Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

... and they have no erotic joy in their life because they in effect have no sex partner in their life, and because they are married, they don't want anyone else, and they can't legitimately get with someone else either.

In other words, isn't V-day the everlovin' pits for those forced into sexlessness by their anti-sex or sex averse spouse?

Just reading the cards about how great they make your life cuts like a knive when all you get is neglect and/or sexual rejection.

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2007-02-14 04:46:09 · 12 answers · asked by JRSK007 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my dads girlfriend and him just got a new house and we moved in and now she is moving out because me and my sister use drugs but she knew that to begin with......should i feel bad? im not going to stop over that...

2007-02-14 04:45:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend set up this really romantic get away on Valentine's Day and I was snowed in so I could't go. I tried calling him to apoligize and he's not pickig up my calls. I really love him. Wat should I do?

2007-02-14 04:45:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He stopped by my office, brought me lunch & Roses and before he left he said "bend over and touch your toes and I'll show you where the wild goose goes"


He is such a romantic.....Oh how I love that man of mine!

2007-02-14 04:45:25 · 7 answers · asked by Karen 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, but I'm not sure if he likes me back. How can I find out if he likes me, without asking him in his face?? Please help. I stink at this stuff! Any answer will be greatly appreciated :)

2007-02-14 04:45:07 · 14 answers · asked by :) 4 in Singles & Dating

would you go out with a straight guy that is weak and has feminine girlish caracteristics. Why or why not?

2007-02-14 04:45:01 · 10 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 04:44:58 · 5 answers · asked by bluemami06 1 in Singles & Dating

How can we move forward together?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and one month. He is 35 and I am 20. I am now 4 1/2 months pregnant with our first child. He is very excited about the baby.

Last August, he cheated on me with his ex-wife. (of whom he has 3 other children with.) Although he did not want to, I begged him to tell me exactly what happend, every detail of it. He always tells me how much he loves me, always there for me, and that it was a big mistake.

This was the first time he has ever been unfaithful to someone. On the first week that it happend, he would always cry and ask for me not to leave him. I love him too much to, but my self-esteem is low, I have no trust for ANYONE, and my emotions are a rollercoaster. (also before I was pregnant.) I still feel betrayed and broken down no matter how much he tells me that he loves me and how beautiful I am to him. (which is a lot)

We both want to repair this and live our lives together, but how do I move forward without holding a grudge?

2007-02-14 04:43:58 · 13 answers · asked by bella_honeylove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For some reason I just dont know why, but my bf and I always have problems when a special day is coming up. This is the 2nd time this had happened between us. (And it's always becasue of his ex.) Why is this happening?

2007-02-14 04:43:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 04:43:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a limited things to set the mood, I dont want to light candles but have sexy outfit, I should take a shower, snow is outside, cant go out, what should I do???

2007-02-14 04:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by short_girl2001 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help! I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months. We are both in love with one another. She has a 4 yr old daughter who I love also. Now, I am very unsocial. I get very anxious in social situations, and I even get nervous around her sometimes, which is pathetic in my opinion. I keep thinking to myself that I'm not good enough to be with her, but I treat her like a queen. I am not clingy, I take her and her daughter places, and I help her out a lot. I think actions speak louder than words. In the past, I told her that I feared she would get bored of me, but she has said that she loves me. One part of me thinks that she would not say she loved me if she truly didn't because she has a daughter in the picture. They are both in Hawaii, and I got a phone call last night. Her daugher was on the phone crying and saying how much she missed me. I love them both, and I don't want to lose them. I just think that with my bad upbrining, I'm going to make them miserable. Advice?

2007-02-14 04:42:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 04:41:49 · 48 answers · asked by nishaskpatial 1 in Weddings

peope who havent lived it judge u?

2007-02-14 04:41:31 · 12 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 04:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by ROCK 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm a teenager i liv with bro nd mom, i think mom's loosing her control over us.she upset bout smthin nd i'm worried.
how can i help her in this kinda of situation?
pls help me
grl who needs help urgently

2007-02-14 04:40:37 · 34 answers · asked by lolpree 1 in Friends

I have a friend that I've been friends with since 3rd grade. In 7th grade her and her family moved far away. Since then we have kept in touch and talk on a regular basis. We see each other every two years or so. When we were little we use to talk about how we were going to be each others Maid of Honor. I am now 28 and 2 years ago she got married and asked me to be her Maid of Honor. I was a little surprised because so much time had passed I would have thought she would have chosen someone else. When I was 20 I met another girl who has been basically my best friend since. We lived together for 5 years and a have a wonderful friendship. She has helped me get through so many tough situations. I couldn't imagine getting married with out her right next to me. I am now engaged and have the dilemma of do I ask my best friend of 9 years or do I go with my childhood friend from 3rd grade. She kept her promise.....I feel almost inclined to have her has my maid of honor. suggestions?

2007-02-14 04:40:23 · 20 answers · asked by Smiles 1 in Weddings

When I was 11 me and my two little brothers whent to mexico because my mom had cancer.My mom passed away and a couple mo. later me & one of my brothers (the oldest) came back to the U.S.
My question is don't I have the right to bring my brother back? He was born here (Kansas) and our dad is no longer in the picture. He is with my grandma now. What can I do?

2007-02-14 04:39:11 · 4 answers · asked by .:♥x♥:. 1 in Family

well if you think that is bad idea you are wrong i loved that dog with all my hart but since i was so sick and been in hospital for a quite time who is going to take care of him? i have my kids to think about right now if i am single ill keep him. i asked you becouse i am so hartbroken right now not becouse iam some stupid without hart at all person. and my spelling by the way KAZACAN is my problem i guess with trhee bussines i have people that work for me i don't need to spell corectly. i come here in the u.s not that long ago and i couldn't say one word on english but guess what i learn more in these couple years than you will for the rest of your life KAZACAN. thank you for your support

2007-02-14 04:38:47 · 7 answers · asked by melitinam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here is the story, my ex and I have been broken up for a few months now, we were together for over three years and I was so in love, I lost everything to him so now its really hard to let him go, In the begging of the break up it was ok, we still talked and still were having sex, then a month ago he tells me he is moved on and isnt in love with me anymore, I was so upset beacuse he kept saying he wanted to work everything out before we got back together, so I was confused, The past month have been really hard for me, he has been going out meeting girls and parting alot whitch he never really did when we were together, Now i am here trying to get my mind off him and move on like he did, He told me last night that the reason he goes and partys now is to keep his mind off me, so is he really over me? IDK he also told me he doesnt love me though to, I really need to move on and have some fun but beacuse he was my life for so long i dont know how to even start. how to I move on this time

2007-02-14 04:38:37 · 13 answers · asked by Brooke 2 in Singles & Dating

I've seen alot of questions go through on I'm a single guy/girl, how do I find a nice single guy/girl. Kinda of questions. So lets help each other out. Where do you nice single women hang out, same for guys. As for me.... I go to the bar very occasionally. But I don't look to meet a nice girl there. In the summer I'm at the beach, on the boardwalk, at the store, hanging outside. Most guys don't care when they get hit on, I've heard otherwise from women. So women, try to make it a little easier for men. Men don't mind getting asked out. So where do you nice women hang out that you would want to get picked up? Other nice single guys, where do you hang out?

2007-02-14 04:38:26 · 4 answers · asked by whatever 2 in Singles & Dating

plz help !

2007-02-14 04:37:51 · 11 answers · asked by guru ji 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am lucky in buisness and very unlucky in love......

2007-02-14 04:37:43 · 39 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

Have you encountered parents who seem to have lost perspective? I'd like to hear your story. Here's my example:

I am a cancer survivor. At the height of my battle, I had radiation sickness and water on my brain. I lost all motor skills-walking, writing, brushing my teeth, etc- I had gained 50 steroid induced pounds in 3 months from the heavy steroid dosage I was on. Several times, when people saw how uncomfortable I was in my bloated, broken body, people said to me, "Now you know how hard it is to be pregnant." I mean, COME ON! Right?

2007-02-14 04:37:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Going to Vegas tonight, which is kind of our Valentines gift to eachother.
we agreed not to go out and spend money on eachother so we can have a better time in Vegas this weekend. But Is there something else i can do for him thats small and wont break our little deal? A little nice token of appreciation?

2007-02-14 04:37:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to be gone for 1 week.. and I want to send him more than 1 post card, because I want him to feel like I REALLY miss him and that I'm not going around with other guys, cuz i really won't be.

2007-02-14 04:36:58 · 1 answers · asked by mindi 4 in Singles & Dating

They would die if that was done to them but they say "life happens." He left his wife and kids behind. Everyone thought highly of the wife yet, for example, they gave a superbowl party and invited the ex and his girlfriend. What is that?

2007-02-14 04:35:55 · 20 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 04:35:48 · 29 answers · asked by ROCK 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 04:35:47 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 04:35:27 · 28 answers · asked by Diesel Weasel 7 in Marriage & Divorce