my girlfriend, seems to have all of the good qualities that i dont have. and she makes it seem so easy. such as a good attitude, and seeing life as somthing that is good. i really dont.
an opinion please?
2007-02-22 14:40:24 · 17 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so accept it and be thankful.
tell her you love that about her.
its a good thing.
would you rather her be negative and bitter?
try to be a little lighter..
and enjoy her.
try to catch some of the optimism.
be happeh!
:]
dude, apreciate this girl, there are not alot of the happy ones out there! hope she makes you smile.
2007-02-22 14:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by ninjah_jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are irritated by the fact that you have different attitudes towards life? Is it because you wish you had her positivity? You can train yourself to be like that, you know? It takes time, but if you try to see what´s good about something when she talks about it, that´d be a good starting point. If you are ok as who you are right now, then maybe being together won´t last too long...
2007-02-22 22:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by No se 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that if she has these positive qualities, you'd be happy that she does. Rejoice in the fact that she is positive and be happy for what you have. Is it possible that you're jealous that she has such positive characteristics and you don't? Maybe she's been placed in your life to show you how you need to be...just a thought.
2007-02-22 22:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Michele D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm that is weird i mean she is your girlfriend ,yet you hate those qualities,
perhaps you hate it because you know that deep down inside she is right, that it really should be easy to put on a good attitude because the world will smile with you, and that she is still positive in life after all the things that are happening
i hope you get infected by her joy and happiness
2007-02-22 22:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is what makes a good relationship.......she has all the qualities that you dont, and you have all the qualities that she doesnt........you complete her and she completes you.......i am sure that you can point out that the world is not perfect, that there are mistakes to be made and that have been made, and know what it is like to go through a tough time and have stuff go wrong, and when that stuff starts happening to her, you can relate and sympathize because you have been through it, chances are because she hasn't, she won't know what to do or how to act and will need comfort and support during those times.
2007-02-22 22:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about your view of life itself, dont try to focus on the qualities you dont have. Find the ones you do that you like. I mean if shes that wonderful you must be doing something right.
2007-02-22 22:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Katie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract I guess. Her sunny nature makes the ordinarily gloomy you happy, that's a good thing!!
2007-02-22 22:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't bothered by your differences, you shouldn't be either. The energetic optimistic person you know is who she is. If you don't like that about her, I really wonder why you're dating. Chances are, you love who she is, and just wish you could match up? She doesn't want you to. She likes you for YOU, not for being like HER.
2007-02-22 22:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by MLR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is just the girl for you. Opposites attract you know. Hope she is the stronger of the two of you so she can pull you up instead of you pulling her down!!!
2007-02-22 22:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by Diana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
couples work best when they compliment each other characteristically and personality wise. you have traits she doesnt have and thats why the two of you are attracted to each other. people are attracted to others who have qualities they can defy.
2007-02-22 23:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by astella_interrupted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋