk to have fun. My friends call me every weekend to party. I'm tired of coming up with excuses. I enjoy my friends when there sober as well. how do I let them know that Im done with the weekend drinkingfests?
2007-02-23 11:38:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As much this might hurt you, they might not be your real friends if you can't say no to them, i mean once a while partying ain't a bad idea sure why not, but if you feel like you want have sober time, i suggest speak freely and stand on your ground, if it doesn't work then they arent' your friends. Your friends are the ones who will understand if you don't want to party and drinkingfests. I hope this is helpful.
2007-02-23 11:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by greenhousethugz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I actually decided to do this over a year ago. You will lose some friends, but you will find out who your real ones are, so it's a good experience. I'd suggest coming up with alternative ideas for activities. It might be hard at first, but your bank account and your liver will love you afterwards and you'll have a better quality of life. Good luck!!!
2007-02-23 19:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by tinktink20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great time to test who your real friends are. Tell them the truth and see who sticks around.
2007-02-23 19:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Noree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been through this. Unfortunatly if you want different playgrounds, you have to find new playmates. You dont have to lose the friends you have you will just have more friends.
2007-02-23 19:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by asdf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them. If they're your friends you dont need to hide how you feel from them. They should accept that you want to change. If they can't, then you'll need to find new friends who do things that fit your current lifestyle.
2007-02-23 19:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bavmorda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that you don't want to drink anymore. Explain yourself to them and they should understand, if they are true friends.
2007-02-23 19:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck, lost all my so called friends when I stopped.
2007-02-23 19:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by No I Dont Like You 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they go away after u stop drinking and all that stuff, then they weren't good friends to start with
2007-02-23 19:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one's easy. If they don't support you or they disappear, they were never your friends.
2007-02-23 19:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by Rob D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's time to grow up, you've realized that...GREAT for you!!
Now leave then in your rearview mirror and welcome to adulthood!
2007-02-23 19:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋