I love my girlfriend so much. We've been together for 4 years already. She broke up with me since I push her to marry me but she didn't want to marry me. We are each 26 years old. I was very heartbroken that she didn't want to marry me. So, I uploaded a video of her (to lots of websites) stripping in front of the camera that she sent me while we were dating. Is that the right thing to do? I am really depressed about her breaking up with me.
2007-02-23 10:55:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-02-23 11:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, I wouldn't say you are evil but u did do something that wasn't very good for dealing with a relationship. I'm not here to hurt your feelings though. My advice to you would be to possibly take off the video from all the websites you posted it on. Then I would recommend that you get out there and try to find some one else. I wouldn't mention to the other person about the video mishap unless they ask and you feel confident in the person. And if you decide that you want to marry this person as well, propose and if you feel as if you are forcing here to marry you or say yes, then she is not the one for you. Don't see it as you doing something wrong though. That person was just not mature enough to handle a serious relationship.
Good luck and if you or any one else needs help, support, or advice, please email me at chey_semone@yahoo.com
2007-02-23 19:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by CheySemone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! that was really bad! be thankful she was honest and didn't marry you because she felt like she had to. you would have a bad marriage ending up in a ugly divorce. your still young take the time to heal, move on, and find someone who wants to marry you. I do think it was wrong that she wasted that much of your time if she knew she didn't want to marry you. hang in there. the right person for you will be sure from the start.
2007-02-23 19:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r not evil u just went 2 fast for i think maybe u should try 2 get in touch with her again ask 2 start over and next time don't push her. when she is ready too be married then u can throw on the tux & spend ya $1000 on a good ring. 1ce again your not evil you just made a mistake
2007-02-23 19:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Cyan & Garfield 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't the right thing to do but you acted out of hurt and anger. Just don't expect to get her back EVER after doing that. You sealed the coffin on that relationship. Hopefully, you will find someone to love even moe and who shares you desire to marry. Good luck man!
2007-02-23 18:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by OrangeCharlie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although it is a natural reaction to hurt the person who hurts us, what you have done is particularly nasty, you need to ask yourself how would it feel if it were you humiliated in this way. Also be aware in most countries it is a criminal offence to use a computer or internet to cause harassment, should the victim feel victimised or traumetised by your actions, she is entitled to report it to the police (US & UK) and you can look forward to an arrest and day in court, the US carries a 1yr jail term for internet harassment.
2007-02-23 19:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than evil, with all due respect you are an idiot. When you love someone you never do such a thing, and besides, doing it will simply guarantee that you will never ever get her back. At least, to recover your self decency and dignity, get the video out of the Internet now.
2007-02-23 19:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by MCM 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That was extremely wrong of you!! Shame on you!!
Now what if within time, you guys get back together, and she apologizes to you for breaking it off, and she admits that she was just afraid of marriage, but she came to realization that you are the one for her, and she wants to get married. Now what?!
Just wait until she finds out that you did that, and she will. There will be no hope for you. How dare you!!
2007-02-23 19:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by Loves It<3 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you seriouly need help thats past evil. No wonder she got rid of you!! You are a big baby she wont marry me so im going to embarrass her for god knows how long. You freak you. You need some help thank god she got rid of you!! OO and please share this story with the next girlfriend.
2007-02-23 19:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words cannot describe of what I would like to say to you and the names that I would like to call you ...you are a HORRIBLE...HORRIBLE PERSON... but it seems to me that you don't care because you need attention because you are some dirty low life.
I don't know how smart your ex is..but because you have posted her on the Internet with out a release form you can be sued for millions....by the way...I am a lawyer and I deal with these cases all the time....boy...you are in so much trouble...hope she is smart.
2007-02-23 19:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Evil....nooooo....immature, stupid, selfish, ruined your chances of ever getting her back, just reminded me of why I don't release pics of me to anyone, anytime, anywhere.
Learn from your mistakes, move on, and next time...do the right thing!
2007-02-24 01:21:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋