I have this huge crush on this one guy. I have never talked to him but that is my question. How can i talk to him? he is outgoing and I on the other hand am really shy. I feel so stupid around hi. Do I just bump into him in the hallways or what? In the hallways and before school is the only time I see him. Please help!! Oh yeah I chose best answer!!
2007-02-23 11:30:40 · 11 answers · asked by Loaha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask one of your friends to talk to him, make sure she's not interested in him at all so it won't backfire on you. She can kind of point you out and say you're a little shy but outgoing once he gets to know you and stuff and that you are interested in him. Find out if he's going out with anyone, what he likes to do, etc.
Or you could always pass him a note before school as you're going to your first class.
The real trick is to become friends with one of his friends, that way they will introduce you to him and you will a good chance of getting noticed.
2007-02-23 11:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and talk to him. I am going through the same thing, and i am also shy. What i do is if i see a guy i like pass by in the hallway, i would say hi and smile or start a small convo. Because i can't talk to him with his friends around. Plus, you should tell him how you feel also. Because if you don't talk to him he may think your scared and you don't want to look bad.
Good Luck
2007-02-23 19:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Fairytale * 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first u gotta make sure ur ready 2 finally say sumthing to him. practice by saying hi to him in the hallways. but don't make it that obvious, so say hi to other people u no n the hallway. then b4 skool, see if theres anyone in his group that u talk 2 and talk to them for a while. maybe ya's conversation may go from u & ur friend to the whole group. then maybe he'll start talking 2 u 2. since u were really talking to ur friend at first, maybe u'll gain confidence to respond when the dude ur crushing on talks. trust me. Its worked 4 me manys of times.
2007-02-23 19:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Domo-neek Can2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definalty know where your coming from girl because i'm also shy and have a big problem when it comes to boys. well maybe you can first try to talk to him in da hall ways or before school and say something like for an example so I heard your into biology well me 2... those are good conversation starters and another way you can wink and smile at him to show that your interested good luck!
2007-02-23 19:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sxyprnces0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to take advantage of people, but if someone you know or a friend talks to him more, stick with them a little bit. You might get a better chance with the crowd he's usually with.
2007-02-23 19:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by I completely understand you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is my plan... Long term plan..
1st, hang out with his buddies(I hope you have something in common with them).. from there try to be closer with him.. Like asking for his opinion on something...ask him out :) maybe around 1month? He might develop a crush on you.. Because guys like girls who know much about their hobbies :p
if you feel shy, ask 1 of your close friend to help out.. just make sure she doesnt end up with your guy... lol!
SHORT TERM plan
Give him a rose before school :) or after school
2007-02-23 19:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Tsarey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK SWETTY THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME ONCE BEFORE BUT IM NOT THE SHY TYPE.....U SHOULD GET OVER UR SHYNESS ITS ALL IN UR HEAD BECAUSE I AM NOT THE SHY TYPE...WELL THIS IS WHAT U SHOULD DO U SHOULD BUMP INTO HIM AND CAUSUALLY SAY HI HOWS IT GOING... AND IF THAT DOSENT WORK WELL WRITE HIM A NOTE AND ASK HIMOUT .BUT IF HE TURNS U DOWN PLEASE DONT GET DEPRESSED THEIRS PLEANTY OF GUYS OUT THEIR AND UR GONNA MEET THE RIGHT GUY ONE DAY OK I REALLY HELP THIS HELPS
2007-02-23 19:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by BLI-BLI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, i had the same problem. except the guy was in one of my classes and then the one time the teacher had us as partners and then after that i would just always say hi in the halls. he eventually found out that i liked him. however, things didnt go real well cuz he didnt wanna go out with me.
2007-02-23 19:36:12 · answer #8 · answered by hot g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id make sure that he doesn't think your weird or hates you but other then that bump in to him ("by accident"wink wink) and ask him out on a date or just to be your bf also you should just stay calm and do what comes natural
2007-02-23 19:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont feel wierd bout sayin hi cuz thats one of things u can say so just go up 2 him and say it. and then ask him hows it goin and then just talk casually.
2007-02-23 19:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by herimos 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋