I love her, but she loves him. She came "back" to me to find a house to live with me because she can not stand the people with whom she and her boyfriend are living. In the past three weeks, we did everything from kiss, hug to touch except sex. So I have a deep talk with her, and found out she still love her boyfriend, but she and her bf are having a little problem, they are like "trial separate" at the moment. You know what the problem is? The problem is her anger problem. He gave her four year's time to change it, and she agreed. And I asked her why do you love him, because her bf is kinda short, ugly, poor in study and selfish, and she answers she thought as long as she started a relationship, she's gotta be serious about it and won't end it easily unless the other one do so. She, as the most lovely and sexy woman in my eyes, said she sorta looks down herself. That's why she'd rather be a pet of some low quality guy.
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2007-02-22 14:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by tellthemfromme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Last three weeks we had the best moments in our lives, we laughed and laughed and laughed, even she said she is happier with me than him, and she did more things for me than him, she doesn't like to leave him for me, instead, she will leave me for him. After another deep talk last night, and we know I am kind to her because I want to be her boyfriend, and she is kind to me because she want to be my friend, and after the word I said about how I wasted my love. She is kinda unhappy and decided to move out after two weeks. --- not to her boyfriend's, but to someone she never knows. Because she thinks it's GOOD FOR BOTH OF US.
I love her, I cried and cried in my room last night. And now I want to hear from you, what should I do? I am really confused and, a little heartbroken.
2007-02-22 14:51:29 · update #1
You need to have her make the decision to go back to her boyfriend, or stay with you. Talk to her. She cant have both.
2007-02-22 14:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wake up and see how this girl is emotional unstable she leave one guy for another and she hugging and kissing you. And you don't see anything wrong with that? Then she leave you for some guy she doesn't know what make you think that she not hugging and kissing this guy too and having sex. Ask yourself is this the kind of woman I would want to have 82 kids with? I hope not, she not stable, suggest that she get some counseling and that you wait five years before dating that chick. Tell her good-bye
2007-02-22 23:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, U have to explained & tell her everything, the truth about what U feel , .. then.. Let her find her path... I think she's still confused & doesn't really know what she wanted in life. Just show how much u care about her, & at same time give some space for her. But, life must go on... get over it, & move ON! If u can find someone along your path, go for it.
2007-02-22 23:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by yana_ano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously more interested in the other guy. She's stepping all over you by using you emotionally. You'll feel better about yourself if you stand up to her and get rid of her. They say love is blind and this is an example of that. She clearly has not chosen you and you need to stand up, be a man and move on. You deserve someone better who can commit to you and only you.
2007-02-22 22:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to sit down and have a talk with her and if she needs to move out in order for you mend your broken heart then do so
2007-02-22 22:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-20 03:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her have time to think about it .....don't make her feel suffocated and don't put pressure on her. She knows how you feel about her and if she really likes you then shell come to you........sounds like she had low self ea stem tell her how gorgeous she is and remind her of all her good qualities and good luck......just remember if its ment to be it will be dont force it
2007-02-22 22:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your EX. Get over yourself. MOve on buddy.
2007-02-22 22:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by willeum 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You Said "Ex" not Me.
2007-02-22 22:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋