2007-02-22 14:42:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no
2007-02-22 14:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
well that's always a good thing but...a good lover makes love to you in many more ways than that....he must spend cuddle time with you.....sometimes women just want/need the soft gentle touch of a hand. being a good lover can be the simplist of things like...a kiss in the morning...non sexual touching (touching that doesn't lead to 'sex') is very important...just a walk in the rain or bringing you wild flowers that HE picked along the road
well i could go on and on but the main thing is there is more to being a lover than giving you an orgasm
2007-02-22 14:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by mrs_b40 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this could be a perplexing question. on a similar time as that is real that an 8" penis supplies a lots fuller feeling than a smaller one, that is no longer spectacular to deliver it up and embarrass the husband with regard to the topic. She married you understanding o.k. the size of your gadget. This appears like some style of psychological punishment or abuse to you. particularly that she did no longer have the class to stick up for you which of them incorporate your individual daughter. i could be prepared to guess that this is going returned to her own upbringing. somebody above reported that it must be a backdoor attitude to bringing in a third party to the mattress room. I agree. reckoning on how lots you like your spouse, you're open to the belief. on a similar time as that is no longer in all risk consumer-friendly, it rather is a existence variety that some consenting adults savour. (that must be us) that is an extraordinarily astounding gesture for the husband to permit his spouse to savour some thing "large" maybe once or twice throughout a month. There could be rules, and you could't deviate from those or there'll be an entire loss of have faith and love. you should indulge her fantasies next time only the two one among you're out with the aid of pointing out the adult adult males with a large kit of their pants. maybe with the aid of only acknowledging this you should sidestep her desires? or whether you flow dancing together with her, you should enable her to bounce with the adult adult males with the biggest bulges that are seen. It sounds very perplexing so which you would be able to return to grips with what mom Nature has given you as your individual. 6" is particularly superb, yet 8" is a extensive distinction. even nonetheless it nevertheless isn't spectacular to abuse you interior the mean time. Have a communication which incorporate your spouse and discover out how heavily she needs some thing bigger. If she says she rather would not choose some thing bigger than you, ask her to provide up the abuse via fact it rather is ruining your marriage. solid luck!
2016-11-25 01:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it makes u a good lover in just that sense! I think it tells u that you know what ur doing and where her spot is to make her do so, as long as u both give eachother ur needs in bed then that makes u a good lover i think!
2007-02-22 14:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion no, he is thoughtful but that is different than being a good lover. Most men can get you off but that doesn't mean they are good in bed, there is so much more to it. But if he is thoughtful and good, you keep him.
2007-02-22 15:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he is not as excited as his wife is. The fact remains that the wife continues to enjoy being pumped even afterwards unlike men who cannot pump after orgasm.
2007-02-22 15:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The ultimate is having it happen together, at the same time...but this doesn't need to happen every time and I think letting each other "get there" first every now and then is just one of the different ways to change it up, spice it up...
2007-02-22 16:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Basically, yes.
Unselfishness is the #1 criteria for a good lover.
2007-02-22 14:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by Been there 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex has nothing to do with being a good husband. it is all about the love you share with each other.
2007-02-22 16:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by nclonewolf1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes! But as long as she can have an orgasm it does not matter who gets there first.
2007-02-22 14:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he can blow your mind then yes he is a good lover. If he needs some work then tell him so.
2007-02-22 16:35:30 · answer #11 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋