2007-02-23 10:50:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she said she has the hots for me, right in front of my whole family, shes always trying to sit on my lap and putting her legs on me. What should i do i tell her to stop but she doesnt care
2007-02-23 10:55:52 · update #1
Sometimes very insecure or shy girls will overly attach
themselves to a male member of their family to keep
from interacting emotionally or sexually with someone
they're not familiar with. This attention should not be
misconstrued as a "crush" unless she has told you of
her feelings. That's a problem for a family counsellor
to sort out. Meanwhile, talk to her about it, but be
subtle, you don't want to alienate her with unfounded
allegations....she's going to be your sister forever.
2007-02-23 11:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a problem. How old are you? Is she your step-sister or your real sister? It's not that weird if she's younger than you and she's a teenager too. Girls try to test out the waters with male family members at that age. It's a pretty common thing, just don't instigate any more behavior, ignore it.
2007-02-23 18:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by terabytemaniac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. Is she really young? Sometimes a young girl looks up to her father or older brother (a type of crush). That is probably all it is - the love of a sister for her older brother. Good Luck.
2007-02-23 18:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by seblexie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats a hard one. Cause, you can't ask her. If she makes advances, you need to politely and nicely decline them. Keep doing that until she gets the hint. Good luck.
2007-02-23 18:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start acting like an a$$hole to her if she doesn't take your hints that you are uncomortable make her uncomfortable or turn the tables and she will probably get a reality check or go on jerry springer
2007-02-23 19:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by yukonSLT3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Incest is illegal, bud. Tell her to date someone who doesn't have the same blood coursing through their veins. That's kind of disturbing. I don't think this is a real question.
2007-02-23 18:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Scarlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just really admires you. If she goes too far, go spend some more time out with friends, and ask them what they think.
2007-02-23 18:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Bananamerican 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi kyle,
brother-sister relation is most revered relation in our society. there are incidents of incests. try to advise ur sister to behave herself. find a suitable boy for.
2007-02-23 18:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be the fact that she admires you greatly as a hunky looking brother.
Her friends are probably pushing her and causing the stir....
They admire you.
2007-02-23 18:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL I have the hots for my lil bro too!!!!! Shes probly just jokin with ya, bud.
2007-02-23 19:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋