I'm in college right now, and there is this girl in my Sociology class, and the thing I want to ask is should i give her as much space as possible. We've been talking since the 2nd week the class began, and last week (Valentines Day) me and her were talking after class, and then she asked me for my #.
The thing of is, she has a b/f. And then yesterday when I saw her, I she waved to me, then after class I was talking to her about her V-Day, and she told me it was ok and etc. But the ironic part is that her next class is next to mine, and since I had a test yesterday I finished early, so I decided to wait for her after her next class, so when her next class was over I tapped her on her shoulder, and she asked me why did I wait for her. I replied to her by saying my class finished early, so I decided to talk to you more.
My main concern about this is that did I overcrowd her with space or what. Any solutions to help me not have her think I'm crazy or weird?
2007-02-22 14:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by moneyisalwayshere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she is confused. Maybe you are giving her too much space. If she has a boyfriend you need to be more visible.
2007-02-22 14:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I promise you that I just went through the same exact situation. The girl I was seeing had just had her aunt commit suicide, and she asked for space we hadn't hung out for like 2 weeks. I didn't call her once. I felt the urge to call her every day though. I thought, maybe just one text. But trust me, it doesn't help. All you can do is hope that she likes you enough and misses you enough to still be with you. Or friends with you, depending on your situation. Long story short, the reason she asked for space is because she just lost interest in me and she ended up finding somebody else. There was nothing I could do or say. We can't force somebody to love us, miss us, or want to be with us. As sad as it is, we just can't. I'm not trying to leave you on a negative note, I'm just saying what I went through, and the reality of the situation. So just give her space. Don't call her, text her, fb her. If she really wants to be with you, then she will let you know. I hope everything works out for you man. I'm still dealing with a broken heart
2016-05-24 00:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you looking for trouble? If she does date you, it shows she is a user. This means she will only repeat the process on you later. If she breaks up, do you really want to be the rebound guy? Worse yet what if the semester ends and you have made no real progress with any female becuase you are chasing the forbiden fruit?
Find your own fruit, make sure it is available, and can love you back properly.
2007-02-22 14:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by xillith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your going to play the game fair, give her space. Otherwise, make your move man. You are the lothario, the romancer, the rake! Be daring my good man. Give the lady something that will make her believe in life and happiness. She is dieing with b/f.
Rescue her. Only you can do it!
2007-02-22 14:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by TzodEarf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... sounds weird. First she asks you for your number then is surprised that you're interested. In any case, I'd hang back while she's still got a b/f.
2007-02-22 14:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is short
love is hard
go give em
a valentine card
if that fails
dont forget the nails
because of that
your hear them wail
my back my back
from the top
to my crack
oh please baby
just play with my sack
2007-02-22 14:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋