I hung out with this guy that asked me out for the first.. he lives about a 50 min drive away from me so he came and got me...that day there was a snow storm so everything including the movies got closed.. so we ended up not doing ANYTHING.. i felt bad because he drove all that way then he just had to drive back ... he was quiet in the car and he asked me why i was too but i really was because i felt bad he came all that way n we didn't do anythig...when we got to my house i told himn that maybe we can do this another time and he was like cool.. i called him an hour later to see if he got home safe and everthing which he was and he told me that he would call me back..he hasn't since....should i call him??? cause bi really like him...help..suggestions..what do u think he thinks??????? i don't know what to do or what to think
2007-02-22 14:41:58 · 22 answers · asked by Am so Curious 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did call him a hour later to make sure he got home safe so wouldnt u take that as she's not mad...???
2007-02-22 14:50:55 · update #1
Sounds like you made a horrible impression. You should have asked him inside and talked or watched a movie or something. I wouldn't call you back if I made all that effort for nothing, either. How BORING!
2007-02-22 14:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm, doesnt say how long ago this was. I would leave it about a week before calling again. Maybe u could just text him then and ask how he's doing, try and build up a bit of a dialogue first before you mention doing something else again if thats what you want to do. I wouldn't worry about what happened last time though, he didnt drive 50 mins to go to the cinema, he drove to see you and thats what he got to do. Sounds kind of romantic to me anyway, driving around together in the snow. Next time just try not to be so quiet, if he's a bit quiet himself you have to try and take the lead a bit with the conversation so it doesnt feek awkward. xx good luck
2007-02-22 22:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by hillpip_123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't call him back. Live and learn. You should have told him when he was there and you had the chance that you were sorry he had driven all that way and everything was shut. Before he left you should have made it clear that you were attracted to him. NO reason why you couldn't have watched a movie at your house or made dinner etc... Too little too late darlin. If he don't call your loss. Hate to sound mean because i am not trying to be. Just i have made this mistake before. It sucks! I don't envy you at all!
2007-02-22 22:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by LM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if the guy drove 50 minutes to see you, he must have some sort of feelings for you. I say relax and let him call you. If you don't hear form him within a few more days then I would call him again. If you don't get him then, well then I'd be done calling, don't act desperate for a man. If he truly likes you he will show it.
2007-02-22 22:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be a big step asking a new person out and then it turning out the way it did...bad karma...It would be a nice gesture if you called him and suggested something else that would give you both a chance to enjoy each others company...have a back up plan just in case wheather changes your plans again...good luck.
2007-02-22 22:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's nothing personal--maybe he's been extremely busy and couldn't call. I know it doesn't seem like that, but he shouldn't be angry about coming to see you and not being able to do anything...he should be happy that he got to see you! I say just wait it out, but you could try calling him since it has been a while. Just be honest and ask him what's up with him.
2007-02-22 22:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by babyi'melectricc. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to call him. If he likes you and is interested in your attention, then he won't mind if you call over and over. Just don't annoy the heck out of him by continuously calling.
It's okay to call once a day.
It's better to call every other day.
If you wait two days it might be too late, so don't run that risk.
If he gets annoyed by your genuine interest in him, then he is obviously not very interested in you.
Take it from me. I'm a guy.
2007-02-22 22:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by willeum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it been a week yet? This date was very casual, wait a week and call him. Make sure YOU have all the details planned. He'll either say no or yes. If it is no, now you know, move on. If it is yes 'sometime' same thing, move on. Should be a yes.
2007-02-22 22:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by xillith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he forgot...he might be just as worried as you are b/c you havent called him. he could be testing you. but probly not. maybe he just not a phone guy. my boyfriend loves the hell out of me but he doesnt really like to talk on the phone that much or text and stuff. thats just the way he is, it may not mean he doesnt like you. give him time to call and if he doesnt, call him ONCE and then give up. if he wants to talk, he'll call, but at least be able to say you tried.
2007-02-22 22:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by Audrey D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has a very comfortable life like in a box where he closes the lid and shuts himself in .He works too hard to experience that majical part of life. He s secure in that way.When he decides to RUN.. all he needs is a box luggage or paper sack to travel where he cuts his path.down the highway. He leaves it in the dust cause hes always in a rush.
2007-02-22 22:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋