I love my girlfriend so much. We've been together for 4 years already. She broke up with me since I push her to marry me but she didn't want to marry me. We are each 26 years old. I was very heartbroken that she didn't want to marry me. So, I uploaded a video of her (to lots of websites) stripping in front of the camera that she sent me while we were dating. Is that the right thing to do? I am really depressed about her breaking up with me.
2007-02-23 10:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is horrible... think about how you would feel... she broke up with her because of you, meaning it was your fault you lost her! not hers! she would be hurt too and now you have hurt her more! shame on you! you should be depressed! your mean! you might have had a chance of getting her back before but now you f#*ked that up!!!
2007-02-23 11:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not evil, exactly, but sort of impulsive (or "weak", like the other poster said).
I won't dispute the fact that you love her, but I will state the fact that publicly embarrassing her on the Internet will only either (a) hurt her tremendously; or (b) push her further away from you - or of course both.
Bad move, brother.
Strong-arm tactics, power moves, and intimidation aren't the way to push relationships forward. The only women you'll attract with this method are those extremely weak on self-esteem - and those relationships will never resemble anything like love. Only an addictive sort of co-dependency.
Another word of advice: there's something a bit misguided about the phrase "push her to marry me". When "pushing" comes to play in a relationship, know that it's not very healthy.
Best of luck.
2007-02-23 11:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by thetragicfigure 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do YOU think? Of course that was evil and not the right thing to do. You reacted to the problem the wrong way. Just because she rejected you doesn't mean you should go ruin her life and embarrass her. You're going about this all wrong. If it's over, let it be. If you want her back or reconsider marrying you, now is too late because of what you've done. What you should have done was something to get her back with you not drive her further away.
2007-02-23 11:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-23 10:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u serious? Grow up and get a life, obviously she is not the one for u if she dont wanna marry u. Grow up and find someone else, ur a pig
2007-02-23 10:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not evil, just weak. Stop making such a big deal over it because stuff like that happens to everyone.
2007-02-23 11:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it was the right thing because..what if she wanted to start dating you again and possibly marraige...and then she finds out about what you did? or think of it like this..would you want her to do that to you?..I wouldnt
2007-02-23 11:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Fallen Pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are very evil. SLAP SLAP
2007-02-23 11:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE DONE THAT
TAKE OUT ALL THE VIDEO IF POSSIBEL
2007-02-23 10:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so horrible. im glad she left you.
2007-02-23 10:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋