Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

2007-02-22 14:51:39 · 7 answers · asked by claraphone 1 in Singles & Dating

I love her, but she loves him. She came "back" to me to find a house to live with me because she can not stand the people with whom she and her boyfriend are living. In the past three weeks, we did everything from kiss, hug to touch except sex. So I have a deep talk with her, and found out she still love her boyfriend, but she and her bf are having a little problem, they are like "trial separate" at the moment. You know what the problem is? The problem is her anger problem. He gave her four year's time to change it, and she agreed. And I asked her why do you love him, because her bf is kinda short, ugly, poor in study and selfish, and she answers she thought as long as she started a relationship, she's gotta be serious about it and won't end it easily unless the other one do so. She, as the most lovely and sexy woman in my eyes, said she sorta looks down herself. That's why she'd rather be a pet of some low quality guy.

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2007-02-22 14:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by tellthemfromme 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister Amber used to go out with this guy Darren for the half a year and were in love. To many, Darren is arrogant and a fighter. But he's a cool person to know. Real loyal and honest plus very funny. He was very sweet to Amber and me and my father liked him. Amber broke up with Darren two days before his b-day. Hes very popular with girls and this was the first time he'd ever been dumped so I guess it messed with his head or whatever. And he has been acting out of characther since. He even canceled his b-day party that he said was going to be huge. Plus the night he got dumped Amber was supposed to come back to check on him, she went to his house and he wasnt there. Only person that saw him that night was his best friend Matt who said dude was crying like a little baby. Darren is a really tough guy so I cant even picture that. Matt is a reliable source since Darren and Matt are like family and they call eachother "brother". Then Darren just disappeared for a week and neither I or Amber saw him. Amber saw him a couple days ago and he has all these bruises on his face. His face was just swollen. We asked Matt and Matt is like "Yeah he was in the hospital." but he didnt say why. Then I asked his cousin Aminah what happened and she said he did it to himself. So later Amber asked Darren what happened and he said that he fell down and hit his face. But when I asked him he said that he was boxing his cousin and got hit hard. He doesnt even have any male cousins in town so nothing makes sense. I know that his father used to abuse his mother when he was a kid and hit him once, but he lives with his mother now and they havent been with his father since he was 7 (he 19 now) so who could have beat him? And who telling the truth? Amber is worried about him should she be? He dont even smile anymore or act the same.

2007-02-22 14:51:07 · 5 answers · asked by shortydeemac 1 in Friends

The qualities that made you think you couldn't let her go....

2007-02-22 14:51:06 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you stick in a toaster?

2007-02-22 14:50:57 · 8 answers · asked by somerandomguy702 2 in Weddings

i'm not going to call him, i'll wait for the right time to come, but what should i talk about if i just want to talk. we always talk about other people, like gossip. but i don' like gossiping. what are some other things to talk about?

2007-02-22 14:50:19 · 7 answers · asked by jesse's girl 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-22 14:49:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do about telling him it is really over this time? I don't kno what to tell him? Because he doesn't leave me alone!

2007-02-22 14:49:17 · 8 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

What do like girls to do while french kissing? Please be DETAILED so that I can try them on my new boyfriend.

2007-02-22 14:49:15 · 5 answers · asked by I Care 1 in Singles & Dating

i dated a guy long time ago who is now one of my friend boyfriend , he is a player a week ago ago he call me for a booty call and i said no ,he told me no one is going to know he try to convince me that he likes me and blah blah ...everyones knows that he is cheating on her with differents girls , we try to tell her but she always telling us that she is the only one in his life and all kind of things that she making herself believe yesthurday he call me and told me that he admit that he is a player and still having a girlfriend he feel single and doesnt care about her i told him that stop bothering me and hung up i wish i just grab my friend and sit her up and tell her that he does not like her at all !!! i know that is not my problem my friends tell me that let her find out for herself but i feel like she deserve to know what kind of guy is he any advice please?????

2007-02-22 14:46:57 · 14 answers · asked by lachina 1 in Friends

Ok so its like this im 20 went on a date with a really nice and sweet guy......but not all that attracted two him......he keeps on wanting to hang out........how do i let him down easy???? i dont want to hurt his fellings???? have you been in this situation??

2007-02-22 14:46:33 · 13 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

What are the things that would make you want to marry certain woman? Or if you're married, what made you fall in love with your wife and want to be with her the rest of your life?

2007-02-22 14:46:21 · 21 answers · asked by BeckhamGirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in college right now, and there is this girl in my Sociology class, and the thing I want to ask is should i give her as much space as possible. We've been talking since the 2nd week the class began, and last week (Valentines Day) me and her were talking after class, and then she asked me for my #.

The thing of is, she has a b/f. And then yesterday when I saw her, I she waved to me, then after class I was talking to her about her V-Day, and she told me it was ok and etc. But the ironic part is that her next class is next to mine, and since I had a test yesterday I finished early, so I decided to wait for her after her next class, so when her next class was over I tapped her on her shoulder, and she asked me why did I wait for her. I replied to her by saying my class finished early, so I decided to talk to you more.

My main concern about this is that did I overcrowd her with space or what. Any solutions to help me not have her think I'm crazy or weird?

2007-02-22 14:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by moneyisalwayshere 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy i have a crush on found out i liked him but he found out the wrong way and it scared him off(i'd say what happened ut its a long story). He sorta ignores me now but he will blush sometimes when i talk him. Apparently all his friends know i like him so im wondering if thats why he acts different now. Im at a loss for what do.

2007-02-22 14:45:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to know what reasons do u think people have for getting married?

2007-02-22 14:44:55 · 10 answers · asked by kim14electra 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Should my mother restrict me from doing things with the person i love? Is it okay for her to limit my time with him? Its been 4 years with this person and i am 18. Even if she doesn't like him, is she right? How should i consider her feelings when i oppose in some way? .... be fair.

2007-02-22 14:44:09 · 8 answers · asked by chepi 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright... what do you all think? Do you think that girls would rather be with a 'hot' or a 'cute' guy?

2007-02-22 14:43:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is your ideal girl??.......whats the most important thing about a girl........what grabs your attetion??????

2007-02-22 14:42:52 · 6 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

My 21 year old sister is living with her boyfriend, something my parents know nothing about. We traveled down 4 hours to see another sister whose son is having emergency surgery and her boyfriend came down with her. We are really uncomfortable with this situation. She's never been so obvious before. They're staying in a hotel together. She expects us to be happy for her, b ut we're a pretty conservative family and not going to be happy for anyone living with their boyfriends. How should we react to this? When I didn't seem really happy with her, she asked what was wrong and I can't be happy about the situation. Isn't this disrespectful towards my parents?

We don't want to come down hard because that could create a risk, and it is her life. Why does she want us to be happy about it?

No one has said anything to her about this because we are worried about my nephew's surgery, but what about in the future?

2007-02-22 14:42:50 · 10 answers · asked by svs_g 4 in Family

2007-02-22 14:42:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hung out with this guy that asked me out for the first.. he lives about a 50 min drive away from me so he came and got me...that day there was a snow storm so everything including the movies got closed.. so we ended up not doing ANYTHING.. i felt bad because he drove all that way then he just had to drive back ... he was quiet in the car and he asked me why i was too but i really was because i felt bad he came all that way n we didn't do anythig...when we got to my house i told himn that maybe we can do this another time and he was like cool.. i called him an hour later to see if he got home safe and everthing which he was and he told me that he would call me back..he hasn't since....should i call him??? cause bi really like him...help..suggestions..what do u think he thinks??????? i don't know what to do or what to think

2007-02-22 14:41:58 · 22 answers · asked by Am so Curious 4 in Singles & Dating

Today was the hearing and we were told the divorce would be granted but the judge would take a week to review the separation agreement before issuing a final decree. It was the end of a loveless marriage and we would have preferred to file no-fault but South Carolina is not a no-fault state so my ex filed adultery against me, even though we had both moved on to other relationships. He is in the military and for me to have filed against him could have damaged his career. Neither of us wanted animosity and wanted it to be as smooth as possible.

However now I am concerned that the judge could possibly "punish" me for adultery by altering the separation agreement regarding child custody. In the agreement I have sole physical custody and we have joint legal. He's in a highly mobile military unit and is not home 200+ days of the year and did not want the children anyway. I desperately do want them.

What are the odds the judge will keep the agreement as is? Nerves are frayed...

2007-02-22 14:41:41 · 6 answers · asked by NDO 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if a girl borrow a guys cellphone. looked through it. and find naked pictures of girls. what would the girl think.(if you are the girl.)

2007-02-22 14:41:30 · 2 answers · asked by Klaire 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm starting to belive that my husband hates me, and for reasons I do not know. I can't tell if I'm the cause of his hatred, or if he is just a hateful person in general. I have been married for 5 years, and our relationship has slowly declined into a co-habitation. When is enough, enough? He always says he wants our marriage to work, but we just make each other miserable. What should I do?

2007-02-22 14:40:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend, seems to have all of the good qualities that i dont have. and she makes it seem so easy. such as a good attitude, and seeing life as somthing that is good. i really dont.

an opinion please?

2007-02-22 14:40:24 · 17 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

I am putting together a book for my dads 70th birthday with letters from friends and family that they have written about my father. I have also obtained pictures of my father from when he was young to present day. Does anyone have any ideas how to make it into a real book? Kinkos maybe...I really have no clue. Help! I only have a few weeks left!

2007-02-22 14:39:08 · 3 answers · asked by michelle a 1 in Family

2007-02-22 14:39:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, there is this really cute guy in my school, junior high,and i like him. i have his email, phone number....everything. and he gave them all to me. i email him all the time and at all of our emails he writes i love you. and he says he wants to always keep in touch with me no matter what. we never called eachother yet but i want to call him really bad! my parents know i like him, isn't that the bast, and he is the smartest kid in his class and i know my parents should let me hang out with him because he is really focused on his grades. i need help. what should i do?!

2007-02-22 14:38:52 · 11 answers · asked by jesse's girl 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know where he goes all the time, he gets a lot of phone calls

2007-02-22 14:38:19 · 3 answers · asked by kat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

At least I think I am...My friends usually take leave off "work" after lunch break *2.30-6/5.30pm* and they slip away usually before lunch, around 11.30am. I intent to do the same today BUT my "boss" told my team to meet him at 2.00pm *because i approach him to discuss something and 1 of my teammate is gone, had to make decision and afraid the rest of my team aren't up to it*, I had no choice but to stay until 2.30pm. HOW UNLUCKY I CAN GET? Just need so advice to make me feel that's something in this world to appreciate. *I HATE MYSELF*

2007-02-22 14:38:10 · 3 answers · asked by _bears_ 1 in Friends