i'm only 15 years old with the mind of a 10 year old. i have allot of friends & i'm in sports (cross country and track) & honor classes. i've only had one boyfriend in my whole life & 1 kiss. now that i just started highschool.. there allot of boys asking me out. I'm not used to boys telling me i'm pretty. Last year. in 8th grade. i got tired of boys telling me i have a big butt. i geuss thats all they saw of me. i have low self esteem. i cover my big ears. even tho ppl tell me they arent even big. i have a big 4 head.i do not like my face. i'm scared of boys treating me like this. i would like a boyfriend. and another kiss. but i'm not even that experienced. i'm not like allot of my other girl friends who have the freedom of going to parties & going home till 2 in the morning. I know what most boys want. i'm still a virgin. i'm not used to boys treating me this way. telling me all these things & asking me out. when they do. i don't even give them an answer and avoid them. i'm scared
2007-02-23 10:58:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its against my religion to cut my hair. wear make up. i don't even have a tv... but thank you
2007-02-23 11:05:30 · update #1
well to make urself feel better. change ur look.. you should maybe cut ur hair a little get bangs, and wear it straight nad make it look good by wearin the bangs down in front of ur face. of course. and start hangin out with people more often but u DONT wanna give it up to any guy
2007-02-23 11:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you ever here the expression live to learn, well thast high school in a nut shell. heres the route u should follow to have a good high school time.
find a group of friends or at least one friend that u trust ur life with that is ur everythinggg -- cant go threw h.s alone! boys literally come and go all types too but ya u will find a guy u think is ur soulmate and they juss wanted *** and ur left hurt .. but thats considered a lesson that ur learning. strate up all the lessons u learn in h.s are going to be painful.. just never settle for some dude juss cuz heres there given attention.. settle for the dude who loves and respects you. right now inh.s that might come around but it would be rare. juss embrace the guys given u attention and boost ur self essteem .. nd if these dudes are pushy and u aint ready then just be like im not intrested if u dunt undersatdn then u arent worth my time
2007-02-23 11:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared face the world as it comes to you..It is good that your parents is not giving you the same freedom as other girls, trust me you will figure that out later. and stop thinkin about that you are not pretty every girl is pretty and if you want a boyfriend by your side try to get to know a guy you and dont be scared.. if you want you can meet the guy a couple of times together with your friend if you are scared.. later on I think you should let go of that and start to be strong and trusting yourself.. It will help you alot in life.
Good Luck
2007-02-23 11:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a 16-year-old daughter, and she's been through some of this but lately she's been a lot smarter about it all. She doesn't even want a boyfriend right now because she sees all her friends having problems with theirs - breakups that break their hearts, getting pregnant, getting hit, the boy being jealous if the girl wants to spend time with anyone else, etc. And my daughter has decided she wants the freedom to go out with friends and not have to worry about a boyfriend getting mad over it. Almost no high school relationships last, anyway, so why get so worked up over them? You have a whole lot of life ahead of you and you're too young to worry about all this. If boys bother you and you don't want to go out with any of them, you can tell them you don't want to be tied down to anyone right now.
I was considered an ugly ducking in high school and never even got asked out except by one guy who I went out with because I was too sensitive to hurt his feelings and say no! But we had nothing in common and didn't really enjoy each other's company and he didn't call me again, for which I was relieved! I didn't go out much in college but had the best time of my life doing whatever I wanted, and I wouldn't trade that for anything. Just keep up with your sports, I'm sure you have friends on the teams, right? Just enjoy your friends and your life right now and don't worry about boys.
2007-02-23 11:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by cmm_home 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not really a question.
If you have low self esteem then take the compliments for what they are....compliments
and you're 15 and still a virgin? sweety i didn't get my first kiss till i was 17 and lost my virginity at 18 when i was a senior!!! so don't feel rushed to get a boyfriend. but enjoy the attention.
2007-02-23 11:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tania La Güera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you start going out with boys, you need to love yourself. Boys and sex are nice but if you don't like yourself, who will? You sound like a nice girl. Don't let boys try to talk you into sex. If you don't want to, that is your right. I am a virgin and I am 19. I am happy with my choice. But back to loving yourself. You need to find something that you like about yourself. I never had the freedom to go to parties til 2 am as well. I am in college and I am happy that I didn't sleep around.
2007-02-23 11:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you shouldn't even be worrying about guys at your age. When you're anywhere NEAR the age of 30, and you're still unmarried, then I'd understand your concern. However, you're only fifteen! Chill out, and focus on your studies. Don't listen to whatever they have to say. I get that stuff a lot too. Snickers behind my back, whispers, gossip, all that jazz.
Stick to your studies. If you get a good future, you'll get a good boyfriend. :) And friends are always there for you! Don't worry about guys, since your friends will have your back.
2007-02-23 11:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by Kita 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its okay. You are just growing up. Take the complements and know that know matter what people say you have to learn to like yourself before you can have a boyfriend. Work on that and the rest will far into place.
Good luck.
2007-02-23 11:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by tasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 08:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny theres a big difference between middle school and high school!! dont believe everything everybody says in high school...your new to the school and young...thats a lil bit of a disadvantage!! if you find a nice guy who seems sincere and isnt trying to put his hands all over you when you go to the movies then that would be the one you want to get a kiss from!!
2007-02-23 11:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋